The Silencers in the Quarrel: Why Do They Choose Not to Speak?
In the ocean of emotions of the family, every drop of water carries a different story and emotion. Sometimes, we encounter such a scene: in the heat of a quarrel, there is always one party who chooses to be silent, as if they have become an island in this storm, quietly bearing everything. Today, I want to tell a story like this, the inner world behind silence.
The protagonists of the story are Xiao Wang and Xiao Li, a couple who have been married for many years. In the eyes of outsiders, they are a model couple, but every family has its own difficulties. On this day, because of a trivial matter, the quarrel between the two was ignited like a powder keg.
Why are you always like this? Xiao Wang's voice was full of accusations.
Xiao Li opened his mouth, but finally chose to be silent. Her eyes were full of mixed emotions, including grievances, exhaustion, and helplessness.
Such scenes are not uncommon in their lives. Every time he quarrels, Xiao Li is always the one who is silent. It's not that she doesn't want to refute, but she feels that in such an emotion, any words are pale, and may even exacerbate the contradiction.
Xiao Wang's accusations continued like a barrage, and his words revealed dissatisfaction and disappointment. He felt that he had given a lot in his marriage and was not getting the response he deserved. He didn't understand why Xiao Li always chose to be silent.
However, Xiao Li's inner world is not what Xiao Wang imagined. She was silent because she was afraid that her words would hurt the other person, and she was afraid that this quarrel would cause a rift in their relationship. She chose to remain silent and guarded this marriage in her own way.
As time passed, Xiao Wang's mood gradually calmed down. He began to realize that his accusations might have been too harsh. He looked at Xiao Li's silent back, and a sense of guilt welled up in his heart. He walked over and gently hugged Xiao Li.
Sorry, I was too impulsive just now. Xiao Wang's voice trembled a little.
Xiao Li's body trembled slightly, and her eyes moistened. She knew that Xiao Wang's apology was from the heart. She turned back slightly, looked into Xiao Wang's eyes, smiled and nodded.
At this moment, the estrangement between them seemed to disappear. Xiao Wang understood the reason for Xiao Li's silence, and Xiao Li also felt Xiao Wang's change and sincerity. They know that arguing is not the only way to solve problems, and understanding and tolerance are the most important cornerstones in a marriage.
Looking back on this quarrel, it is not difficult for us to find that the inner world of the silent is not simple. They choose to remain silent, not because they are speechless, but because they are guarding their families and marriages in their own way. Let's be more understanding and tolerant, give the silent a hug, and let the family become a harbor in everyone's heart.