In the New Year, the poor people can't wait to gnaw the soil.
My husband couldn't even get 25 yuan for the fare home, so he had already walked to the bus station and asked me to give him some money. I was also careless and forgot to ask when I went out.
I have always felt that he is a "rich" person, no matter when I need him, he can take it, of course, it is a small amount of money, easy to satisfy.
For example, buy a bag of melon seeds, a glass of mineral water, a bowl of snacks from a stall or a magazine.
He would hardly ask me for money. In addition to the mortgage every month, he gave me 1,500 yuan for living expenses, and only kept a few hundred yuan for himself, and he didn't smoke, drink, or play cards.
His only hobbies are reading, reciting Buddhist scriptures, scrolling on his phone, and occasionally having friends at parties, and he is also the most marginal person (in my opinion).
Because he was also the one who talked the least. Once at his class reunion, an "entrepreneur" classmate said something that made me start to re-examine what kind of person he was.
My friend said: Your husband is the soul of our circle, he generally doesn't speak, and the words he says carry a lot of weight.
This classmate with tens of millions of properties, as soon as the words came out, he immediately ushered in a sound of approval, I had a smile on my face, but I was thinking in my heart: How is it possible? He has always been the object of my suppression.
The classmate said that we "poor" only have money left, and our souls are empty, and only he is the "richest", and as long as he says something, we will do it.
There seems to be a point: my husband's teacher celebrated his 70th birthday, and his classmates unanimously recommended him to come forward to entertain him and sat at more than 20 tables.
On his 80th birthday, he asked him to come forward to entertain him, but the teacher's son couldn't come forward, many students didn't know him, and others refused to come.
Every time a student went to visit the teacher, he would ask about my husband and say that he hadn't seen him for a long time.
Who would have thought that such a person who is "remembered" by teachers and classmates is often shy in his pocket, and his pocket is cleaner than his face.
I laughed at him as "rich face, poor pocket". In the circle of friends, he is often the most inconspicuous and shabby one.
Since his son was sensible, he often bought things and took his son to visit the old people in the village.
He said: In the past, his family was poor, and he had more or less received help from the elderly when he went to school, whether it was verbal encouragement or financial support, it was a spur to him. Otherwise, he would not have the happy days he has today.
There were few old people left in the village, and after visiting them, he went to sponsor poor students.
When my mother-in-law was alive, she used to say that he was "still bleeding from his buttocks, and he ran to treat other people's hemorrhoids." ”
We built two bungalows on my parents' homestead to pay off the loan, and he cared for people who were more difficult than him every day.
I was afraid that I would use my money indiscriminately, so I only gave 1,500 yuan for living expenses. Now I can't even get 25 yuan for the travel fee when I go home, so I can't only look for me.
When I met such a husband, I was speechless.
Fortunately, my son and daughter-in-law have their own jobs, so we don't have to worry about it, otherwise I would really fall out with him with this living expenses.
Sometimes, I really can't figure out what he's trying to do. Some friends who don't understand also say that our family conditions are good, and three of the four adults have jobs (as far as I am a housewife).
It's really hard to argue when you hear this, when you meet such a husband, no matter how much money you have, he can find a use for you. How do you say to save money, ** have money to save?
Alas, I don't know what to do with marrying such a husband......