Parents with sons hope that they can raise their children to be a productive person, but many parents do not find the right way to raise their sons.
Ms. Luo and her husband have a son, so they feel that the son is the hope of the family's future and have high expectations for him. So they never let their children do anything, and they often say to their children, "You just need to study, and you don't have to worry about anything else." And the child did get an excellent grade later and was admitted to a good university.
But on the first day of his son's college admission, he was clamoring to go home because of his lack of self-care skills. Ms. Luo spent a long time comforting the child, but the child was never able to adapt to university life and integrate into the university community. In desperation, Ms. Luo could only suspend her child's school. And after that, she realized that her son was "raised" by her big package.
It can be seen from thisHow simple is it to "raise" a boy? As long as parents do these 3 things regularly, it is enough
Psychologists have found that if the target of criticism is a boy, the mother is more likely to lose control of her emotions and scold the child loudly. In addition, when a mother speaks loudly, her voice is not as deep as that of a man, and the louder she scolds, the more she will give her child a sense of hoarseness and the greater the damage caused.
Boys should be strong, boys should be more tolerant, and boys should be more attacked and criticized, this is a gender bias!
Don't believe in the wrong idea of "the more you hit, the stronger you are", the suppressed boys are more destructive, and their ** is more violent! For boys' education, the best way is to "overcome the rigid with softness", rather than "hard against the hard".
My parents have arranged everything for me", says a well-dressed "successful man", but we don't see a glimmer of light in his eyes, he sits there like a puppet.
Nowadays, in order to let their children develop better, many parents have paved the "life path" for their children in advance. For example, what clothes the child wears, what school to attend, what major to study, what job to find, etc., under the control of parents, the child "smoothly" spends childhood, adolescence, and youth.
These people seem to be very successful, but in fact, their hearts are extremely painful, even full of confusion, because once they are separated from their parents, they will be at a loss, they have no opinions, no thoughts, like a puppet that has been erased of free will.
Although the current society emphasizes independence, independence is not built in a day.
In the process of educating children, we must conform to the growth and development of children, and we cannot force children to accept things that they should not bear at their age too early.
Many parents force their children to be independent too early in the name of being good for their children, and do not give their children any support and encouragement, but only look on coldly, which will only make children insecure and make children more and more timid and cowardly.
A person's childhood is only once, and there is no way to repeat it; Parents play a very important role at this stage! Especially inSix years of primary school, this critical period of children's growth, parents must lead the way.
If you want to be a good guide for your child, you must first have a harmonious parent-child relationship, and at the same time, you must know everything about what you should do in the six years of primary school. Because primary school is the best period for children's growth, parents should not only cooperate with teachers to teach children to learn to learn, but also understand the physical and mental characteristics, physiology, and psychological turmoil of their children's primary school stage.
It doesn't matter if you don't know any of this, as the saying goes:"Professional people do professional things"Parents may wish to please"Professionals"Come and help! Here is a very good educational guide book for everyone"Accompany the child through the six years of primary school" or "accompany the child through the three years of junior high school".
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" This book is divided according to the age of children in grades 1-6, and puts forward the tasks of each stage, helping parents to clarify their priorities, so that parents can educate and raise their children more accurately.
First grade, let the childDevelop good habitsto help children adapt to the school environment and school time, and do a good job in the transition between kindergarten and primary school;
In the second grade, children's curiosity is fully stimulated, so that children are full of interest in learning, and at the same time, they must alsoNurture your child's ability to focus
In the third grade, supervise children appropriately and help them get rid of bad behavior habits, so as to improve their learning efficiency;
In the fourth grade, improve the child's language skills and sense of humorDevelop their interpersonal skills
In the fifth grade, attention is paid to the cultivation of children's calm character, so that they can face difficulties and setbacks and learnSelf-directed learning
In the sixth grade, help children reduce their burden appropriately, so that they can better devote their body and mind to learning.
The author of this book, Yu Min, is an excellent teacher who has been teaching in the field for 20 years, and she has made a detailed plan for her children's six years of primary school and three years of junior high school; Combined with a large number of real cases, we analyze the key points of education each year and give targeted solutions, so that parents are no longer confused.
The book also grasps the 10 key directions of children's growth, from each school year to holiday planning, taking parents from beginning to end, improving each of their children's abilities, and finally achieving the purpose of "independent and efficient learning".
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