In the desolation of Jinan, Yang Jiuhong's grave reflects the desolation of her entire life. This place, as if it was a mirror of her life, reflected the love and pursuit that she had been obsessed with.
Someone once said, "You never know what a person really looks like." In "The Gate of the Mansion", Yang Jiuhong's life is a vivid example, and her true face is exposed in front of interests. In reality, we will also find many "silly women", once they fall in love, they seem to lose themselves, which may be a point that resonates with many people.
The state of losing his mind because of love is vividly manifested in Yang Jiuhong. She regarded Bai Jingqi as her own sky, and her departure seemed to be the fall of the sky, which made her fall into deep despair. This emotion is reminiscent of women who have lost their minds for love in reality, who are lost in the illusion of love and ignore their own worth.
Yang Jiuhong has always occupied an important position in Bai Jingqi's heart, especially in her later years, when she realized this. However, everything came too late, and her life was destined to be spent in this deep dependence. Bai Jiali has become an eternal pain in her heart, and the pain caused by this separation of flesh and blood between mother and daughter is indescribable.
The second grandmother has always despised Yang Jiuhong's background and refused to recognize her identity. This kind of discrimination deeply hurt Yang Jiuhong's heart, and the second grandmother would even rather let Bai Jingqi marry a maid than let Yang Jiuhong become a member of the family. Yang Jiuhong didn't understand this, why the second grandmother wanted to take away her child, why she couldn't raise Bai Jiali. She only knew that Bai Jiali was unwilling to admit herself because of her second grandmother, and the blow to her identity was a shame for Bai Jiali.
Perhaps because she has experienced too many hardships, Yang Jiuhong has gradually become tenacious. She could feel that Bai Jingqi's feelings had worn out, and the youthful aura on Xiangxiu's body made her feel that she was no longer loved. In the face of all this, she focused all her attention on Bai Jiali, and she longed to hear her daughter call her Mom. However, Bai Jiali's disgust for her grows day by day, and she can't forgive herself for being Yang Jiuhong's biological daughter.
In desperation, Yang Jiuhong made a shocking move, she took away Bai Jiali's newborn daughter and imposed the pain she had experienced on Bai Jiali again. However, even so, Bai Jiali still can't accept Yang Jiuhong, and her hatred for her mother stems from her status as a prostitute, which becomes a source of pain that she can't let go of when she grows up.
Yang Jiuhong's life was full of suffering, and becoming a prostitute was not her choice, but a forced fate. Her family background deprived her of a choice at a young age and was sold into a kiln to become a prostitute. This kind of involuntary situation made her have to go against the grain, hide her light, and conform to the rules.
Bai Jingqi's significance to Yang Jiuhong is like an island in the vast sea, hope, and the future. Yang Jiuhong saw the crazy thing Bai Jingqi did for her and realized that she had to seize this opportunity. Whether Bai Jingqi has real love for her, she actually knows very well in her heart that there are very few serious people in the kiln. However, she insisted on interpreting Bai Jingqi's impulse as love, trying to escape from the abyss through this illusion.
In order to achieve her goal, Yang Jiuhong made great efforts, and her persistence and persistence finally realized her wish and became Bai Jingqi's wife. However, she thought that she would be able to get rid of her suffering forever by climbing Bai Jingqi, but she didn't expect that what awaited her was another endless abyss. Her life was full of misery and misfortune, and becoming Bai Jingqi's wife did not change her status in the family.
Bai Jingqi's family has never recognized Yang Jiuhong as a daughter-in-law, and others look down on her day after day. Her biological daughter Bai Jiali has never called her mother. Yang Jiuhong's life is almost worthless in the family. Her grave, buried in Jinan, is a symbol of her return to her birthplace. However, the tomb was full of desolation, desolation and dilapidation all around, and even the grave bag was just a random pile of earth.
The words on the tombstone are even more embarrassing, only Yang Jiuhong and "Mrs. Ru" can indicate their identity. Her name is easy to understand, but "Madame Ru" is confusing, a word that implies that she is someone's concubine. Bai Jingqi was still cold in his later years, and his neglect of Yang Jiuhong was most directly reflected on the tombstone.
Yang Jiuhong's life is destined to be a tragedy, and her grave is an absurd fable to her life. The Bai Jingqi family prospered, but in this big family, Yang Jiuhong's existence was almost forgotten. When the family gathered at the dinner table, Bai Jingqi's children and grandchildren were very lively, but no one noticed Yang Jiuhong's death. This woman, who was once important in Bai Jingqi's eyes, is no longer important in the family.
Ironically, even when someone mentioned Yang Jiuhong, everyone was surprised, as if she had long been forgotten by time. The lonely situation in which this tomb is located may be a portrayal of her life, full of drama and absurdity. Her death, silent, is like a footnote to her life, more like an insignificant embellishment in the family's prosperity.