In the process of children's growth, the middle school years are often a time full of challenges and changes. The onset of puberty brings with it physical and psychological changes, and junior high school students begin to gradually think independently, showing more self-awareness and autonomy, as well as rebellious behavior. Below I will share with you some of the educational experiences of junior high school students during the rebellious period, I hope it will be helpful to you.
What should I do if my child is emotionally out of control?
Mr. Liu, the father of a junior high school student, recently discovered that his child often lost control of his emotions, lost his temper, and even got into arguments with his family. He was confused and didn't know how to deal with his child's rebellious behavior.
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In the face of your child's emotional out-of-control, the first thing to do is to calm down. Excessive anger and emotional reactions only complicate the problem. Instead of blaming and punishing immediately, it is better to understand your child's emotions and needs first. Perhaps, the child just wants some attention and understanding.
Change discipline into fumigation
When dealing with the rebellious behavior of junior high school students, we need to change our mindset from mere "discipline" to "fumigation". The so-called "fumigation" is to influence children's behavior and attitude through example and warm guidance. Parents should be role models for their children, influencing and inspiring their children's growth with their words and deeds.
For example, Mr. Liu realized that his words and actions in front of his children had a great impact on children. He began to take the initiative to change his communication style, increase the time he spent with his children, respect his independence, and give him more autonomy.
Turn care into care
Children in the rebellious phase often feel lonely and incomprehensible, and they need the care and support of their parents. Therefore, parents should strive to be close to their children, listen to their hearts, and understand their needs.
Mr. Liu realized that there was a problem in communication between himself and his child, so he began to try to establish a deeper communication with his child. He no longer only cares about the child's academic performance, but cares about the child's inner world, understanding his interests and troubles. His change made the child feel the love and support of his parents, and gradually opened his heart.
In the process of children's growth, the rebellious period is a necessary stage, and parents need to understand and deal with it with an open mind. By understanding children's emotional needs, changing their education methods, and establishing good communication relationships, they can help children successfully overcome the rebellious period and grow up healthily.
In the face of the rebellious education of junior high school students, parents should remain calm and understand their emotions and needs; Lead by example, be a role model for your children, and influence your children's attitudes and behaviors with your actions; Be a confidant of your children, listen to their voices, and care about their growth. I believe that under the care and guidance of parents, children will be able to thrive and meet a better future.