Man, in fact, is an arrogant animal who likes prejudice, but he is also very inferior.
Especially the people who have a smaller field of vision, the less knowledge, the narrower their thinking, and the thicker their eyes.
Here's an example. For example, anime, many people still think they are very naïve, similar to the naivety of previous Chinese cartoons, this one-size-fits-all view of beating to death with a stick ignores excellent anime, and the details between the bits and pieces are actually the best way to educate.
For example, tattoos, many people think that those people are indiscriminate, in fact, tattoos are just a personal hobby, tattoos are not necessarily bad people and bad people may not be able to get tattoos, so it doesn't seem good to be directly equivalent.
Of course, the reason why tattoos always have a great impact is mainly that many places pay attention to the problem of personal image, although the personality is beautiful and pleasing to oneself, but the clean image can add more points.
For example, according to the face of acquaintances, the face of a sharp-beaked monkey is not a good kind at first glance, and so on.
Knowing and employing people is indeed a skill.
Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles, and read countless people.
But it doesn't mean that we can look at people absolutely, many people like to learn a little skin, and use the empiricism of traditional culture to judge this person's face, zodiac signs, palmistry, past experiences, and behaviors to judge his character and character.
In fact, to be really conservative, even if everything is in place, it can only be said to be a rough idea, not a direct judgment.
Because man is a product of his environment.
Because man is a fickle animal.
Because a person is still an actor who knows how to disguise.
Because man is a bystander who learns and grows.
For example, the map party likes to restrict a certain group of people with a certain label. Chinese always think that relying on the mountains to eat the mountains, relying on the water to eat the water, one side of the landscape and one side of the people.
There is some truth to it.
But not absolutely.
First of all, people are mobile.
Secondly, people communicate with each other.
At a deeper level, people still have a lot of interest chain relationships that drive each other.
So it's impossible for a certain group of people to be deeply kidnapped into a certain trait.
What's more, there are genetic mutations.
So why does it make people feel like they always have the feeling of a map party? For example, what Hunan people eat spicy, small potatoes in the south and so on.
1. Factors of cultural traditions and customs.
Local cultural customs restrict people's thinking and form a unique feature of a relatively closed loop.
But it is this uniqueness that also facilitates its transmission and publicity from generation to generation.
In other words, if not so, Hunan people love spicy food, if all Chinese people are the same, then how can passers-by remember this area of Hunan?
People are face-blind and forgetful.
But the unique nature will be deeply imprinted in the human subconscious.
2. Subconscious inertial thinking as a matter of course.
There is a saying called the first impression theory.
That is, subconscious habitual thinking.
For example, if a brand catches young people, it has to cultivate their consumption habits of the brand from an early age, so that even if they don't love it when they grow up, they still have the inertial thinking and recognition of the brand in their bones.
That's the beauty of first impressions.
Some people also call it the feeling of first love.
Therefore, if someone hears the impression of Hunan people for the first time, they hear the label that they like to eat spicy, then there will be some other labels of other relatively spicy labels, such as not eating spicy, eating sweet and spicy, eating spicy, etc., it is difficult to shake the subconscious inertia of eating spicy food.
All in all, judging a person is not so simple, because the volume is so large, a simple label can express everything, which is a bit humorous.
So, in the process of growing up, people are biased.
If we say that people are born with an ignorant blank sheet of paper.
So whoever writes the first handwriting is its first cognition, and it is also the first trajectory of his prejudice.
According to this logic.
As long as he draws more handwriting, his judgment will not be biased towards one motion or another.
That's why the ancients said it very rigorously.
Read the book a hundred times, and you will see its meaning.
Exercise a thousand songs and then dawn, watch a thousand swords and then recognize the device.
Read more than 10,000 volumes, and write like a god.
Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles, and read countless people.
And modernism is also thinking.
If you increase the probability, you can increase the chance of maturity and success.
Only by increasing the frequency and expanding the energy can we increase the speed at which the probability increases.
And so on, similar to the truths that have been summed up in continuous practice and are suitable for more fields.
Generally speaking, people start from nothing to be prejudiced, and then from prejudice to continue to cultivate and cultivate non-existence, that is, the ideal state of being as free as possible from prejudice.
And this kind of practice, first of all, we have to understand one thing.
Let go of your own biases.
Then go and see the sky, the earth, and the people.
The more you see, the more you don't think about it, the harder it is.