Venerable Hongyi said, "Being left to no one is the most precious gift that God can give you, so that all expectations of the outside world will be completely cut off. ”
Life is a lonely river, and only you are the ferryman of your own life.
Don't think someone else can cross you! It is human nature not to see the good of others, and it is the pleasure of people to watch the fire from the other side. Those who are willing to cross you are mud bodhisattvas crossing the river, and it is difficult to protect themselves. Others will just look at your jokes!
The only thing you can rely on is yourself. Whether it's career, life, or spirituality. The truth of life is a hundred years of loneliness, we must be brave to accept this truth, look at the strength of a person, you can also live a wonderful and romantic life, chic.
Walking alone, drinking tea alone, traveling alone, coping with the trivialities of life alone, and appreciating the weather of mountains and rivers alone. It's good to be alone, so why be afraid of being alone, but look for ethereal solace in the crowd!
Writer Thoreau said, I'd rather sit alone on a pumpkin than squeeze on a velvet cushion with others. In the same way, we would rather live the truest and most comfortable life alone, rather than lose in a false relationship.
Embrace solitude! For the sober and transparent person, loneliness is not pain, not emptiness, not punishment, but the best fulfillment of life.