Dong Qing, a woman with the word "Qing". She has read poetry and books since she was a child, and her gestures are full of bookish and elegant temperament. Speaking of her, the word "gentle" must come to mind. Perhaps it is this temperament that has made her unique status in the entertainment industry. 
In the "Chinese Poetry Conference" that she cooperated with for the first time, the great writer Wang Liqun said bluntly: "See Qing and think together." Mr. Wang's understanding of ancient poetry and history is among the best in the country. He spoke highly of Dong Qing like this, which shows her unique charm of gentleness and elegance. In fact, Dong Qing proved himself with practical actions. During the recording of the show, she took the initiative to ask for a re-recording, and even if she accidentally fell and was injured later, she gritted her teeth and completed the work. It is the kind of professionalism with a pure heart that has won Wang Liqun's respect. 
In the following 13 years of hosting the Spring Festival Gala, she also gave full play to this gentle temperament. In the accident of 07 years, she was in danger and completed the situation;In 10 years, she has become the "first sister of the Spring Festival Gala" of 800,000 families. Countless viewers look forward to seeing "Qing" and listening to "Qing", which has become a ritual on the night of the Spring Festival. How many times, we have heard her gentle voice: "China's first radio and television station Spring Festival Gala has officially begun". That was the beginning of a new year for many people. It is precisely because of her gentleness that the whole show is like a spring breeze and the family is reunited. If Dong Qing has reached the pinnacle of her life in her career, her married life is not satisfactory. 
In her 40s, she was alone until she met Mi Chunlei. After falling in love at first sight, the two quickly entered the palace of marriage. However, the charge of "destroying other people's families" in the eyes of others has cast a shadow on this marriage. After Mi Chunlei divorced Dong Qing, **'s verbal and written criticism followed. He was accused of abandoning his wife and children, and Dong Qing was also accused of being a "junior". Even if the two later clarified that the divorce was a legal procedure, there were still people who did not forgive. What made Dong Qing even more embarrassed was that she was pregnant at this time. For the sake of her children, she decided to go to the United States to give birth and let her flesh and bones have American citizenship. This choice has attracted netizens to question "treason". As a public figure, her words and deeds are all magnified and scrutinized, and the slightest carelessness will attract slander. 
However, from the perspective of human nature, what is unforgivable about the choice made by a woman who is about to become a mother for the sake of her children?She just wanted him to be free from the huge pressure of Chinese education and have a more relaxed environment for his growth. This time, can we put aside our prejudices and think more from her point of view?The pain and helplessness she endured was unknown to outsiders. In the face of an unfair fate, all she needs is a little tolerance. After hosting the Spring Festival Gala many times, Dong Qing gradually faded out of CCTV's sight. We can't help but wonder if her brilliant career will also go downhill. However, in 2017, she made a strong comeback during the ** period!started anew with the literary talk show "Reader", and turned the tide to many doubting voices. 
It's another peak in her career, but it's still a bumpy road. In each episode of the program, a writer will be invited to the stage to show the power of words through their reading baptism. Some people read, some people listen, forming a warm picture. Dong Qing uses the most simple and ordinary language to convey warmth to thousands of people who are running around and working hard, and they also get spiritual comfort in every word. One of the most memorable is her conversation with writer Chen Shu. Listen to Chen Shu read aloud the sentence of his "May You Grow Up": "May you be loved by many people, if not, I hope you will learn to be tolerant." 
Not only her, but everyone here had moist eyes at that moment. Faced with the fate of being questioned again, Dong Qing did not flinch. She chose to advance and embark on a new journey in this career. She proved herself with her strength, and she also shone again in the sea of words. She didn't refute those who criticized her, she just continued to focus on being herself. No matter how far you go on the road of life, it is not as broad and profound as words. This time, let's use the eyes of words to tolerate all the unsatisfactory things she once had. The process of giving birth to a new life should have been full of joy, but for Dong Qing, it was full of ups and downs. When labor was imminent, she made a difficult decision - to go to the United States to give birth, so that her flesh and bones would have American citizenship. This choice immediately provoked right and wrong, and ** questioned her "treason". But who of us has put ourselves in her shoes?As a woman who is about to become a mother, her heart is full of reluctance and concern. In this world, no power can overcome maternal love. For the sake of her baby's future, she did not hesitate to risk crossing the ocean. China's educational environment is full of invisible pressure and competition. In contrast, the United States offers more abundant educational resources and a more relaxed environment. As a mother, Dong Qing just wants her children to learn and grow without pressure. 
However, prejudice and misunderstanding form a high wall, and people only see her "running away", but they don't see the heart of motherly love behind her. How can we not feel sorry for the helplessness behind her?As a public figure, every move can be a bull's-eye. This time, let's use tolerance to tolerate all her heartache and stop adding to her troubles. How many times, Dong Qing's life choices have endured too many unfair doubts and comments. Her marriage was accused of destroying others, and her parenting was questioned for treason. All kinds of nitpicking have become indelible wounds for her. However, in the face of the short-term and long-term of **, she never fought back and complained. I couldn't find any of her justifications on Weibo, and I couldn't hear any rebuttals from her in the news. She just endured it quietly, letting the comments become a passing one. 
This kind of tolerance and calmness is difficult for many people to achieve. Normal people will definitely be annoyed and angry when they encounter false accusations. However, she not only swallowed her anger, but also had a heart like a mirror. The excellence of this is awe-inspiring. In fact, it is precisely because of her strong heart that she can listen to the rain without changing her face. She saw the terrible nature of human words: the original empty words were given too many interpretations, which distorted the truth. Knowing this, she was relieved. Let others say what they say, she knows her true heart. 
This calm and calm true attitude also set up a peak of personality charm for her. In our eyes, she is already a "gentle woman" in the true sense of the word. This time, let's learn from her open-mindedness and say to her with tolerance: We understand. Putting aside all the unsatisfactory aspects of Dong Qing's career and marriage, looking at her life, it is not difficult to see that her destiny is actually ups and downs and magnificent. She used to be beautiful, and the first sister of the Spring Festival Gala in 13 years became the peak and glory of her career. However, 10 years later, she also fell into a trough in ** abuse. Fortunately, she was not defeated, and she regained her form and regained success through a literary talk show. 
The road of life is really like a drama, and the ups and downs are unpredictable. After a successful career, shouldering the expectations of the nation, she wanted to form a happy family. But what you really face is the lost love and unfair accusations. In order to protect her flesh and blood, she is willing to risk a foreign land. As a mother, she had to shoulder this responsibility. In fact, anyone who stands in her position will also find all kinds of justifications for their decisions. It's hard to judge whether she's right or wrong. It is better to say that it is the hardships of her life that have created her calm and calm personality temperament. This has also become the key to her success.
Each man has his own life, and each has his own end. In the face of many blows and doubts, she did not lose her fighting spirit. She smiled and gladly accepted the ups and downs of life, which would eventually turn into a ladder to sharpen herself. This calm and unhurried realm makes people ashamed of themselves. We have no way of knowing how many ups and downs she has gone through along the way. But this time, may all the injustices she has experienced return to the earthMay she illuminate the warmth of countless people's hearts and infect more people with prejudices. This time, we should learn to be tolerant.