In the world of feelings, it is common to divide and merge. When a relationship comes to an end, some people will want to redeem it, but in the process of redemption, there are some behaviors that must not be done.
1. Stalking and losing oneself
When it comes to recovering relationships, many people tend to fall into a misunderstanding, that is, they keep pestering each other and even lose themselves. They may make frequent calls, text messages, and even not give up even when the other person is unwilling to communicate. This kind of behavior will not only make the other person feel stressed and disgusted, but it can also make the other person more determined to leave.
It is very important to maintain a certain distance and respect, and saving the relationship is not something that can be achieved overnight, it takes time and patience. In this process, you should pay more attention to your own growth and change, rather than blindly pestering each other.
2. Accommodating each other unprincipledly
Some people may give up their principles and bottom line in order to cater to the other person's preferences when they save their relationship. They may do things against their will in order to win back the other person, such as changing their personality, giving up their dreams, etc. This kind of unprincipled accommodation will not only make the other person feel that you have lost yourself, but it can also make the other person doubt your feelings.
Sticking to your own principles and bottom line is a principle to be adhered to, and you have to let the other person see that you are a person with thoughts and pursuits, not a person who loses himself in order to cater to others.
3. Excessive self-blame and loss of self-confidence
When it comes to recovering a relationship, many people tend to fall into self-blame and feel that they are the main reason for the failure of the relationship. They may constantly reflect on their mistakes and even doubt and deny themselves. This excessive self-blame will not only make you lose self-confidence, but it may also make you hesitate and timidity in the process of salvaging your relationship.
In the process of salvaging a relationship, the right attitude is to admit your mistakes and try to correct them, but at the same time to see your own strengths and values. You have to believe that as long as you are willing to work hard, it is possible to salvage the relationship. At the same time, we must also learn to accept the possible consequences of failure, after all, emotional matters cannot be reversed by one person.
Recovering a relationship is a daunting task that requires patience, wisdom, and courage. We should remain calm and rational, respect the other party's decision, stick to our own principles and bottom line, and actively reflect on and correct our mistakes. Only in this way can we continue to grow and progress in the process of recovering our relationship, and ultimately win our own happiness. Emotional redemption