February** Dynamic Incentive Program
The human heart is the size of a fist, and the space is limited. If dissatisfaction and pain are filled with it, how can joy and happiness be accommodated? To do this, we need to let go of the past in order to have a happy life. In the journey of life, no matter whether we are close to each other, whether we are rich or rich, no matter what joys and sorrows we have in the past, we all need to learn to "let go". Only by looking down, seeing away, and figuring it out, can the soul be liberated, and then we can live a relaxed and comfortable life.
There is a fable about a crow holding a piece of meat in its beak, and an eagle chasing after it, and the crow flies forward with all its strength in its mouth, and when it is about to be overtaken, the crow is so exhausted that it can no longer care about the meat in its mouth. At the moment when he opened his mouth to breathe, the meat fell, and suddenly the eagle went straight to the meat. The frightened crow realized that if he had laid down the meat earlier, he would not have almost died!
In fact, in the life of the world, many people tend to behave like crows, clinging to all kinds of attachments, resulting in hardship and physical and mental exhaustion. However, as long as we learn to let go of our past, fame, and emotions, we can hopefully embrace a happy future.
Abandoning the past, for the former relatives and the past that is difficult to look back, regardless of the ups and downs, joys and sorrows of the past, have become the past. Neither self-blame nor regret can change the facts, and the past can only be recalled, not repeated. Only by abandoning the heavy burdens of the past can we have sufficient energy to move forward into the future. One day, when others mention your past, if you can stop your mind and not make the slightest wave, as if you are listening to other people's stories, then you are truly letting go.
Zhuangzi once said: "Honor and disgrace stand, and then see the disease." Gather the goods and money, and then see what is being argued. "Once the world's honor and disgrace are established, the evils of human nature will be revealed; Wealth accumulates, and all kinds of scrambles follow. If greed is left unchecked, we will lose ourselves in the pursuit of fame and fortune.
Thinking about it, life is like a dream, born with no hand, and when you die, you only leave loess, and you can't take away any of the world. Why spend your whole life for fame and fortune, and be stuck in it and can't extricate yourself, what do you want to be busy? Perhaps, learning to let go can achieve peace of mind. We work diligently, do things practically, and work hard in life with practical actions, rather than blindly pursuing returns. As the ancients said: "contentment is always happy", when everything goes naturally, the income will come as promised.
Among the many emotions of human beings, there are often hidden negative emotions in the heart, including contradictions, prejudices and wrong ideas. When it comes to "letting go", adults are often inferior to children. In the children's world, one minute they are arguing, and the next second they are laughing, as if nothing had happened. However, in the world, even if it is only for trivial things, it is easy to turn around and become enemies.
In interpersonal relationships, differences of opinion are inevitable. Differences in growth environment and concepts will naturally lead to friction. Only by letting go of subjective preconceptions and understanding others more can we have an open mind. Moreover, only by abandoning the preconceptions of others can we appreciate the unique strengths and goodness of each person. In addition, it is not advisable to build on the emotions of others. As the saying goes, "Amorous hatred has been empty since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up." "Affectionate and hateful, easy to wake up from good dreams, and a lot of helplessness in life. Especially when you love someone very much, but you encounter emotional disappointment, and it is easy to be depressed.
In fact, life is a person who comes into the world naked, and eventually leaves alone. Everyone you meet in life is a passerby, even if you are close to your parents and children, it is only the length of time they stay in your life. Who can always be by your side? Therefore, there is no need to grieve for emotions. Life is a long road, and you should be committed to living your own life and being kind to yourself. Learn to be grateful, cherish everything you have, and your life realm will naturally be different.
Human greed is a malignant factor that erodes the pure heart. What troubles us and causes us to lose peace of mind often comes not from the external environment, but from the inner desires and intentions. There is a saying in Buddhist teachings: "There is no disturbance in the world, but it is only because the mediocre people disturb themselves." This statement speaks to the greed and ambition of human nature, the thirst for fame, wealth and power, which makes it easy for people to fall into a difficult situation.
For example, this "I" pursues the first place in test scores in order to earn the respect of others; "I" aspire to own a brand-name bag or a million-dollar car, so as to enhance the style of travel; "I" have a grudge against someone; "I" longed to spend time with someone, or "I" missed my late grandfather. With so many inner desires becoming the shackles of the heart, how can we make life free and easy?
With both hands clasped and stubborn, how can you find a more delicious and luscious fruit in the orchard? Only by abandoning can we focus on the present, gain insight into the surrounding environment, and appreciate a different beauty. As the old saying goes: "Between gains and losses, there is a give-and-take", which is even a famous saying. Learn to let go, and the mind can be spacious and contain happiness.
Realizing the wisdom of timely abandonment, let us reshape the original intention of natural innocence, simplicity and simplicity, always maintain mindfulness, and fill daily life with positive energy of sunshine. As long as the mind remains quiet and peaceful, it will be possible to understand the path of happiness, and happiness is so simple.