When a woman reaches middle age, she will actually have a very clear judgment on those opposite-sex friends who appear around her.
Which people are just passers-by who meet in Pingshui, who are just nodding friends, who can say some witty things, and which people really occupy a place in her heart, even if she doesn't say it, her heart has already given you a clear role.
Of course, middle-aged women will not easily let men see through their emotions.
Sometimes, she is already interested in you, but she is afraid that you don't have this intention, and if she is too proactive, she will make herself seem a little cheap. So in the process of getting along, she may not necessarily take the initiative to express it to you.
Many times, your intentional or unintentional temptations, as long as she does not refuse, are actually equivalent to accepting your approach.
Generally speaking, when a middle-aged woman is emotional, she will have these 3 "defaults", and if you look at it, how many does she have?
1.By default, you can play at her house until midnightMiddle-aged women often have strict control over their personal space and time, and they will not easily let outsiders into their own life circle.
However, when a woman is emotionally attached to you, she will silently relax the restrictions on you, allowing you to stay longer in her life. The most obvious manifestation of this is that she will default to the fact that you can play at her house until midnight.
This acquiescence is not because she is bored or lonely, but because she has a special affection and trust for you. She is willing to let you know more about her life and is willing to share more time and space with you. When you find out that a woman no longer minds you staying at her house until late at night, then it is likely that she is already emotionally attached to you.
Of course, this acquiescence does not mean that you can freely disturb her life or invade her privacy.
On the contrary, you should cherish this trust and affection more, and respect her wishes and lifestyle. Only in this way can the relationship between you be stronger and longer-lasting.
2.By default, you can get up close and personal with herMiddle-aged women tend to be more sensitive and cautious about physical contact. They don't let men get close to them easily, and they don't let men touch their bodies easily.
However, when a woman is emotionally attracted to you, she will silently change her attitude and allow you to get up close to her.
This acquiescence is not because she is casual or frivolous, but because she has special feelings and expectations for you. She is willing to bring you closer to her inner world and to have a more intimate relationship with you. When you find that a woman no longer rejects your proximity and touch, then it is likely that she has become attracted to you.
Of course, this acquiescence does not mean that you can violate her body at will, or behave inappropriately.
On the contrary, you should be more respectful of her wishes and feelings, and take care of her in a gentle and considerate way. Only in this way can the feelings between you be deeper and more sincere.
3.By default, you can say something ambiguousMiddle-aged women tend to be more rigorous and precise in their control of speech, they will not easily say ambiguous words, and they will not easily let men misunderstand their intentions.
However, when a woman is emotionally attracted to you, she will silently change the way she speaks, allowing you to say something ambiguous.
This acquiescence is not because she likes to listen to sweet words or like to be sought after by men, but because she has special feelings and expectations for you. She is willing to share more intimate and in-depth topics with you, and is willing to establish a closer emotional connection with you.
When you find a woman who no longer minds you saying something ambiguous, then it is likely that she has real feelings for you.
Of course, this acquiescence does not mean that you can say irresponsible or hurtful things at will.
On the contrary, you should pay more attention to your words and attitudes, and express your feelings for her in a sincere and respectful way. Only in this way can the relationship between you be healthier and better.