Silence is not silence, but a deep reflection and listening. In interpersonal interactions, there are many people who choose to remain silent, not because of a lack of topics, but out of love of thinking, or respect for the expressions of others. Silence is not a defect, but a quality of composure. When it comes to people who like to be silent, we can peek into their inner world from different angles.
When talking about introverted and unverbal people, we find that it often takes a while for them to adjust to the environment, and even if they are familiar people, they need to adjust their mindset all the time. This is not because they lack communicative skills, on the contrary, because they are more focused on thinking and observing. This silence is not about having nothing to say, but about getting to know others and yourself better. For such people, silence is a process of adaptation, in order to better express the true feelings of the heart.
Another option to remain silent are those who have the ability to think for themselves and are assertive. They have their own opinion on things, but they don't want to argue with people who don't think for themselves. This is not because they are timid, but because they know that arguing with someone who does not resonate is futile. In their view, keeping silent is not only to avoid unnecessary disputes, but also to maintain the independence of their own thinking. This silence is a kind of respect for the deep thinking of the soul.
People who have strong insight and know how to see through without saying anything are also a group that likes to choose silence. They are keenly aware of the emotional changes of others and have insight into the truth of things through some small details. However, they choose to bury these observations deep in their hearts and do not reveal them easily. This silence is not due to a lack of desire to express, but to know when to say and when not to speak. This kind of silence is a kind of ingenious management of interpersonal relationships, and it is the wisdom to maintain harmony.
Silence is also the choice of people who are calm and do not fight or grab. These Buddhist individuals are not overly attached to fame and fortune, they regard arguments as meaningless limelight, and they do not want to dwell too much on trivial matters. They remain silent, not because they do nothing, but because they know how to maintain peace of mind in the world. Such silence is a kind of detachment from the complicated world, and a return to the true nature of life.
And people who are highly cultivated and know how to respect others also prefer to remain silent. Their cultivation allows them to maintain an elegant posture at all times and know how to respect the feelings of others. When talking, they prefer to act as a listener rather than force their opinions. This silence is not because they lack insight, but because they understand that listening silently is also an expression and a kind of respect for others. This is a kind of silence that reveals a deep cultivation in the subtlety.
Of course, people who like to be silent are not necessarily exceptional individuals, but because they have a unique way of doing things. If there are such people around, we may be able to be more patient to get to know them, and perhaps we will find their unique charm in silence. In this noisy world, you might as well listen to those who choose to remain silent, and perhaps you will find that their hearts are a lake of tranquility, containing endless wisdom and affection.
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