Why do most middle-aged single men disappear so quickly in their 50s? Analysis of the four causes
The number of bachelors has been increasing over the past decade. Especially in the countryside, the number of bachelors has surged, and in villages of more than 800 people, the number of bachelors is as high as sixty or seventy. The reason why there are so many bachelors is because their demand for dowry money has changed from tens of thousands at the beginning to 200,000 to 300,000. Many men in the countryside don't have that much dowry, so many men choose to be celibate.
Strange to say, though, most bachelors disappear without a trace in their 50s. In rural areas, this is very common. Many academics are puzzled by this: bachelors refer to a person's food and clothing problem, and a family's food and clothing problem. There are no burdens at home, and the life of a bachelor is still very good. Why are many bachelors gone after their fifties? We believe there are 4 main reasons for this:
First, there is a lack of family affection.
Outwardly, the life of a bachelor is much easier than that of a married person. But in fact, human beings are social creatures, and bachelors will feel lonely for a long time, and the pain is incomprehensible to others. Many bachelors also have mental problems because of these reasons.
In fact, at the age of 30-40, bachelors do not feel lonely, but after the age of 50, when their parents die, the loneliness of bachelors becomes even stronger. In fact, if the depressed mood is maintained for a long time, it will have a negative impact on the individual's physical fitness and life. Therefore, it is understandable that many bachelors are absent in their 50s due to the lack of family affection.
Second, bachelors face tremendous social pressure.
The older a bachelor gets, the more pressure he is under. It's like, when you meet relatives and friends, you will ask why you don't marry? Bachelors often don't know how to answer. And those bachelors, looking at those couples in pairs, is a kind of torment.
In addition, bachelors also face tremendous social pressures. Because bachelors find it difficult to find a job after their 50s, they put themselves in a situation of poverty. Under this tremendous social and financial pressure, it is normal for bachelors to be gone in their fifties.
Thirdly, bachelors live an irregular life.
Many bachelors, who live a life without a fixed life, generally think of eating when they are hungry. Some bachelors often play games and mahjong all night, which is not good for health. It should be noted that most bachelors will have some bad habits, such as drinking, smoking, not bathing, etc., which will have a great impact on their health. Imagine if a bachelor started a family, developed good habits, and broke bad habits. As a result, the average life expectancy of a bachelor increases considerably.
Fourth, bachelors lack a purpose in life.
In rural areas, there are many bachelors who often suffer from chronic diseases such as high blood pressure and cardiovascular disease because they do not have a fixed living habit and have bad habits such as drinking. As long as you pay attention to these chronic diseases and actively cooperate with the doctor**, then the symptoms can be well controlled. However, bachelors have a "no matter what, let it be" mentality about their chronic diseases, so many times, some minor illnesses become major illnesses, and later, many people give up.
Bachelors don't pay enough attention to their health, and this is due to the loss of their passion and pursuit of life. This is different from family people, who have to bear the responsibility of the whole family and cannot fall, so they pay special attention to their own body. Therefore, if a person has an ideal in his life, it will have a great effect on longevity.