Recently, I was awakened by this sentence
Share a quote that recently woke me up: "The miracle you are looking for is hidden in the actions you have been evading.""。
It can probably be understood that the thing we fear or have been resisting is probably what we are really good at and really want.
If you think about it, it seems that this is really the case, sometimes what we subconsciously want or want to do, most of them will be avoided because we are embarrassed to fight for it or think that we are not capable enough.
Combined with my past experience, I have actually verified this theory countless times.
For example, when I first looked for a job, I was most afraid of doing sales, because I thought I was introverted and socially phobic, but after I did, I found that my sensitivity and empathy skills would make customers think that I was more sincere.
For example, I used to feel ashamed of the idea of becoming a writer, and it felt like a dream. I also feel that I want to be a photographer because I need technology and aesthetics, and I need to find clients by myself.
But in fact, I really settled down and studied patiently, and when I did it, I found that I was really scaring myself.
Even if I can't make achievements in the process, and I can't tap my talent, I won't lose anything by doing it, not to mention, loss is actually another kind of growth.
So I think this sentence can be understood in this way: all those things that make us subjectively want to escape, want to do but dare not do, when we put them into action and really do them, we will find that this is nothing more than that.
The so-called miracle is more like suddenly opening a higher map to one's narrow life, so as to see and rapidly expand a wider territory.
Just like a frog at the bottom of a well jumps to the ground, a summer worm survives until winter, and we break through the psychological barrier and surpass ourselves.
So, if there is really something in our life that we have been deliberately avoiding all the time, you might as well calm down and give it a try, maybe that is where your talent lies.
Only by accepting the problem will the problem disappear, and if you blindly avoid it, the problem will always exist.
If we don't understand that the enemy is ourselves, we will spend all our time and energy on changing meaningless things, and in the end we will gain nothing.