In "The Way of Heaven", Rui Xiaodan and **Ying's love affair transcends secular concepts and amazes the audience: so affectionate, as if it should only exist in heaven, and how can it be easily met in the world?Different from ordinary couples who fall in love at first sight to go both ways, their acquaintance, acquaintance and love are more like a Muqiang-style love story. Who is Muqiang's side?Apparently Rui Xiaodan.
Initially, Rui Xiaodan did not have a good impression of **Ying. From "very bad" to "okay", then to "unconvinced", and finally evolved into "in love", during which only four times of dating. Every interaction has brought Rui Xiaodan a different understanding of **Ying, and also shows the unique charm of **Ying. This change is a manifestation of realistic thinking, and it is also in line with the strong cultural attributes emphasized in the play.
Why do you say that Rui Xiaodan is realistic?Her feelings for **Ying change with the change of time, place and conditions, which is a realistic way of thinking. It is not surprising that Rui Xiaodan fell in love with **Ying, but **Ying's acceptance of her love is enough to show that they are the same kind of people and both have a realistic way of thinking. This reality is not derogatory, but rather an affirmation of strong cultural attributes.
From every change in Rui Xiaodan's attitude towards **Ying, we can see her realist spirit. Especially at the "Hongmen Banquet" she set up for ** Ying, this kind of realism is even more vividly expressed. At the beginning, when she heard the name "**Ying", she had a bad association from her friend Xiao Yawen. Although Xiao Yawen explained **Ying's background and situation to her, Rui Xiaodan's first impression of him was still not good. This may be because of her professional sensitivity, or some prejudice against the word "pure", in short, she had a preconceived opinion of him before she met **Ying.
When Rui Xiaodan carefully checked **Ying's resume, her focus suddenly fell on the word "fooling around". Confused, she asked, "What do you mean by fooling around?"Xiao Yawen explained: "It's alcoholism, picking up girls, and playing cards." After hearing this, Rui Xiaodan said, "He's a loser?"Is such a person reliable?It can be seen that Rui Xiaodan's first impression of **Ying is not good, and he also has a questioning attitude towards his lifestyle and values.
However, with the passage of time and more understanding, Rui Xiaodan gradually changed his opinion of **Ying. In further interactions, she realized that **Ying is not a simple *** but a person with a deep background and talent. His wisdom, insight, and charisma gradually touched Rui Xiaodan's heart, and finally made her fall in love with him.
This process shows Rui Xiaodan's spirit of realism. She doesn't miss out on someone worth socializing with because of preconceived notions, and she doesn't get easily fooled by superficialities. She will observe, analyze and think carefully in her interactions until she comes to her own conclusions. This attitude and way of thinking about seeking truth from facts is the embodiment of strong cultural attributes.
Women, indulging in fun all day long, this is not a way of life as I understand it. Rui Xiaodan replied indifferently: "You are also a police officer from a university, how can you defend this kind of person?"“。Even if she is an excellent person, she can't win Rui Xiaodan's respect, because she is very principled. "This kind of person", in Rui Xiaodan's eyes, no matter how good his resume is, is not worthy of respect.
Xiao Yawen used to be **Ying's assistant, and she admitted frankly that she didn't think **Ying was a person. His way of thinking is diametrically opposed to ordinary people, acting strangely, and can even be said to be "magical". Although his actions may seem illogical, they seem to be full of deep meaning. In Berlin, there was even a layman who called him "the best of the best". When Rui Xiaodan heard this, he couldn't help but ask: "If he is the best gangster, is he still a gangster?"”。The continuous questioning reflects Rui Xiaodan's deep antipathy towards ** Ying, which stems from her intuition for this man she has never met.
As a police officer, Rui Xiaodan has a keen insight into social phenomena. She is particularly sensitive to the word "quiet" because it can mean escaping social responsibility. As a woman with a strong sense of justice, she has a strong antipathy to men's irresponsible behavior. As a person who adheres to the mainstream values of society, she has a clear negative attitude towards the lifestyle and values of people like "gangsters". Therefore, when she first met **Ying in the ancient city, she chose to put on a police uniform, probably to remind **Ying to restrain her behavior in this way.
In addition, **Ying has never taken the initiative to call Rui Xiaodan**, which also makes Rui Xiaodan's impression of him change. Since **Ying came to the ancient city in the summer, Rui Xiaodan helped him and Xiao Yawen find a place to live and settle down. Then, she returned to the Venus Hotel, which was opened with Ouyang Xue. Ouyang Xue asked, "Have you dealt with it all?"”。Rui Xiaodan replied: "Yes, everything is dealt with." The word "send" here shows that Rui Xiaodan does not care about this task. If it weren't for Rui Xiaodan's poor impression of ** Ying at the beginning, how could she treat her friend Xiao Yawen's entrustment with such an attitude of "sending away"?Ouyang Xue continued: "You wait and see, he will soon find a reason to call you **." Rui Xiaodan replied: "If he calls, he will fight." ”。
Ouyang Xue said again: "Men are like this. This seems to imply that Ouyang Xue's understanding of men is more profound and tolerant. And Rui Xiaodan's different views from Ouyang Xue also hint at her more rational and principled personality. With the passage of time and the revelation of more information, the reader has a deeper understanding of the characters and plot developments in this story. Rui Xiaodan looked at ** Ying, a disdainful smile on the corner of her mouth, she beckoned, stepped on the accelerator, and the car drove away.
Since then, for 8 months, **Ying has not given Rui Xiaodan a **. The Spring Festival is approaching, and Rui Xiaodan remembered **Ying in between busy work. She dialed his **, however, the second sentence after **Ying answered** was a cold "Is there something wrong?".This made Rui Xiaodan begin to think deeply about the meaning behind his words.
In Rui Xiaodan's view, **Ying's mind does not have the concept of "looking for someone to help", only the idea of "what can I help you do", which is an unconscious and condescending attitude. This made Rui Xiaodan's impression of ** Ying change slightly, although this change was not obvious, but at least she no longer disliked him as much as before. She decided to greet him personally, after all, she was the host here.
Back at the Venus Hotel, Rui Xiaodan talked to Ouyang Xue about **Ying, and felt that he should send him some fried tofu, croquettes, and fried crispy meat, after all, it is not suitable to only eat instant noodles, and he will not be able to explain to Yawen in the future. Ouyang Xue agreed. Rui Xiaodan advised: "He doesn't have a refrigerator there, remember to tell him to hang it outside the window when the time comes." Ouyang Xue said, "Could he be so stupid?"Rui Xiaodan replied: "Maybe people are just wise and stupid." Such an evaluation shows that Rui Xiaodan's opinion of ** Ying has changed a lot.
Ouyang Xue asked, "You don't seem to be so disgusted with him anymore." Rui Xiaodan said: "Yes, he hasn't hit him once." Then she told Ouyang Xue that she heard from the security guard that **Ying goes downstairs for three meals a day, but she rarely goes out, and she can't see who he has a special relationship with. Ouyang Xue asked, "Then what is he doing in the house all day?"Rui Xiaodan replied: "Every citizen has the right to choose his own way of life, as long as he does not violate the law, he can live however he wants." At this time, Rui Xiaodan no longer looks at ** Ying with colored glasses, but looks at him from the perspective of an ordinary citizen and gives him respect and understanding.
However, the matter of sound made Rui Xiaodan dissatisfied with **Ying again. The impression of improvement just now made Rui Xiaodan feel "offended" because of this incident. This is undoubtedly a heavy stroke on the image of ** Ying. At first, a set of speakers that cost 400,000 became only worth tens of thousands in the mouth of **Ying. Rui Xiaodan was convinced, so he budgeted 40,000 yuan to buy this set of audio. One day, she used her working hours to go to the audio store to buy, and this behavior caused her to be punished by the police department, including circulating criticism, suspension for reflection, writing inspections, suspension of salary for half a month, deduction of half-year bonuses, and cancellation of annual awards. Rui Xiaodan felt very embarrassed, although she said that it was her own business, but in her heart she complained a little about ** Ying, thinking that he looked down on people.
Considering that ** Ying once sold records due to poverty, but he never revealed any of his predicament to Rui Xiaodan, the person he commissioned, Rui Xiaodan was both sorry and very annoyed. So, she decided to set up a "Hongmen Banquet" for **Ying, and invited a few cultural friends to accompany her.
started by Rui Xiaodan with tea instead of wine, and a table of people took turns to toast **Ying. After everyone finished toasting, **Ying had already drunk six glasses of wine, but she hadn't had a chance to eat a bite of food. At this time, the three guests who were invited completed their task step by step: they told ** Yingrui Xiaodan how wonderful a person he was in the way of "knocking on the side".
First of all, Du Xiaohui, a reporter from Gucheng TV's "Police Tracking" column, revealed that he had witnessed Rui Xiaodan's heroic behavior in the hostage rescue operation. Then there was Wei Tianyi, the editor of the "Gucheng Evening News", who mentioned that the reporter of their newspaper had tried to interview ** Ying, but was refused, and he also sarcastically said that Rui Xiaodan was putting on a show. Feng Shijie, a reporter from the "Gucheng Evening News", looked at Rui Xiaodan with admiration and expressed his admiration for her heroic deeds. Rui Xiaodan immediately interrupted the topic, unwilling to continue the topic.
Next is Rui Xiaodan's colleague Liu Jiang, the propaganda officer of the Gucheng Public Security Bureau. He said to Rui Xiaodan with emotion: "Xiao Dan, although we meet every day, we don't communicate much. I've always felt like a mystery to you. I don't understand, since you have German residency, why not develop in Germany?The criminal police team is not a good place to mess around, what's so good about this industry?Poor, miserable and dangerous. Liu Jiang's words made people realize that Rui Xiaodan was unusual - he gave up his right of abode in Germany and chose to become a criminal policeman.
The purpose of the three guests is very clear: they all want to let **Ying understand the extraordinary features of Rui Xiaodan, and express their admiration and respect for Rui Xiaodan. They want ** Ying to know that despite the many difficulties and dangers Rui Xiaodan has encountered in her work, she still firmly chose her career path, and this courage and determination deserve people's respect and admiration. Let's take a look at this scenario.
Rui Xiaodan, a very outstanding person, was offended by a certain behavior of ** Ying, so she decided to ask the escort to help vent her personal anger in the name of a treat. **Ying's behavior is indeed a bit "contemptuous" of Rui Xiaodan, when he was poor, he would rather sell his record than seek Rui Xiaodan's help. He also deliberately said that the sound worth 400,000 yuan was tens of thousands, although his intention was good, but it made Rui Xiaodan feel despised.
In this treat, Rui Xiaodan's purpose is actually very clear, that is, to express his apologies and invite **Ying to dinner. But the strange thing is that the escorts didn't seem to treat ** Ying as expected, but turned the topic to Rui Xiaodan. This may be because they misunderstood the purpose of the treat, thinking that Rui Xiaodan was going to "take revenge" rather than apologize.
At the dinner table, a group of cultural people drunk ** Ying with a toast in turn, and then proposed to let him recite poetry. Rui Xiaodan originally thought it was a good idea, but later realized that it was actually a very damaging trick. Because at this time, ** Ying was already a little drunk, and his head was not very sober, not to mention that he was not a literati and ink writer, how could he recite poetry?So, it's only a matter of time before the UK makes a fool of himself.
But **Ying is not a fuel-efficient lamp, he poured six cups full of wine, and said to Rui Xiaodan kindly: "Let me go after drinking six cups, don't let me fall here, so as to leave a piece of cloth for me to cover my shame." ”。Hearing this, Rui Xiaodan suddenly felt like a knife.
However, just when everyone thought that ** Ying would make a fool of himself, he shocked everyone present with a poem "Self-deprecation" in a half-drunk and half-awake state. This poem made the group ashamed and embarrassed, so they could only get up and say goodbye.
In this poem, ** Ying uses "I was originally a backmountain person, and I occasionally became a guest in the front hall" to describe my situation and state of mind. He expressed his self-deprecation and arrogance with "drunk dancing in the pavilion of half a book, sitting in the well and talking about the sky". He used "great ambition to make a fortune and fame, and the sea to fight for blessings and misfortunes" to express his pessimism about fame and fortune, and to express his views and attitudes towards the world with "angry accusations and mistakes".
When reciting poetry, Rui Xiaodan felt very amazed and ashamed at the same time. She felt that the poem was like a mirror that allowed her to see her own pettiness and boredom. And when the three escorts got up and left, she hurriedly followed.
Wei Tianyi apologized to Rui Xiaodan, "Miss Rui, I deeply feel that my knowledge is shallow, and I am really sorry for enjoying a good meal in vain. He added: "If I had such a friend, I would never treat him like that." This sentence implies that Wei Tianyi's remarks and poetry proposals at the banquet were all hinted at by Rui Xiaodan, and her purpose was to put ** Ying in an embarrassing situation and taste the taste of being humiliated. However, Rui Xiaodan overestimated himself and the invited guests, and also underestimated ** Ying's ability.
Although **Ying made Rui Xiaodan lose face, she did not resent him because of this. Instead, she fell in love with him because of his talent. Some people may think that this emotional change is too sudden, but in the world of feelings, who can say clearly?After several interactions, Rui Xiaodan's feelings for ** Ying are constantly changing, and they are changing all the time. She dared to love and hate, and showed extraordinary grace.