In the finale of "Life", Chen Ruohua made an amazing reversal
The plot of "Running Life" is about to come to an end, and Chen Ruohua's fate is beyond everyone's expectations. This TV series starring Zhong Chuxi and Yang Chaoyue is currently being broadcast on CCTV.
Yang Chaoyue plays a beautiful and energetic little girl in the play, and her filial piety and tenacity are worthy of our admiration. However, her life has been made extremely difficult because of her mother's paranoia and desire for control.
This mother has two babies, one is her son Chen Ruoxuan, and the other is her daughter Chen Ruohua. Since childhood, Xiuli has been very fond of her son, thinking that he is better than her daughter.
Whenever there is something delicious, Xiuli always lets her son taste it first, no matter when and where, she is always praising her son's merits and has high expectations for him. However, she has almost no requirements for her daughter, even if her daughter's exam results are not satisfactory, Xiuli doesn't care, as if in her heart, only her son is worthy of her attention and expectations.
In order to give birth to this precious son, Xiuli paid a huge price, resolutely quit her job, raised the child wholeheartedly, and depended on them for her life. In Xiuli's view, her son's excellent results are the best reward for her and her greatest gratification.
She has always believed that only her son can make her happy and proud with his achievements.
A mother's love is like a heavy burden, weighing down her son's breath. He was lost in his mother's expectations, lost himself, as if the only goal of life was to make his mother proud, and every failed exam was like a punishment for himself.
Although Xiuli's mother gave birth to two children, her preference made both children unhappy. The elder brother is under great pressure, and the younger sister becomes sensitive and has low self-esteem.
After Chen Ruohua died in a car accident with his younger brother Chen Ruoxuan, he realized that his much-loved brother was not as happy as he seemed.
After Chen Ruoxuan died in a car accident, Xiuli poured all her love into her daughter, interfering excessively in her life, love and everything. Although Chen Ruohua deeply felt mother's love, but the excessive paranoia of mother's love made her physically and mentally depressed, she understood that she could not change her mother, but she must be filial, so her life was full of contradictions.
If you are completely obedient to your mother, you may lose yourself and be unhappy for the rest of your life, but if you pursue yourself too much, will you seem selfish?
Chen Ruohua loves her family deeply, and she tries her best to make the best arrangements for them. However, her mother always acted on her own terms, regardless of the feelings of others.
Although her motivation may be out of love for her children, she does not put herself in her children's shoes. Chen Ruohua tries to understand her mother, but she also understands that her mother's actions can cause harm to others.
Her romance and career choices are her own decisions, and she doesn't want to be morally kidnapped by others. Although her mother wanted her to return to her hometown to get married, Chen Ruohua was determined to stay in Beijing and pursue her dreams.
She understands that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness and that love does not mean sacrificing oneself.
Ruohua has always been a well-behaved and obedient daughter, and in order to be filial to her mother, she did everything according to her mother's wishes. However, she realized that if she really followed her mother's arrangement, she would not be able to do what she really liked and would not be able to realize her self-worth.
Ruohua, who had been suppressed for a long time, finally broke out at this moment, and she decided to leave her hometown and go to Beijing to develop, pursue her dreams, and breathe fresh air. Mother Xiuli even forced her to die, but Ruohua said firmly: "If you want me to give up my dream, then I will die." ”
Although this was not her intention, in the face of such a paranoid and crazy mother, Ruohua decided to bravely resist once.
Ruohua decided to live for herself, she packed her bags, put on lipstick, and dressed up to embark on a new journey. This ending is comforting, perhaps it is because of the daughter's resistance that the mother can realize her mistakes and problems, and the relationship between the two can be repaired.
If Chen Ruohua really marries according to her mother's wishes, can she really be happy? I'm afraid it's just going to turn into a tragedy.