In "Big River", Lei Dongbao experienced three marriages and made three different choices, reflecting the "selfishness" of men in choosing and handling marital relationships in real life, and also telling female friends that in order to capture the hearts of men, men must think that they are worthwhile, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve good results even if they are in the upper position. Today, let's talk about Lei Dongbao and Song Yunping.
Song Yunping was the woman who came into Lei Dongbao's heart when it was difficult to marry a daughter-in-law when he was not yet prominent, and she was also his first woman. At that time, how difficult the Lei family was, it was described in the original book: "My father died early, and the family has been supported by the widowed mother to this day, and those who are worth a hundred times have been replaced." When I first went back, there was a wall still open, the north wind blew snowflakes, and the house was frozen like an ice cave, or it was mixed with yellow mud with thatch for the past two days. He didn't even have a decent bed or table in his house, and his clothes were thrown into a small water tank."
Even so, the gentle and interpretive Song Yunping still chose to marry Lei Dongbao when he was unknown, always by his side, giving him the strength to move forward. However, for Lei Dongbao, Song Yunhui thinks that the leper ** wants to eat swan meat, and for their union, he thinks that it is more to protect his family, looking for a safety, not love. At the same time, Lei Dongbao actually only regards Song Yunping as a spiritual sustenance in his heart, like an inconspicuous steamed bun when he is hungry, although it is inconspicuous, it can meet the most basic needs.
Maybe I didn't meet a better one, maybe I felt guilty, after Song Yunping's tragic death, Lei Dongbao vowed not to marry, affectionate and righteous, heroic and dry, single for five years, worthy of praise.
However, men are men after all, especially normal men with strong blood, and they already need praise if they can survive five years. Imagine, in the past five years, you can release yourself through work during the day, so in the dead of night, the loneliness and scratching your heart are not something ordinary people can bear, every time you are self-congratulatory, there will be a scene of interaction with your wife in your mind, and the gap between reality and dreams will also lead him to find a woman again, even if he violates his original oath! However, it is understandable that those who are alive must live well. For him to break his oath later, his explanation to himself is: "Just put Pingping in your heart."
However, Song Yunping has a deep affection for Lei Dongbao. Before getting married, he "admired" Lei Dongbao and even "fell in love". After getting married, he was even more considerate and hardworking. Before dying, he was even more worried: "I really don't feel at ease to leave, I'm really worried that after I leave, what will happen if Dongbao is left alone?" ”
Hongyan has a thin life since ancient times, and everyone will pity him! ”。
In the final analysis, people are egoists after all, and their own hobbies, desires, interests, life and death, are the most important things, above all others.
The former model husband Lei Dongbao is not exempt from vulgarity, nor can he be exempt from vulgarity! Even if he once regarded his "Pingping" as a fairy, he was afraid of falling in his hands, and he was afraid of melting in his mouth.