A few days ago.
A paragraph of "The son recorded his father sleeping with the nanny in his arms", which swiped the Internet.
But after ***, those who knew the truth couldn't help but burst into tears.
What's going on?
After a man returned home.
I found my elderly father sleeping with a strange woman in his arms.
At that time, the two were still in the same bed, undressed, and the old man's hand was still on the woman's arm.
The gesture is very intimate.
As long as you are not blind, you must be able to see at a glance that the two of them are asleep!
Seeing this, the man asked angrily: Who is this?
Who knows, the old man actually smiled and said: This is the live-in aunt who invited!
It stands to reason. The elderly need to be taken care of when they are old, and it is reasonable to ask a live-in aunt to take care of their daily life. But the scene in front of me is obviously not like that.
So, the man was instantly angry.
He first questioned the woman: Who is it?What are you doing?!
Subsequently. He roared at his father: What is this called?!Do you understand moral integrity?!Old rascal!
Why is the man so angry?
It turned out that it had only been 100 days since his mother's death, and his father had slept with other women in his arms so blatantly.
in the room. There is still the shadow of my mother as far as my eyes can see, and my mother's voice and smile are still clearly lingering in my mind.
But what about my father. So quickly, I forgot about my wife who had been with me for many years.
It's really heartless and ruthless.
Originally, the death of his mother, as a son, was already grief-stricken because he lost his dearest relatives in the world. But he never expected his father to do such a dirty thing at this juncture.
Therefore, he can't accept it because of reason!
Thinking about it like this, it's really chilling and heart-wrenching!
But when it comes to the truth behind this matter, many people are silent.
Do you remember what happened in Jiangxi?
A scene filmed by a daughter-in-law.
said that his mother-in-law died unexpectedly the year before last. But unexpectedly, his father-in-law soon made a new girlfriend, and he also took his new girlfriend home to visit their house.
* is already the third.
As younger generations, if one of the parents is widowed, they should respect the choice of the elderly.
However, her father-in-law's approach made her unbearable.
There are three points that cannot be tolerated:
First, when my father-in-law brought his girlfriend home, it was a night, and this time was originally a private time for the family to rest and wash, not a normal time for visitors to meet friends.
So, it's very rude.
Second, when my father-in-law brought a stranger home, he didn't greet her and her husband in advance, and suddenly knocked on the door, without taking into account what others thought.
In short, it was disrespectful and didn't take her and her husband seriously.
Third, the attitude of the father-in-law's new girlfriend is too arrogant, and when she looks at the house, she is domineering and looks like a future hostess, and the father-in-law greets him with a smile throughout the whole process, and he doesn't feel inappropriate at all.
In this regard, the daughter-in-law really felt offended and despised.
However, what made this daughter-in-law feel even more difficult to accept.
She felt unworthy for her deceased mother-in-law!
It turned out that her mother-in-law had not enjoyed a few days of happiness before her death, and she had sacrificed herself for the family all her life, and when she finally pulled the children up and married her daughter-in-law, she also fell ill.
And then it didn't take long for the people to leave.
The daughter-in-law said that her mother-in-law has always been frugal.
I can't bear to spend a penny more on myself, I have been married for decades, and I have never received any gifts, and I have never even worn a gold bracelet for the rest of my life.
But what about my father-in-law?As soon as her mother-in-law died, she found a new love in the blink of an eye.
And in order to please his new girlfriend, he gave the other party more than 20,000 bracelets as soon as he came up.
The gold bracelet that my mother-in-law was reluctant to buy until her death is now worn on the hands of other women, which is particularly dazzling.
What an irony in this comparison!
Seeing this, my heart was mixed, and tears blurred my eyes in an instant.
Someone in the comment area hit the nail on the head:
"Love yourself first, then love others. ”If you don't treat yourself well, when you're gone, someone will spend the money you saved and left. ”
saved a lifetime, and in the end made a wedding dress for others.
That woman's decades of dedication and sacrifice, decades of suffering and sin, and decades of selfless love for this family are all like a joke at this moment.
How can it not be sad!
A fan blogger.
also shared a story of her father-in-law.
said that it has been less than 5 years since the mother-in-law left, and the father-in-law is going to find a wife, and he has already met with the other party's family in private.
A few days later, when her husband received ** and was notified to go home to her father Zhang Luo to do a happy event, she, as a daughter-in-law, couldn't control her emotions and cried.
She asked her husband why he agreed?!
She said, do all three of you brothers want to have a stepmother?!
The most uncomfortable thing for her is:
It's only been 5 years since the person left, is the family so unkind!
Although the old man's remarriage was not successful in the end for various reasons, she still felt guilty in her heart and felt that her father-in-law was too affectionate.
As soon as this article was published, it also instantly detonated the comment area.
Some say that their own situation is the same as that of bloggers. Even my husband agreed, but I still couldn't get over that hurdle.
Some say. Five years is long enough, and my father-in-law will look for it in three months.
is also a woman with a bad reputation who has married four or five families, but in the end, her father-in-law is still confused and contributes money and effort to the other party.
also said that his father-in-law looked for it again in less than a year, and spent money to buy a house for the other party's son. Even, some directly concealed their families and secretly obtained the certificate.
Another netizen said.
My mother has only been dead for half a year, and my father hooked up with a woman, and he didn't care about her feelings at all, and he didn't discuss it with her.
Later, he lived at home and talked about love in front of her every day.
As a daughter. She felt sorry for her mother and felt unworthy for her mother.
What's more, on the day of the old man's burial, he was still happily toasting with his new love, but when his daughter-in-law couldn't stand it and left, he secretly cried for a long time, feeling worthless for his mother-in-law.
Also, my father-in-law said on the day of my mother-in-law's funeral that I wanted to have fun.
As a result, in less than half a year, I found a new love.
Alas, is it true that affectionate people have always been women?!
In fact, behind these events are the same truth.
That is: affection is never eternal!
In the incident, it was mostly women who burst into tears.
Women always have a lot of empathy, and they feel that they have sacrificed so much, and as a result, once they leave this world, men are not just as happy to find another woman.
Live in your room, sleep in your bed, possess your husband, and enjoy the wealth you have created.
It's so sad and sad!
However, this is the naked truth and fact.
I have seen a **, which makes many people sigh.
There was a loving couple who were separated in the war, and when they met again, they were both in their twilight years, hugging each other and crying.
In order to wait for the old grandfather, the old grandmother chose to never marry, and the old grandfather is now full of children and grandchildren.
The grandmother has been waiting for a lifetime, and what she has been waiting for is that the grandfather is looking for someone else.
Time has passed, and everything is wrong.
The so-called undying love always seems so vulnerable in the face of reality.
Writer Yu Xiuhua once said: "Love is simply a lie in front of human nature." ”
is like the love story of Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe, which can be called a model of love.
The love letters written by Wang Xiaobo when he pursued Li Yinhe were all moved.
He once wrote: "Tell you, when I think of you, I smile on my ugly face. And when I'm quiet, you emerge from the depths of my heart, just as Aphrodi emerges from the waves. ”
And this sentence: You are so cute, you make people love you to death. As soon as you come, I am determined to live a serious life, not a sloppy life, even if it takes painstaking effort, even if I have to sacrifice. ”
How beautiful, how romantic.
It can be said that for love, even willing to die.
But it's such a vigorous love.
After Wang Xiaobo's death, Li Yinhe also found a new love.
She added: "It's only a matter of time before you can love again and again. ”
It is in response to that sentence: the best way to forget your ex is time, and the second is your new love. If you can't forget it, it's not long enough, and the new love is not good enough!
No matter how strong the feelings are, they can't withstand the long years.
This is human nature, and it is the truest life!
Human nature is lonely, and people need companionship.
As it says in the book "Intimacy": We seek or attract others to be our partners because we need someone to accompany us, take care of, understand, support, accept, appreciate, touch, and hug ...... sleep
Therefore, the need for someone by your side is the deepest desire of human nature, and you don't have to avoid or deliberately hide it, because it is in your subconscious.
That's human nature!
So, women really have to be kind to themselves.
Life is short, and many times you really don't have to grieve yourself.
Don't always wronged yourself because you are accommodating others, there are few people in this world who are worthy of you always bending over. Bending over for a long time will only make people get used to your low posture, and your unimportant.
Housework is always unfinished, and children's hearts are always unfinished. Don't let yourself be too tired and give your whole heart, and as a result, it will be someone else's cheaper.
Don't be too expensive if you want to eat, and don't say it's wasteful if you want to wear it.
When you're upset, find a small gathering with friends, and when you're tired, find a place to rest for a while.
You're important, but you're not that important either!
So, learn to love yourself and spoil yourself.
There is one person who will never turn his back on you, and that person is yourself!
So, at all times, put yourself first, and physical health is the most important thing.
The so-called deep love can only be proved by living.
In addition to life and death, everything else in life is a trivial matter. Therefore, no matter what troubles you encounter, don't embarrass yourself, but love yourself fiercely.