What is Love?
Li Yinhe said: Love is actually to like a person from the heart, pay attention to him, like his appearance, like his voice, like his thoughts, like his character, like to be with him, like to talk to him, and single him out of the crowd.
Love is made up of many components, and we will do many things to prove love, but only these two things, if he has not done it, it is not true love.
We've been through the storm together
There is a saying in the wedding vows that goes like this:
I will share my life with you. In good times and bad, rich and poor, healthy or sick, joyful or sorrowful, I will always love you."
It is true that the love that can experience the ups and downs together and share the joys and sorrows is more unforgettable and unforgettable.
The fairy love between Zhang Jiahui and Kwan Yonghe has been promoted by the Hong Kong media for many years.
But in fact, when the two people first dated, ** was completely different.
Guan Yonghe has a wealthy family since she was a child, there is no shortage of food and clothing, and everything is not worried.
On the other hand, Zhang Jiahui was born in a single-parent family, because his family was poor, he worked as a small worker at the age of 14 to make money to subsidize his family.
When the national goddess falls in love with a poor boy who is playing tricks, not only is the outside world not optimistic, but even the poor boy himself is suspicious.
Zhang Jiahui once said such a thing on the show:
Because of low self-esteem, Zhang Jiahui chose to escape, and took the opportunity to go to South Africa to deal with relatives' affairs, and quietly left Hong Kong, without telling his family or Guan Yonghe, and when Guan Yonghe returned home from work, Zhang Jiahui could not be contacted.
I went for eight months, and I didn't rush back to China until I received the news that my family had been diagnosed with cancer.
After returning, Kwan not only did not blame him, but even took care of his sick family members on his behalf during the period of his "disappearance".
Zhang Jiahui said that it was this incident that made him firm in the future of himself and Guan Yonghe, and he was no longer swayed by the words and eyes of irrelevant people in the outside world.
True love is not a momentary novelty, nor is it a catastrophe to fly separately, but to be able to walk through the ups and downs of life hand in hand, and face all the ups and downs together.
Talked about the future together
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
When people reach a certain age, what they need is not vigorous love, but a person who will not leave. ”
The person who truly loves you is reluctant to let you wait too long, and true love is to give you a visible future from the beginning.
In "Do You Know", Gu Tingye's love for Minglan is never an empty word.
Gu Tingye said when he courted Minglan to marry;
I don't want to see you live your life in such a grievance, I don't dare to say that you are good to marry me, in short, I pointed to the sky and said: "From now on, I am the oldest in the men's pile, and you are the oldest in the women's pile." ”
Just this sentence moved Minglan and made Minglan determined to marry him.
Before the two got married, they were afraid that Minglan would be wronged in her in-law's house, so they had already thought about opening a house to live in another house when they got married.
And tell Minglan that whoever dares to scold you, whoever slaps you, I will scold him, and see who dares to bully you!
On the day of the wedding, he handed over all the money to Minglan for safekeeping.
I have admired you for a long time, and I am willing to hire you as a wife, entrust you to feed, and extend your heirs for a lifetime!
True love is that I understand your difficulties, remember everything you have said, and think seriously about our future.
If two people are together, if they have never talked about the future, such as when they are ready to buy a house, when they will get married, and when they will have a baby, it can only mean that they have never wanted to have results with you.
To truly love someone is probably to be willing to accompany her through all the ups and downs for the rest of your life, let him participate in his life and future, give priority to the other party at every step of the future plan, stand in the other person's perspective, and take care of his emotional needs. On every dull day, stay by each other's side, no matter what happens, never forget your original intention to love.
May we be able to stand at dusk with me, ask me about porridge, turn off the lights for me, and accompany me to Gu Xingchen.