I was moved by Mr. Dong Yuhui's words in the live broadcast room, tears rained down, he said so when introducing the ribbon fish, the ribbon fish lives in the sea of 40 to 100 meters, he adapted to the pressure of this sea area, this pressure has fulfilled the life of the ribbon fish, when people fish out the ribbon fish, the pressure disappears, the bubble in the body of the ribbon fish bursts instantly, and the ribbon fish dies, some people are destined to carry the weight forward, just like the turtle snail, destined to carry the shell slowly forward.
We are often overwhelmed by the weight of life, at this time, we doubt life, complain about life, Mr. Dong's words, make me suddenly, pressure is not only motivation, pressure is a must for us to live, without pressure, we will also be like a fish out of the water, a whimper.
When we think about it, do we still complain about stress?
When people reach middle age, there are old people, there are young, the elderly take medicine and are hospitalized, children are raised and sent to school, everywhere is a place to spend money, you only have to carry it, you can't stop, you can't regress, wipe away your tears, swallow your sadness, and move forward again.
People adapt to the pressure, adapt to the original living area, and suddenly leave those pressures, which is really a little uncomfortable.
Have you found that retired people, suddenly stop working, will really not adapt, at this time, if you adjust your mentality in time, find yourself some work to have some fun, such as participating in volunteer activities, participate in public welfare undertakings, you will replay the residual heat, contribute to the society, so as to realize self-worth. Or retire, you have to cultivate some hobbies, or send love to the landscape, or splash ink, or read and reason, or sing in the pear garden, or meet opponents in chess, or raise flowers and grass, or tease cats and dogs, ......In short, people can not have hobbies, Confucius said, those who know are not as good as those who are good, those who are good are not as good as those who are happy, indulge in hobbies, forget to return, do not know that old age is coming, this kind of life, not only cultivates temperament, but also is beneficial to longevity, why not!
I often observe, those who have worked in the rural fields all their lives, were taken to the county town by their sons and daughters-in-law, the old people suddenly stopped working, and when they rested, they should be in good health, but often it backfired, and when they left labor, the old people suddenly aged a lot, and their bodies also declined.
Evolution is like this, use in and out, the more the brain is used, the more the eyes are used, the more clear the eyes, why are there more and more fat people now, one is that life is better, there is excess nutrition, the other is less labor, less exercise, from the evolutionary point of view, in the past, material scarcity, people were hungry and full, the ancients, drilling wood for fire, stone knife hunting, eating less and running more, evolving the legs of the departure, however, after the popularization of automobiles, people go out less and less like to walk, stay all day, how can they not be fat!
Each kind of fish, the depth of the water area is different, this is the result of long-term evolution and adaptation of nature, the fish live in the water area of 40 meters to 100 meters deep, shallow is not good, deep is not good, everyone can bear the weight of the pressure should also be adapted to their own ability, this is also the result of long-term evolution, the elderly often say, donkey learn to walk, the crotch jumps, and say, donkey than mules do not carry the donkey, people than people do not live, which shows that the pressure of people to adapt to the ability, too much pressure will crush people; Of course, if the pressure is too small, the pressure will not have the motivation to move forward, and the person will float.
Whether it is better to have a lot of pressure or a little pressure, or no pressure, everyone has their own opinions, and everyone is welcome to actively discuss in the comment area.