On the theatrical stage, I am a qualified actor, but I cannot be called a qualified mother. This is what Wang Ji said in tears in front of the camera.
What good mother would allow her daughter to pay 10 years of wages to make up for the shortfall? And what mother would make her mentally handicapped son a drag bottle for her daughter? And that's exactly what happened.
Wang Ji, a senior actor in the entertainment industry, has a brilliant acting career, a handsome and tall husband, and a pair of children.
However, this seemingly beautiful situation hides the pain of marriage - Wang Ji's son has an intellectual disability.
Netizens sympathized with this, but they were also puzzled by this: Is it possible that if the son has a problem, he will implicate the daughter's life? So, how did Wang Ji become an "unqualified" mother? What was her life like?
In 1994, the TV series "Beijinger in New York" dominated CCTV and swept the country. The actors of the play also shined, and Wang Ji, who played the role of Ah Chun, became the goddess in the hearts of many men overnight.
Since then, Wang Ji is no longer an eighteenth-tier actor, but one of the first-line female stars.
Wang Ji was confident in her future at the time, and she believed that her future would be bright. However, she didn't realize that the wheels of fate had begun to turn.
Wang Ji, born in 1962, is an authentic Beijing girl.
Because the policy at that time required her father to go to Guizhou to support the construction, she could only rely on her sister and mother to live.
In order to raise her two daughters, Wang Ji's mother worked very hard, working as usual during the day and working as a temporary worker at night. Wang Ji empathized with her mother's hard work, so she not only felt sorry for her mother, but also learned to live independently, and gradually cultivated a strong and brave character.
Wang Ji and her sister rely on each other to live together when their parents are not around. They support each other, one is responsible for carrying water, one is responsible for lighting the fire, one is responsible for cooking, and the other is responsible for stir-frying. Even without the company of her parents, Wang Ji quickly showed her mature side.
Wang Ji often goes to the neighbor's house to play, because they have a very fashionable TV set at home.
Through the inferior display, Wang Ji saw an unprecedented scene: a little girl in a ballet costume, dancing gracefully. Inspired by this, she imitated the plot of the TV series and danced with her hands.
She quickly caught the attention of her mother, who said, "This child is very talented".
Wang Ji was delighted by her mother's praise, which prompted her to decide to choose the path of literature and art, and since then she has planted this seed in her heart. When she was fourteen years old, she was successfully admitted to the People's Liberation Army Art Troupe and became a literary soldier.
Since then, she has stepped into the field of literature and art. When she was 18 years old, a Hong Kong film and television company was preparing to shoot "Treasure Hunting", and this thick-eyed Wang Ji unexpectedly caught their attention. The crew was full of praise for her beauty, and after the successful completion of the movie, Wang Ji was also well-known in the entertainment industry.
Wang Ji decided to further develop her career in the entertainment industry, and she plans to apply for the ** Drama Academy.
Because of a series of coincidences, she finally entered Renyi's acting training class and became classmates with Liang Guanhua, Song Dandan and others.
Wang Ji spent the most unforgettable 6 years of her life in the training class, during which she and her classmates devoted themselves to learning acting every day, and had no time to touch any works. It can be said that these 6 years of hard work have made her and her classmates experience a low period in their lives.
Wang Ji felt that she was tormented by the inability to become famous, so she secretly looked for every opportunity to increase her popularity.
In 1985, the ambitious Wang Ji went to Beijing TV and became the host of the entertainment program "Family 100-second Knowledge Competition". On stage, her passionate performance attracted the attention of many producers, which made her feel very excited, as if the bright road of the future was unfolding in front of her.
After she returned to the Renyi performance training class, she was criticized by the teachers and leaders in the class, because Renyi stipulated that students were not allowed to take over filming in advance before graduation.
The school's goal in this move is to prevent some children from being swayed by money too early and unable to concentrate on acting. However, Wang Ji was very confused by this, and even had a heated argument with the teachers at the school.
Wang Ji's grandmother came thousands of miles to Beijing to see her, but Wang Ji's leave was not approved several times. This made Wang Ji very angry, and in the end she decided to solve the problem was to run out by herself and not greet the teacher directly.
After Wang Ji returned to school, she experienced a lot of criticism and education, and the frustration and grievances of many years exploded at that moment. After a big quarrel with the leader, she decided to leave Renyi early. It all happened after she visited her grandmother.
She chose to leave after rehearsing her last play, Pekingese, in 1987.
She waved goodbye to the stage, packed her bags, and set off for the distant United States.
She went to the U.S. to attend a better acting school, and despite Wang's limited funds, she devoted all of her money to the training class.
During the day, she lives on only two slices of bread, and at night she lives in a damp and cold basement. Wang Ji is not very good at spoken English, so she trains day and night. In the end, she was successfully admitted to the University of California, Los Angeles in this state of part-time work and study, and her hard work paid off.
Wang Ji returned to China after completing her studies in 1989 and resolutely devoted herself to the entertainment industry. However, despite her confidence that she would make a difference, the reality was a big disappointment for her - her performance in the entertainment industry was mediocre, she never got a high-profile opportunity, and her roles were always in supporting roles.
She was fortunate to marry her first love Gao Feng, and welcomed the birth of her daughter Gao Liwen in 1991.
Wang Ji was very happy with her daughter's arrival, and then, she unexpectedly got a chance. In 1993, Chen Daoming took the initiative to contact Wang Ji and said: "We are preparing a play, you are very suitable, remember to contact me." ”
This film and television work is the classic "Beijingers in New York", Feng Xiaochun immediately concluded after seeing Wang Ji: "Ah Chun is you." ”
Wang Ji agreed to play "Ah Chun" without hesitation, and the preparations were ready, but just as filming was about to start, she was surprised to find out that she was pregnant again!
In order to ensure that the crew's progress was not delayed, she had to endure physical discomfort and insist on completing the filming during her pregnancy. By the end of the work on the set, Wang Ji was exhausted. Therefore, she had to give up all her work and go home to recuperate and wait for a new life to come.
In 1993, Wang Ji's son Gao Xiaofei was born successfully, and "Beijinger in New York" was also successfully broadcast, which made Wang Ji completely a star in the north and south of the country, and she achieved a double harvest of family and career at the same time.
has just ushered in a little improvement in life, but encountered a prank played by God on Wang Ji - his son Gao Xiaofei fell ill one after another after birth, and even had convulsions all over his body from time to time, and the situation looked extremely bad.
After the diagnosis, the doctor told Wang Ji that this is a manifestation of congenital dysplasia and a precursor to epilepsy, which is likely to lead to congenital intellectual disability and requires lifelong medication**.
When Wang Ji heard the news, she burst into tears on the spot, she never expected that even if she gave everything, she would give birth to this child, and she would be a disabled child! She was deeply remorseful and begged her husband to do everything he could to save the child.
Since then, the family has been running around major hospitals in their home country, and even went to the United States to receive **, but unfortunately, the child's condition has not improved much.
Wang Ji's family was in financial trouble, but she didn't give up. For the sake of her son's illness, this great mother worked tirelessly and starred in one drama after another.
Since 1995, Wang Ji has published at least one work a year, and fortunately, her efforts have not been disappointed. In 2002, Gao Xiaofei's epilepsy was **, but his intellectual disability was never able to**. Even more sad is that the child was also diagnosed with autism.
One illness subsided, followed by another.
Wang Ji was in a terrible mood, and what made her feel desperate was that in 2011, at the age of 49, she was cheated out of her life savings by a close friend! To make matters worse, the money was supposed to be her life for her son**.
This incident was a huge shock to her and even caused her to suffer from depression.
After Gao Liwen learned of the change in her family, she immediately returned to her mother to accompany and comfort her. However, the mother made a ridiculous request: "You are still in school, and you will make a lot of money when you become an actor in the future, and I want you to give me all the money you earn." It's a 10-year debt repayment plan with all in the first year, 90% in the second year, and so on. ”
The ten-year agreement between mother and daughter is not expressed as mutual comfort and companionship, but is full of calculations.
Therefore, netizens were very surprised when they heard about this, and criticized "Is this son born to you or your daughter?" "Everyone was confused by Wang Ji's behavior. However, the party Gao Liwen did not respond to the outside world's questions.
As a mother, Wang Ji's behavior is completely understandable, a son who has no ability to take care of himself, who else can he rely on if he doesn't rely on his sister? A hundred years later, Wang Ji and her husband will definitely pass away, and then the child can only live dependent on his sister.
Gao Liwen will fall into a situation where she has an extra oil bottle for no reason, and she will have to "pay off the debt" for this child for the rest of her life and repeat the mistakes of her mother.
Therefore, many friends advised Wang Ji, saying, "You will only feel satisfied when your life can be reproduced in your daughter, don't you think?" ”
Wang Ji replied with tears in her eyes: "As a mother, I feel that I am unqualified, and my actions are entirely to ensure my son's future, but I am sorry for my daughter and harmed her life." ”
Until now, the family is still trying to take care of this mentally handicapped child, and Wang Ji has given up most of her job in order to accompany her son.
In order to make the child happy, she often learns to make ** characters, and she is often tired and has back pain. The feelings of the parents are really sympathetic, but even from another point of view, this child is the crystallization of her and her husband's love, and should not become a "task" for the daughter to complete in her life.
If her daughter Gao Liwen agrees, then there is no dispute that the "ten-year plan" will be added to her, although it is somewhat unreasonable.
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