I bought a house, and my mother-in-law said that she wanted to buy a big house, and asked her how much it would cost? She said why did I pay!
When I bought the house, my mother-in-law said that I wanted to buy a bigger house. She asked me why I was paying?
My name is Chen Xiulan. We are a family of three and have been living with our in-laws for many years. Now, we live together. My child is in the secondary school of kindergarten and will be in the first grade in two years. Where we live now, it's quite far from the university, so we wanted to buy a building nearby.
When I want to buy a house, I often keep an eye out for changes. We are all ordinary people, and if we can save, we will save. Recently, I found out that the house is ***, so I told my husband that this is a good time to buy a house. In two years, our child Kunzi will be in first grade, and the place where he lives now is very close to the school, and it is difficult to drive there.
My husband said, "When this week is over, we'll go to the place we were last visited." "The place we looked at before was good, but the price was a little more expensive.
The husband said, "We have to make good money and think about our baby." "I held out my thumb to my husband and praised him for being just as much as I was for the sake of the baby.
When I heard that we were going to buy a house, my mother-in-law was very strange, "How big do you want to buy?" The husband said: "We don't have much money, so we plan to buy a 90-square-meter house here, which is enough for us and his children." ”
My mother-in-law said that there were too few rooms in the three bedrooms, so I said, "Okay, Mom, we have one set for the two of us, one set for Kunzi, and the other set for the study." "Sometimes, the elders of our family miss their children and can move to us. She asked, "You bought such a small set, will Juanjuan go home?" I soothed: "Mom, we're moving, it's so big here, can my sister find a room at random and not let her live there?" ”
But the mother-in-law refused to give up, and insisted that we buy a third house, and we had to buy a fourth house. She said that we sisters and brothers have a deep relationship, especially the only sister, and think that when the eldest brother and sister-in-law buy a new house, we should first leave a house for the sister-in-law, so that she can have a comfortable place to live in the younger brother's house.
I patiently told her that since my sister-in-law was going home, it would be better to go with her parents, why should I go with her brother?
Besides, I haven't heard of anyone preparing a special room for my sister-in-law, especially when they have a house at home.
This sentence made my mother-in-law a little displeased, and she said to me angrily: "What nonsense are you talking about? ”
I replied casually:"Well, Mom, I'm not arguing with you in this matter. If you had to buy a bigger house, what would you pay for? You also saw that Yu Nan and I don't have much money, can you help? ”
As soon as she talked about money, her mother-in-law immediately changed her face, and hurriedly said that she had no extra money, so don't take advantage of the old lady. When the husband saw this scene, he was immediately happy: "Mom, look, you two are arguing so fiercely, you don't say anything when it comes to money." ”
Rest assured, we never wanted to live on your money. We are ready to buy a house according to our financial resources. Although you insisted on keeping a room and wanted us to buy a four-bedroom apartment, Xiulan used a little trick to get you to support us.
Although I live with my mother-in-law, I still don't know much about her. She was a very misty old woman, and as long as she had money, she would not come back.
And my sister-in-law doesn't have much friendship with me. She always ran home and spoke ill of me to her in-laws.
Fortunately, the old lady is a very reasonable person, and there are some things that she will not believe.
Fortunately, she has been following her in-laws all these years, and there have been no major conflicts. Although there are some small contradictions on weekdays, there is not much change between mother-in-law and mother-in-law. However, living alone is not as good as living alone with a family of three. Although I haven't bought a house yet, I still fantasize about how happy my family and I will be in the future.
And her brother-in-law wants to spend more time with her parents.