The report, which sparked a lot of controversy, was about a man who quit his job with an annual salary of 300,000 yuan to care for his paralyzed father for three years.
Some think it's one"Foolishness", should not give up work; It has also been suggested to bring in a caregiver to assist with care to avoid future financial difficulties. However, regardless of where everyone stands, we should respect everyone's definition and way of dealing with family and affection.
After all, families and loved ones are the ones who deserve our care and care for the most.
In the face of netizens' accusations, the party did not respond, but just thought quietly. It is difficult to balance the gains and losses in life, and money and family affection are often not both. The signs of age of the parents are obvious, and the gray hair and wrinkles reveal their dedication.
Their love is selfless and they leave the best for their children. However, how much time can children spend with their parents after they start a family and take care of their own family? Once family affection is lost, it can never be regained.
Therefore, we should cherish every moment with our parents and be grateful for their efforts.
Life is short, how much time can we spend to repay our parents' nurturing kindness? Mr. Liu, a man from Anqing, Anhui Province, earns 300,000 yuan a year, which is a distant figure for many people, but he chose to give up the job.
The reason is that he learned that his father suffered a traumatic brain injury due to an accident in 2020, resulting in paralysis in bed and unable to take care of himself. In this regard, Mr. Liu decisively decided to resign and go home to take care of his father.
He knows that we can never predict which will come first, the unexpected or tomorrow, but he firmly believes that his father needs his care and he must go home.
His mother offered to take care of Mr. Liu's father, but Mr. Liu refused. This may be because Mr. Liu wants to fulfill his responsibilities as a son, or it may be because he is afraid of losing his father.
When his father had an accident, he might not have been able to see him if he hadn't been taken to the hospital in time. Judging from Mr. Liu's annual salary and his performance after his father's accident, he is a responsible, responsible, and hard-working person, which is largely due to the good education of his parents and teachers, and of course, his personal efforts.
In recent years, the job market has been stressful, and many people have been looking for jobs for many years after graduation and still can't find them. Some people say: "It's not hard to find a job, it's just that you have a high mentality, you can't get what you want, and you can't get what you get." ”
Is this really the case? Only if you are not satisfied with yourself, you will work harder to change yourself. If you go with the flow, where will your ambitions be? Mr. Liu's move has also been questioned by many as a result.
These netizens are in their own point of view, interfering in the lives of others, and some even speak hard to hear. But Mr. Liu believes that none of this matters.
Because, someone once said, "Why don't you let your mother and nanny take care of you and work by yourself?" ”
Each family has its own unique circumstances, just like Mr. Liu's family. His mother had worked hard for most of her life, and she had some health problems as a result.
For people with experience in caregiving, taking care of others is a job that is both hard and requires inner strength. If, after months of careful care, the patient is still not getting better, this will not only cause a loss of confidence, but also cause harm to the patient's family.
Mr. Liu did not want his mother to see with his own eyes the person he had lived with for decades was paralyzed in bed and could not recover for a long time. This is undoubtedly a disservice to his mother.
Therefore, Mr. Liu chose to stay with his mother and accompany her, which is his repayment for his father's nurturing grace and dedication to the family, and it is also his obligation. Every father is great, they are the backbone of the family.
They seem to be able to do anything in life, but they were once children, and there are times when they are old, and they are afraid of dragging down their families, and they also have their own worries.
As children, no matter where we are, we must never forget our families, who also need our care and companionship.
Life is inseparable from money, which can satisfy our material desires, such as buying clothes, electronics, transportation, real estate, etc. However, there is one precious thing that money cannot buy, and that is affection.
While money can lead to a comfortable life, it can also take away the time we spend with our loved ones.
If Mr. Liu chooses not to quit his job and instead find a nanny to take care of his father, will the nanny be able to take care of his father like his own son? After all, family members know their relatives better than outsiders, whether it is diet or physical aspects, parents have worked hard all their lives, but when they are sick, they can't get a day of companionship for their children.
Years later, Mr. Liu may regret his choice. ”
If Mr. Liu's father has been paralyzed in bed, how much time can Mr. Liu spend with his father even if he has an annual salary of 500,000 or 1 million? The answer is perhaps no.
A person who is paralyzed in bed, unable to move freely, unable to appreciate the beauty of life, even the basic diet is restricted, and can only spend every day in bed, although there is a lot of money, but what he sees is waste paper, which is more chilling!
So, how much practical significance does such money have?
In this fast-moving society, we often see some elderly people alone at home, although their children will give them money regularly, but this does not fill the emptiness in their hearts.
What they need is not more money, but more companionship and care. They are older and often feel lonely and want someone to talk to them. Their legs and feet are inconvenient, money has no temperature for them, they just hope that during the festival, the children can go home to accompany them, and that is their happiest moment.
They look forward to the children coming home to see their homes and their fathers and mothers waiting for them. After the excitement, it was deserted, and they had to wait months or even a year before they could see the children again.
This is the situation of most elderly people now, this kind of family affection is irreplaceable by money, and it is an emotion deeply rooted in our hearts. People who are working hard outside, if they feel aggrieved in their hearts, they will be in a much better mood if they give a chat to their families.
Some people also say: "Mother is the best medicine for all diseases", as long as you give your mother a **, the physical pain will be reduced a lot.
In life's journey, affection, friendship, and love are priceless treasures that provide us with invisible support at critical moments. Because only true love and companionship can make us feel happy and satisfied.
In Mr. Liu's heart, money cannot be compared with family affection. Of course, everyone's values are different, and some people may think that money is more important because of the influence of their family of origin.
But this is only a personal perception and cannot be generalized. For Mr. Liu, family affection is more important than anything else. As a son, he excelled. In life, we play many roles, such as sons, daughters, fathers, mothers, husbands, and wives.
At every stage, we should do our part and do the best we can in each role.
The preciousness of health cannot be ignored, it is our greatest wealth and the best gift of life. It is only in the illness that we know the importance of health, and in the medicine we understand the dangers of junk food.
I regret it when things are irreparable, and when my parents die, I realize that I have not repaid them for their nurturing. Sometimes I argue with my parents and complain about themSometimes parents don't understand your behavior, and you secretly make up your mind to go to a place away from them.
Some small things will be magnified, but in life, the health of your family and yourself is the most important.
In the past three years, Mr. Liu has taken care of his father wholeheartedly and never slackened, although some people say that he is foolish and filial, but he firmly said that money is not the most important thing, and nannies and caregivers cannot replace family affection.
He is right that no one can replace his children, and no object can replace the value of affection. Although Mr. Liu lost money, he gained something more valuable than money, that is, to accompany his father, help him exercise walking, and help him regain his ability to speak.
When my father was a child, he patiently taught his children to go from crawling to walking, from only being able to "ahh
Children are the best gift God can give to parents, and parents only hope that their children can be safe and happy. Mr. Liu said that his father's state is gradually recovering, and he hopes that his father will be able to stand up, and he also said that he will not hesitate to choose the relatives who are most important to him when faced with a choice.
In recent years, there has been news circulating on the Internet that the father is suffering from cancer, but the son has chosen not to be the father**. This move sparked condemnation, with many believing that it was a son's unfilial piety, ignoring his parents' nurturing grace and allowing his father to suffer from his illness.
However, is this really the case?It is understood that in fact, the reason why the son did not treat his father was because he did not want to see his father suffer more.
Seeing that his father was full of tubes and relying on machines to sustain his life, he felt that such a ** did not make much sense. So, he decided to give up ** and take his father to travel around, taste good food, and try to make his father as comfortable as possible in the last stage of his life.
He hopes that his father can maintain his dignity when he leaves, and he also hopes that his father will not be so embarrassed when he dies. We can't empathize with this situation.
Every child does not want to see their parents leave them, nor do they want to see them suffer from illness. They all want their parents to be there for them forever.
However, the reality often does not turn out to be what it should be. We cannot blindly condemn our son's decision, because everyone has their own choices and considerations. We should respect everyone's choices, but also provide help and support as much as possible so that they don't feel alone in the face of difficulties and challenges.
In order to take care of his father, Mr. Liu resolutely gave up his high salary, and this sense of responsibility and strength of family affection for the family is touching. However, for families whose family financial situation is not well-off, it is undoubtedly worse if they easily quit their jobs to take care of patients.
So, even while working, we should make time to spend time with and take care of our families. Although Mr. Liu quit his job, he will definitely find new opportunities to showcase his talents in the future with his excellent work ability.
At the same time, he also showed a strong sense of self-motivation, which could not only take care of his father, but also comfort his mother, and truly fulfilled his responsibilities as a son. In this role, he was shown to be very successful.
The hardships of life, the difficulty of making money, and raising a family are problems that everyone must face. But the focus and mindset of things should be different at each stage.
Different people will have different choices for different things, and as bystanders, we are not qualified to criticize other people's ideas, let alone use our own opinions to slander others.