In 1923, Hu Shi returned home from Hangzhou and filed for divorce from his wife. His wife, Jiang Dongxiu, turned around and rushed out of the kitchen knife with a kitchen knife, shook the knife at Hu Shi, and scolded: Don't be so troublesome......I will kill my son, and then I will kill myself, and you will go and live your good life!
This marriage, which is the least favored in **, and is even asserted to be no more than five years, ends just the opposite.
In their decades of marriage, the deeper the relationship between husband and wife becomes, and they will grow old together. This arranged marriage of the year has become a good story in the world with the most perfect ending.
In 1917, Hu Shi stayed abroad for thirteen years, and finally returned to his hometown to practice the marriage contract. The bride is a matchmaker from her parents thirteen years ago - Jiang Dongxiu.
Thirteen years ago, when Jiang Dongxiu's mother went to relatives, she saw that Hu Shi liked it very much, and asked Hu's mother to promise Hu Shi to be her son-in-law. Jiang Dongxiu was one year older than Hu Shi, and Hu's mother felt that it was not suitable, but Jiang's mother was willing, so she tried her best to promote this marriage.
After deciding on his family, Hu Shi went to the United States to study. Jiang Dongxiu became the quasi-daughter-in-law of the Hu family. Just wait for Hu Shi to return from school, and he can get married.
But this wait made Jiang Dongxiu wait for thirteen years. In the past thirteen years, Jiang Dongxiu has often served and taken care of Hu's mother as the daughter-in-law of the Hu family and undertaken housework.
In the lonely moonlit night, Jiang Dongxiu missed Hu Shi too much. After thirteen years of waiting, that longing is as bitter as it is. There is also resentment among them, because there are rumors that Hu Shi has a woman over there, and she is still a foreign woman.
But in the end, Hu Shi wrote an 8-page letter to his mother, telling her that she would definitely come back and marry Jiang Dongxiu. Jiang Dongxiu told himself that he would wait until he returned.
Thirteen years of waiting and thirteen years of hope tempered the tenacious, brave and determined Jiang Dongxiu later.
Hu Shi is back. Jiang Dongxiu waited for the wedding she was looking forward to. The six years of marriage can be said to have been spent in normal, and they have two sons. The husband and wife also respect each other like guests.
Decades of marriage, the sun and the moon are long. Hu Shi's seven-year itch appeared.
She is the bride Jiang Dongxiu's bridesmaid Cao Chengying. A person at the wrong time, in the wrong place, falls in love with an unfortunate woman who already belongs to someone else's husband. This love is destined to be a painful relationship for her.
Six years later, Hu Shi and Cao Chengying lived together in Hangzhou for three months, like husband and wife.
Xu Zhimo told Lu Xiaoman about this. Professors on the campus of Peking University also knew about the incident, and many of them had visited Hangzhou to see the two.
This kind of ugly thing is often the last to know about the wife. Jiang Dongxiu was the last person to know.
Cao Chengying found out that she was pregnant after living with Hu Shi for three months.
It is true that there are broader topics to exchange between Hu Shi and Cao Chengying, but the content of these exchanges can be exchanged among peers, colleagues, or a professional association or poetry society.
Hu Shi and Cao Chengying were both immersed in excitement. They felt so happy that they decided to be together forever.
So Hu Shi returned to his home in Beijing and filed for divorce from Jiang Dongxiu. Jiang Dongxiu had already prepared, and she calmly waited for Hu Shi's appearance and performance.
After listening to Hu Shi's words, Jiang Dongxiu was furious, she rushed into the kitchen, rushed out with a kitchen knife in her hand, shook at Hu Shi, and warned Hu Shi: "There is no need to be so troublesome about divorce." I killed my two children, and then I killed myself. You go and live your good life! ”
Hu Shi was frightened. He hid to the side and didn't dare to squeak, nervous and worried, and let Jiang Dongxiu jump and scold. After Jiang Dongxiu made a fuss, when she saw that Hu Shi had no words, she knew that the effect she wanted had been achieved, and she accepted it when she saw it.
Jiang Dongxiu scolded Hu Shi on her lips, and hated Cao Chengying in her heart. is not only to threaten Hu Shi, but also to tell those who have anything to do with Hu Shi to stay away from Hu Shi.
After this thrilling scene, Hu Shi never mentioned the word divorce again.
Hu Shi still has a conscience and self-cultivation. If it is another man, it is not necessarily who holds the kitchen knife and who is intimidated. This is Jiang Dongxiu's luckiest part.
Love when you should love, hate when you should hate. Collect and release freely, and live your own life. Never accommodate the mistakes of pandering to your husband. This is the unusual thing that Jiang Dongxiu can break the feudal idea that only women must follow three virtues and live a wonderful life.
Her care for Hu Shi is actually meticulous. Hu Shi's later liking for Jiang Dongxiu was sincere, and he wrote a new three and four virtues for his wife. Later in their married lives, the two lived hand in hand until their old age.
Hu Shi because Jiang Dongxiu likes to watch Jin Yong**, so he specially asked someone to go to Hong Kong to buy it. Jiang Dongxiu was addicted to cards, so Hu Shi specially arranged to find another house to play cards for her.
From their family portrait**, you can see Jiang Dongxiu's status in the family, her husband Hu Shi stands behind her chair, and the children stand around her, in this scene, her husband Hu Shi looks like the eldest son of the mother in the family.
On February 24, 1962, Hu Shi died suddenly of a heart attack, and Jiang Dongxiu was heartbroken and fainted.
From the perspective of the emotional development of the husband and wife, the love between Hu Shi and Jiang Dongxiu is the real love for each other. Their love is the love that is worthy of admiration.
Hu Jiang's love is far better than the love of many celebrities of their time.
Those so-called vigorous love stories at that time, such as Zhang Ailing, loved so much that they had no self and were humble to the dust, but they couldn't get Hu Lancheng's love after all.
Xu Zhimo seems to love deeply, but he loves himself alone. When Lin Huiyin talked about Xu Zhimo's feelings for her to her daughter, she described it like this: "He (Xu Zhimo) doesn't love me. What he loves is his own love dreams. ”
After Hu Shi died, she took on the important task of sorting out "The Complete Works of Hu Shi". This is a woman's deepest love for her deceased husband.
Jiang Dongxiu, as a woman with an extremely limited level of education, is completely qualified and can be called a very unusual woman for her marriage and love.