Title Accompanied my father to Beijing for treatment, and warmly stayed at my uncle's house
Documentary: Take my father to the doctor, stay at the uncle's house of the educated youth, express my gratitude, and give away 30,000 yuan - Mr. Zhang (*Internet, invaded and deleted) [Statement: This article is the original release of Toutiao, and it has been defended by the whole network, and any plagiarism or manuscript washing will be prosecuted by law].
I originally planned to go home on the twenty-fifth day of the lunar month, but my sister's ** made me have to go back early.
My sister informed me that my father's condition was serious and asked me to come back quickly.
Although many New Year's goods are not ready, I can't take care of them at this time.
My wife and I simply packed our bags and drove back to our hometown of Xiangyang, Hubei Province overnight.
After arriving at the county seat, we went straight to the hospital.
Dad is 79 years old, and the situation is not optimistic.
After communicating with the doctor, he suggested that I take my father to a big hospital for surgery.
After thinking about it for a long time, I decided to go to Beijing because I have been working there for many years and am very familiar with it.
It feels like a long ride in the car for 12 hours.
That night, I contacted Uncle Chen, a native of Beijing who had also joined the queue in our village.
We kept in touch all these years so called him ** on the way out.
Uncle Chen was waiting at home, and when we arrived, he glanced at his father and said distressedly, "Brother Liu Cun, why is he so sick?" "Then we talk about what to do.
Uncle Chen's house is next to ***, he has acquaintances there, so let me take my father right away.
I went to the hospital with my wife and Uncle Chen, and he helped find someone and quickly arranged for hospitalization.
However, there are still four days to wait for the operation, so I usually take care of my father in the hospital, and my wife lives at Uncle Chen's house.
My sister also rushed over so that the three of us could at least take turns resting.
Uncle Chan has been busy in recent days, and he has been asking friends about his father's situation, but the results are not promising.
Yesterday morning, Uncle Chen sent 30,000 yuan, which surprised me.
I shirked it a few times, but he said, "You have to take it, and if you have any problems, just ask."
I had a lifelong friendship with your father, and that money was nothing. ”
Actually, I probably know a little bit about the relationship between Uncle Chen and Dad, but I don't know very well.
Last night I was resting at Uncle Chen's house, and my sister went to the hospital to keep vigil, probably because she was worried, she was obviously very tired, but she couldn't sleep.
Uncle Chen came to my room and said he wanted to talk to me.
He told me about some of the things of that year.
It turned out that Uncle Chen stayed at my grandfather's house when he was in line in our village.
He was six years younger than my father, and the two hit it off like brothers.
But Uncle Chen was young and vigorous at that time, and he was not familiar with our village, and although he worked the farm, he often made mistakes and sometimes hurt himself.
At that time, Uncle Chen had a very cheerful personality and could talk to anyone.
Of course, I will also have a few small talks with the girls in the village.
However, this behavior was not acceptable at the time, especially when men and women were alone.
This is not a trivial matter, and it will be criticized at least and jailed at worst.
For Uncle Chen, Dad was busy and running around.
But the results still didn't help.
Seeing that Uncle Chen was about to fall, my father ruthlessly asked my grandfather to go to the girl's house with gifts to propose marriage, and the whole village knew what my family was like, which calmed down the incident.
This is just one of them, and there is one more thing! Once, when it rained heavily, Uncle Chen went bare-chested to dig a ditch in order to prevent the wheat field from being flooded.
With such a heavy rain, he will definitely be washed away.
However, he was a northerner and couldn't swim, and that's when his father saved him.
Since then, Uncle Chan has become much more honest.
Dad and Uncle Chen became close brothers until Uncle Chen returned to Beijing.
Over the years, Uncle Chen has never forgotten his father's kindness.
In the past, he was contacted by writing letters, but now he can be contacted through **, and every year during the Chinese New Year, he will also give his father a sum of money.
For decades, the friendship between Dad and Uncle Chan was simple and sincere, and it was never unpleasant.
Maybe it's because my father is going to have surgery the day after tomorrow, and Uncle Chen is also worried.
We talked until 3 a.m. before going to bed, and when we woke up the next morning, Uncle Chen bought breakfast and came back, waiting to eat with me.
To be honest, sometimes I think Uncle Chen is quite pitiful.
Although the two sons have the ability, they are far away abroad and do not come back all year round.
Since the death of his aunt, Uncle Chen has been living alone, his personality has become introverted, and he usually does not go out much.
Occasionally get together with some old friends, but also go home in the afternoon and never linger.
In the past few days when my father was hospitalized, my uncle and aunt who were in the queue in our village also came to visit my father, and sometimes I felt that my father had been kind all his life, and he still had some blessings in his old age.
Through these experiences of my father's hospitalization, I realized how lonely it is to be old, without a partner by your side, and sometimes without someone to talk to.
Over time, some changes will occur in the heart, and aging will be accelerated.
When Uncle Chen was in the hospital, he told his father: "Brother, when you are discharged from the hospital, you will live in our house, and we will celebrate the New Year together this year."
It's not interesting for me to celebrate the New Year alone, I'm 73 years old, and it's not convenient to go to a foreign country.
I really hope that you will always stay and that we brothers can spend our old age together. ”
Uncle Chen's wish, I don't know if it can come true, it depends on Dad.
In fact, I also hope that my father can stay, after all, I work in Beijing and can take care of him thoughtfully.
It's not good to be taken care of by my mother all the year round, after all, my sister still has to take care of my parents-in-law, and as a son, I can't leave it alone.
I wish my dad a long and healthy life, this is my greatest wish.