The appearance of love is diverse and abundant, it can be the enthusiasm of youth, it can be taking care of each other in ordinary life, or it can be pure togetherness regardless of material things.
However, love in reality is not always so wishful and is often full of traces of brokenness. People chase love, longing for the sweetness and beauty, but they often wander in sadness and helplessness, leaving countless regrets and misses.
A man once met his first love in a massage parlor, but he didn't expect her to become a technician. Faced with this sudden reality, he was so painful that he even cried bitterly.
However, the ex comforted him with her earning power, a scene that was both distressing and ridiculous.
The former campus couple Xiao Wei and Xiao Li, the two had a good impression of each other during college and walked through those youthful years hand in hand. However, as graduation approached, the relationship between the two began to waver.
The pressure of job hunting overwhelmed them, and the beautiful campus life has been replaced by the cruelty of reality. They once thought that if they found a job and rented a house, they would be able to withstand all difficulties, but the cruelty of reality made them have to face the pressure of life, and love has become a little extravagant, leaving only the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Xiao Wei loves Xiaoli deeply, and he knows that his economic conditions cannot bring Xiaoli a happy and stable life. He didn't want to delay Xiaoli's youth, so he chose to let go, hoping that she could find someone who could give her a stable life.
Although his heart was full of regret and reluctance, he understood that this was the best choice he could give Xiaoli.
Xiao Wei always felt guilty about Xiao Li in his heart, so he secretly vowed to work hard, if he couldn't even keep his beloved, then what was the meaning of life?
Since then, Xiao Wei has devoted himself to his work, gradually won the appreciation of the leadership, and gradually became the company's management. Once, Xiao Wei and his colleagues went to the massage parlor to relax, and when several technicians walked in the door, he found a figure very familiar, and when he looked closely, it turned out to be his first girlfriend Xiaoli.
Seeing Xiao Li, who became a technician, Xiao Wei felt heartache, and his emotions gradually got out of control, and he walked out of the massage parlor directly. As soon as he got outside, he began to cry bitterly on the side of the street, and he thought about countless possibilities of encounters, but they were by no means the way they were now: he was a guest, she was a technician.
A former college student, but now a technician, you can imagine how difficult she has been over the years. Xiao Wei once again blamed himself for his incompetence, why he chose to let go at that time, so that she is now a masseuse.
This profession is not glamorous for many people, and it is easy to be wronged, which is also the most unacceptable point of Xiao Wei. However, at this time, Xiaoli had already seen it, and in the face of her crying ex-boyfriend, she behaved more calmly, and even comforted him and said, "It's okay, I earn more money than you now."
A street interaction was recorded and uploaded to the Internet, sparking heated discussions. Some netizens think that Xiao Wei looks hypocritical, and he proposed to break up because he couldn't bear the pressure, but now he is pretending to be a love saint.
Other netizens said that although the reputation of the technician profession is not very good, the salary is high, and everyone has the freedom to choose a profession. Xiaoli chose to work as a technician, and she must have been mentally prepared.
In short, there is no distinction between high and low professions, and as long as you can support yourself in a proper way, there is nothing to be ashamed of.
This incident triggered many netizens' memories of their first love, and they began to think about what the other half of their first love is doing now, what their profession is, and whether they have started a family.
For most people, these have become distant memories, and there is no need to worry about them all the time. After all, you are responsible for your actions when you make the decisions you make in the first place.
Whether they live happily or not, we should respect their choice, because the right to lose contact is no longer ours.
People often miss their first love, because at the age of ignorance, that love is the deepest and purest. However, the past has become history, and time cannot be turned back.
Many years later, when you reunite with your first love and find that the other person's life is not satisfactory, will you pass by indifferently, or cry on the side of the street like Xiao Wei? Maybe under the pressure of society, we are all constantly growing, but how many people can have a smooth life without regrets?
This may be the grinding that life has given us.