Love is one of the most complex and wonderful emotions in life. It can make people feel happy and satisfied, but it can also make people miserable and lost. And people behave differently in love, some always keep a clear head, others fall into blind fanaticism. So, in love, should we stay sober in the world or choose the love brain? In my opinion, the best attitude is to be unusually confused.
First of all, human sobriety is a sane attitude. In a relationship, we need to keep a clear head and not be swayed by emotions. This is not to say that we should remain cold and ruthless in love, but rather to find a balance between reason and emotion. When we meet someone we like, don't blindly fall into a frenzy, but use reason to analyze and judge. We need to consider whether the other person's personality, hobbies, values and other aspects match us, and whether we can grow together and face various challenges in life. If we find that the other person is not suitable for us, we must be brave enough to let go and not let ourselves fall into a painful situation.
However, being sober in the world does not mean that we should be absolutely rational and calm about love. Falling in love itself is an emotional exchange and experience, and if we are too rational, we may miss out on many beautiful opportunities. Therefore, in love, we also need to relax our minds moderately to feel and experience the wonder and beauty of love.
In contrast, the love brain is an overly emotional attitude. People who are in love tend to blindly pursue love, desperately give for each other, and even give up their principles and values. While this passion and dedication can sometimes lead to beautiful results, more often than not, it can leave us in an emotional spiral.
Rare confusion is a wiser attitude. In love, we can't be in complete control, and we shouldn't go too far for perfection and absoluteness. Sometimes, being a little confused and easy-going can make us better enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love. When we meet someone we like, don't always use a magnifying glass to see the other person's shortcomings and shortcomings, but accept the other person with a tolerant and understanding attitude. When we encounter contradictions and disagreements, we should not always try to win or lose, but learn to compromise and make concessions. This confused attitude does not mean that we should ignore everything, but to relax our minds at the right time and make love more beautiful and pure.
To sum up, human sobriety, love brain, and rare confusion are all attitudes we may hold in love. Human sobriety enables us to maintain our sanity and judgment, and to avoid falling into blind fanaticism; The love brain can allow us to devote ourselves to and experience the wonder and beauty of love; And the rare confusion can allow us to better enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love, and make love more pure and beautiful. Therefore, in love, we should choose the right attitude for ourselves according to the specific situation, so that love becomes one of the best parts of our lives.