What kind of person is considered a smart person? Some people believe that people with high IQ, high emotional intelligence, and high financial intelligence are all smart people. There is no doubt that all three types of people are very intelligent. But I believe that really smart people are wise, able to manage and self-discipline, and constantly improve themselves. They know how to be themselves and how to get along with themselves. This kind of cleverness is the most precious. In fact, being alive is the process of making yourself better. How? In my opinion, first of all, we must protect our own heart and prevent it from being eroded by negative forces from the outside world; Secondly, you must control your mouth and do not say words that hurt others. In this way, we can achieve self-perfection and achieve the perfect self. If you keep your heart, you can keep warm; Keep your tongue and you will avoid evil. It takes us three years to learn to speak, but we also need to learn how to be silent for the rest of our lives. What is not said is wisdom. Smart people know"Three don't ask,** said"They know what to ask, what not to ask, what to say and what not to say, and have the wisdom to shut up. This kind of wisdom is easy to identify, and the winding paths lead to seclusion, allowing them to see through the various states of life and become social elites.
Smart people, don't ask 1, things that have nothing to do with yourself, don't ask about life is like a journey, we should focus on our own path, don't interfere too much in things that have nothing to do with us. Don't talk too much, and don't ask too much, or it will cause unnecessary trouble. So, keep quiet and avoid getting into trouble. Why bother with things that don't concern you? Who are you to do? Unless you're a person with a sense of justice who wants to speak up for the vulnerable, that's commendable. But if you're just meddled out of strange curiosity or sheer gossip, then please stop. However, if you do something stupid because you follow the herd or want to make a splash, then you are not a smart person. Only really smart people don't commit such stupidity.
2. What others don't want to say, don't ask In this world, everyone has their own secrets and unspeakable pain. If others don't want to share, we shouldn't ask questions, no matter how close our relationship with them is. Because no one can understand or reveal another person's innermost thoughts or feelings. Let's respect each other's privacy and be gentle with everyone's secrets. As a person, you should understand that others will naturally say it if they are willing, and you don't have to ask deliberately. If others don't want to talk, it will be unpleasant for you to ask too many times. We need to respect the thoughts and feelings of others with love and care in order to build true friendship and trust. A really smart person should have excellent listening skills, listen to you unconditionally, and not force you to say anything you don't want to say. Because they know that rather than "what to say", it is more important to "say it".
3. The unknowable things of the future, regardless of the emotional world, people are always asking: What does our future look like? Will we have a better tomorrow? The future is unknown, and humans never know what surprises or setbacks it will bern. But it is this unknown that brings about the most spectacular journey of life, and we have seen the rebirth of hope through the ups and downs. Whatever the future brings, we should all be brave and move forward. Wise people do not worry about the future, just cherish the present, work hard to live every day, and the future will become better. It is a cherishing and optimistic attitude towards life, and it is also a positive attitude towards life, allowing us to cherish every moment and appreciate the beauty of life.
Smart people, ** say 1, don't complain in the world, don't complain, complaining too much will only make resentment attached to the body, making life more difficult and tired. Let's face life's challenges with gratitude. Life may not be so perfect, but it is not so bad either. Let's face it positively, stay optimistic and don't complain. Only then will life keep getting better. So, let's cherish each day, face the future bravely, and believe that everything will be better. 2. It's easy to say it without saying big things, but it's hard to do it. A person who always likes to brag about himself will eventually become the laughing stock of others. We should be humble and cautious and down-to-earth in order to gain true respect and success. Really smart people don't talk big, because they know that if they talk too much, they will lose the trust of others, just like smashing their own signboard. They understand the importance of integrity and authenticity in order to gain the respect and trust of others. Therefore, honesty and honesty are essential qualities for a smart person.
3. Don't say insulting words, the mouth is the epitome of the body, and we should always be cautious in our words and deeds. Bad language can make people angry, but decent language can warm people's hearts. Not saying insulting words not only reflects intelligence, but also expresses a respect and care for others. Let's say good things together and create a harmonious living atmosphere. Everyone has their own dignity, and there is nothing wrong with that. We must not harm the dignity of others, let alone humiliate others easily. Because of this, people with resentment will struggle with verbal abuse all the time. As living people, we should respect and understand each other in order to live in harmony. 4. It is really a troublesome thing not to say right and wrong, and talking too much will invite disaster and lose happiness. Really smart people don't do such stupid things. So let's not say useless things, but be silent like wise men. Wouldn't it be better to avoid the land of right and wrong, avoid the things that are right and wrong, avoid the people who are right and wrong, do your duty with peace of mind, live peacefully, and enjoy purity? Let us stay away from strife and pursue inner peace and tranquility. 5. Don't talk about your own secretsEveryone has their own secrets. But the secret is stuffed in the heart, like a heavy burden, and it is difficult to bear. Because in this world, there is nothing that cannot be hidden, it is better to be brave and confess and release the pressure in your heart. If you speak up, you may receive unexpected support and understanding. A smart person will bury his secrets deep and will not reveal them lightly. Doing so will not only ease the worries in your mind, but also avoid unnecessary troubles. Therefore, it is not that the wise man does not have secrets, but keeps them in the safest place so that they are not uncovered.
Life is full of challenges, and only by managing yourself well can you go further and steadily. It's a smart choice and the key to success. Only by giving up comparison and focusing on oneself can we continue to surpass ourselves and pursue a better self. The wise man is indifferent to fame and fortune and avoids unnecessary trouble. They don't talk easily and only ask the necessary questions. This allows them to live comfortably and not be bothered by tedious things. It's a sign of wisdom. As human beings, we should manage ourselves well, do our best, maintain inner peace and kindness, choose the right path, be cautious in our words and deeds, don't ask more questions that shouldn't be asked, don't say more things that shouldn't be said, and live freely and smartly! May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!