The relationship between men and women is very delicate.
Sometimes they are true friends, but sometimes things suddenly change and things start to get blurred.
If you're having an affair with a single man, that's fine because they might be together, but if you're having an affair with someone who has a family or has a boyfriend, it's very inappropriate.
This is immoral and will not be allowed.
In general, there are four behaviors that can cause you to cross the line: check if they apply to you.
When the relationship between the opposite sex becomes abnormal, they start eating the same bowl.
For example, two people go out to eat together, the man orders a bowl of rice, and then the two start eating together.
This behavior is appropriate for couples or lovers, but it is very inappropriate for people of the opposite sex or non-lovers to do it together.
And the opposite sex who can do this often has an unusual relationship.
Some people call it indirect kissing.
Yes! Eating together indirectly is the same as kissing.
I've read something like this before. "No matter how cold it is, I only wear my boyfriend's clothes. ”
When the other person and we are not boyfriend and girlfriend, even if the other party gives us clothes, we will refuse.
But some people don't think so. Even if it is clear that the other party is not a boyfriend and girlfriend, some people simply accept when the other party gives them clothes, and even take the initiative to ask the other party to give them clothes.
Such heterosexual relationships are ambiguous and abnormal.
This happened when my friend Xiao Nan was with a male colleague.
The two of us walk the same road after work, so we often walk together.
One day, it was raining, and Xiao Nan didn't bring an umbrella. A male colleague happened to be wearing a coat and handed it to Xiao Nan.
Xiao Nan took it, wore it home, and gave it to a male colleague the next day.
It seems to be a small thing, but it shows that the relationship is not normal.
A true friend will reject the opposite sex.
There is obviously no relationship between men and women, but there is no separation in money, and it is such an ambiguous relationship.
A good friend of mine told me that two of her colleagues were similar.
At first, we promised to have dinner together, and we always counted each other's money, but gradually, we stopped counting money.
Everyone will eventually pay the price, but we don't know who ends up paying more and who ends up paying less.
As time went on, they stopped thinking about it and started leaving the money for their meals to the same girl every month.
Normal friendships are not like this.
Only if the relationship between men and women is abnormal, money will not be counted, and money will not be separated.
If the relationship between two people is good, then they will definitely be together in the future.
So, if you're wondering if your relationship has crossed the line and if you're financially separated, you will surely know.
When men and women are together, they always carry their mobile phones and chat together, which is not normal in relationships other than lovers.
Generally, lovers will chat with each other all the time, but this is not a romantic relationship. But they kept chatting.
Is there really that much to talk about?
From my point of view, it doesn't make sense, but generally people who can do this shouldn't see each other as friends.
There are boundaries and etiquette between friends. Only lovers can be so close.
When a person treats you like this, he must treat you as a lover.
The relationship between lovers is actually obvious and intimate, and the relationship between friends is good, but there are always boundaries.
If there are no boundaries between two people, then the relationship must be out of bounds.
Don't pretend you don't know or act stupid. Some relationships need and must have boundaries.