The thread of a mother's love, the garment of her children. No matter where the child is or how old they are, they will always be the child's heart, causing endless worries and thoughts. Worrying that children who leave home will not be able to take good care of themselves, for fear that they will be wronged when they are away from their surroundings, is the common voice of parents.
However, as their children grow up, they gradually develop independent thoughts and personalities. At this time, parents need to withdraw wisely from their children's lives and allow them to choose their own path in life. However, even so, parents cannot completely put their minds at ease, because the only way for parents to learn about their lifestyle is through the circle of friends.
However, many college students choose to block their parents when they post on Moments. The main reason is that there is a large "generation gap" between parents and students, and it is difficult to understand students' words and emotions. They tend to blame and reprimand students with the ideas of the older generation, so in order to avoid trouble, college students choose to block their parents' circle of friends.
However, sometimes parents are negligently forgotten to block, which inevitably leads to embarrassing "famous scenes". In the face of the content of the circle of college students' friends, the parents complained in person, and the situation was hilarious.
Contemporary college students have lived in the online society since childhood, and they like to share various big and small affairs on the Internet to express their feelings and observations. Whether it's a happy mood or a low mood, or even some spoof P pictures and wedding photos of their idols, it's just for entertainment. However, parents often fail to understand this. Some girls shared a wedding photo with the text "Are you ready for the money", but forgot to block the parents, causing the mother to bluntly say "You have a problem"? This scene is hilarious, and the mother's fierce appearance makes the girl overwhelmed, and it is estimated that she has begun to tremble all over.
College students are more avant-garde and trendy in their thinking, and often show their naughty side in their circle of friends. Spoofing each other is not only a way to entertain, but also a way to deepen feelings, and it has become commonplace for classmates and friends to do so. However, when such a circle of friends is seen by parents, it becomes completely different.
A college student forgot to block his parents when he posted on Moments, and his father's comment was heart-wrenching: "I want to be a father if I don't have a successful career", which poked at the boy's self-esteem, and the words were unforgettable, after all, he was his biological father, and his words hit the nail on the head, which was unacceptable.
College students have a unique way of thinking, and often create some fun of "doing things" in the circle of friends. The purpose of posting a Moments is to add to the atmosphere and interact with your friends. However, this seemingly appreciative behavior of evaluating shortcomings is actually an expectation of praise and praise. And the only friends who can really understand and have fun with are those who can accept "bad friends".
Sometimes, I forgot to block my parents, and after being seen by my father, the comment became a "shortcoming killing": "Stupid, stupid and not refined, but I want money and care". Such a direct and humorous comment makes people feel the wit and ridicule of their father, and it is a blessing to have such a father.
College students have always been catching up with the forefront of the Internet, learning all kinds of Internet memes, and playing with them in their circle of friends. However, once I forgot to shield my parents, my mother saw it and conducted an "ideological education class", emphasizing that college students need to create with their hands, rather than gnaw at the old. What's more, the lethality in the comments is even stronger: "My husband also gave me flowers when he got rich, it has nothing to do with you", it is simply "Parents are true love, children are accidents" This wave of "** eats really enough."
Today's students not only celebrate traditional festivals in their home countries, but also actively participate in Western celebrations, such as Halloween. During this festival, students put on all kinds of scary makeup, want to ask for candy for scaring their classmates, and also a chance to relax under the pressure of schoolwork. However, parents have limited knowledge of Western festivals and are therefore unable to understand the significance of these makeup looks.
A girl shared her makeup to celebrate Halloween with her friends in the circle of friends, but was complained by her mother: "Ugly death deleted". The mother's evaluation is really fatal, because the original intention of makeup is usually to show a more beautiful side.
From babbling in early childhood to mastering the use of chopsticks, students' understanding of the world is inseparable from the companionship and education of their parents. However, as students grow up, their parents gradually age, but students do not grow up to stay away from their parents, but should play more of an educational role and guide parents to understand the current society.
When I was a child, my students asked their parents the same question over and over again, and their parents always answered patiently. However, as parents grow older, when parents repeatedly ask students the same question, they often face the impatience of students, which makes people lament that time flies and their hearts ache.
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait", while the parents are still healthy, students should cherish the time they spend with them. With the development of the times, parents are gradually unable to keep up with the trend, which is the time when students need to support and guide parents to understand new things.
Although sometimes parents may not behave appropriately, their intentions are well-intentioned. College students with a higher quality education should understand the minds of their parents and find appropriate ways to communicate with them and find ways to get along with each other.
Message] Although the bond between parents and students is close, it is also prone to conflict. College students should understand this relationship more because parents are also first-time parents who just want the best for their students. Although it may be too hard and inappropriate, resolving relationship issues with parents requires good communication. Parents have developed an established way that change takes time. College students should look for topics to talk about: How do you deal with your relationship with your parents? Communicate with parents in an appropriate way to promote mutual understanding.
Topic: How do you deal with your relationship with parents?
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