The private marriage of the young couple was revealed, and they begged the woman's parents for forgiveness, but they were refused to get out
It is said that kneeling originated from the ancient tradition of "kneeling and sitting". In ancient times, when there were no chairs and tables, people used to sit on the ground, a posture very similar to kneeling.
However, with the invention of chairs and tables, the powerful sat on them, while the lowly could only continue to kneel on the ground. As a result, it is widely believed that kneeling is a state of humiliation.
Still, there are situations where some people still need to show this humiliation to achieve their goals. For example, on January 20, 2023, an unexpected thing happened in Zhoukou, Henan Province......
A 22-year-old girl, Feng, went out to work after graduating from junior high school, although her parents were reluctant, she insisted on it. Feng has an outgoing personality and met a Guizhou man Sun when he was working and developed into a lover.
Sun is 5 years older than Feng, and he works here and there because of his family's poverty, hoping to find a partner. Feng was moved by Sun's affection and was soon "captured". The two secretly married without telling Feng's parents and moved to Sun's poor home in Guizhou.
Feng began to regret it, but he could only endure it for the sake of the child. Two years later, she and Sun returned to Henan to get their household registration book, and their parents were angry when they learned the truth and kicked them out of the house.
Feng's father said that the child's decision to marry without authorization was disrespectful to his parents, and they had severed ties with Feng. This incident sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Netizens generally believe that in the event of marriage, daughters should respect the opinions of their parents, and even if they advocate freedom of marriage, they should also obtain their parents' consent when determining the marriage partner.
They said that it is the responsibility and obligation of every child to respect the nurturing grace of their parents. For example, netizen Spring's story emphasized that when a daughter decides on her own marriage, she can't "cut it first and then play it", otherwise it will be disrespect and discrimination against her parents.
In general, respecting parents and listening to their opinions is the basis for building harmonious family relationships.
Professor Hu's view is that the freedom to marry is a fundamental right that gives everyone the right to decide their own marriage in accordance with the law. However, freedom to marry does not mean that the underlying conditions can be ignored.
Marriage is based on the families of the parties, so the opinions of parents should be respected when deciding on marriage. In this incident, Professor Hu believed that Feng was wrong to marry Sun privately behind his parents' back and should be criticized.
Although they already have a child, Feng's parents should still choose to forgive her. Because marriage is built on the basis of both parties and the family, respect and understanding are important factors in maintaining the marital relationship.
What do you think?