Today is Saturday, February 3, 2024, the twenty-fourth day of the lunar month of the Southern New Year.
Yesterday, I shared what I should pay attention to when I go home for the New Year, and I received it at home today to prepare for my blind date tomorrow, and now I have begun to prepare for this.
Due to the rush of time, I didn't buy today's train ticket, and I expected to go back standing or take the bus home, which was a disaster, and I would get motion sickness if I took the car for more than half an hour.
It's also an older young man, and for love, it says this:
With the development of society and the improvement of people's living standards, more and more young people have begun to pursue their careers and hobbies, resulting in a gradual increase in the number of older young people. However, older young people often have some concepts and attitudes that are different from those of young people when facing love.
The first characteristic of the older youth's view of love is that reason trumps emotion. As they grow older and more experienced, older young people pay more attention to reality and practicality, and they are more rational in their emotional considerations. They prefer to choose people with whom they can grow and live with them, rather than choosing a partner just because of emotional impulses.
The second characteristic is independence. Older young people tend to be more independent, they are less dependent on others, and are more inclined to take on the responsibilities and obligations of life on their own. When choosing a partner, they pay more attention to each other's independence and autonomy, hoping that they can support and help each other.
The third characteristic is maturity and stability. Compared with young people, older young people are more mature and stable, they do not easily show their emotions and impulses, and they know how to control their emotions and behaviors. This mature and steady attitude is also reflected in their choice of feelings, they will pay more attention to the inner qualities and character traits of the other person, rather than just looking at appearance and material conditions.
The above are the characteristics of the older young people in it, but they are very different.
I like fleshy girls.,Character.,It's more dead.,I hope the other party is a little tolerant.,If you can do it with me, it's even better.,The economic level of both sides,The ideal is, of course, that the other party is a rich woman.,It's a pity that it's really ugly.,A little unworthy.,It's just ordinary.。
So after such a calculation, the requirement is actually only the character that can get along, but after so many years, the goose still hasn't found a suitable one, which makes me always wonder if I'm a normal person. Appearance** and psychology** don't think they match, it's really distressing.
Do you think this is too high? Everyone is welcome to discuss.
After talking about the requirements for others, let's talk about myself, my friends around me all said that it was a bit of a street, and there was no way, I was a liberal arts student, I didn't have a skill after graduating from college, and I barely managed to get through the workplace, and then my family bought a house in a second-tier city with full money, no debt, so I am more and more unconfident, it seems that the reason why I haven't looked down on me for so many years should be that my economic conditions are too low?
So, what conditions do you think can be considered a normal level in the blind date market? Everyone is welcome to discuss. 2024 Travel Guide