In the hit TV series "Parents' Love", the couple played by the actor Jiang Defu and the heroine An Jie made the audience deeply moved after watching it - the love of parents is happy.
In fact, the actor Guo Tao and his wife Li Ran in reality are also a loving real couple.
Their 17-year love and marriage road is full of twists and turns but sweet and warm, and the true meaning of love woven with perseverance and understanding is more touching than any TV series.
An unexpected encounter, the connection of two hearts
In 2003, a gathering of friends became the opportunity for 36-year-old Guo Tao and 19-year-old Li Ran to meet. On the night of the party, the two met their eyes and fell in love at first sight.
Guo Tao had a deep affection for Li Ran and began a long-term pursuit.
At first, Guo Tao's courtship was not smooth, and he was even rejected by Li Ran for a time.
However, he did not give up discouraged, but obtained Li Ran's *** through a friend and started a meeting date.
In the dates again and again, Guo Tao showed sincerity and patience, much like Jiang Defu's affectionate and dedicated attitude to An Jie in the TV series.
After 3 years of pursuit, Guo Tao's sincerity finally moved Li Ran.
In 2006, the two tied the knot in Li Ran's hometown of Chongqing.
In this city, they went from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love, and began a happy life between them.
Give up on yourself and be your strong back
After marriage, Guo Tao still focused on his acting career, while Li Ran chose to give up his job and take on the responsibility of taking care of his family.
As an actor, Guo Tao needs to invest a lot of time and energy to break through himself and develop his career; As a wife, Li Ran has become the strongest backing on the road of Guo Tao's career climbing.
"As an actor, I need to focus on my career to make a breakthrough. As a husband, I need to be more considerate of my family. ”Guo Tao said.
When his career was thriving, Li Ran used his own dedication and support to fulfill Guo Tao's achievements, and this selfless dedication is admirable.
In the past 17 years, Li Ran has paid silently for this family, she has completely put down her career and become the backbone of taking care of the family.
She guarded this small family in her own way and became Guo Tao's staunchest support on the road.
This may not be like the heroic women in the TV series, but she interprets the "wholeheartedly" family responsibility with practical actions.
Find yourself in the run-in and support each other in understanding
Just as the love of parents needs to be managed by both parties, the relationship between husband and wife also needs the care and understanding of two hearts.
In the past 17 years, Guo Tao and Li Ran's marriage road has not been smooth, and there have been moments of disputes and disharmony.
Marriage is actually very much like the ocean, it takes two people to face huge waves and storms together in order to sail to the other side of happiness.
Guo Tao chose to work hard outside, while Li Ran chose to wait for the harbor.
In the run-in, they find themselves; In understanding, they support each other.
This mutual support has made their marriage what it is today.
As an audience, we not only saw the wonderful interpretation of the TV series, but also saw the real love they weaved with perseverance and perseverance behind the scenes.
This couple shows us that marriage needs mutual understanding and support from both parties in order to go through the ups and downs and reach the other side of happiness.
Li Ran gave up his career in marriage and returned to his family. Letting go of oneself is actually a kind of protection; Giving in is another kind of insistence.
Li Ran's choice has both the shadow of traditional women and the inner voice of modern women.
She has found her place in this family, and this sense of stability is also precious to a woman.
Love: It takes time to test and it needs to be patient
Realistic marriage is not as easy to solve as TV dramas.
Love needs to be tested in the years, both parties need to resolve the rift with understanding, and they need to find themselves in the run-in.
We all aspire to a happy marriage, but it's not easy to get there.
When we are at the crossroads of life and love, we may be impulsive; But looking back, we need to learn to understand and compromise.
There is no perfect answer in life, only two souls continue to try and make mistakes and understand each other, so that they can go through the wind and rain and share the joy of family together.
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