There is no need to be too sensitive, and there is no need to be too soft, because being overly sensitive and weak will only keep happiness away. There is no need to speculate too much about the casual words of others.
Never show yourself to others that you are vulnerable and helpless, because there are not many people in this world who truly sympathize with you. Learn to face it alone, because only you are always dependent.
For those who aren't worth the wait, just let it go. Your deep affection cannot impress someone who does not love you, and the source of the hurt is often your own attachment.
When you can see a person clearly without exposing it, you have learned to be tolerant; When you hate someone without turning your face, you've learned to respect. There are always people and things in life that you are not used to, and vice versa.
Time is the best medicine for everything, it allows us to forgive the unforgivable, and it also allows us to cross those who were once insurmountable. People must always learn to look forward.
There is no need to explain yourself too much to others, because people who really like you will naturally like you, and people who hate you will not change their minds because of your explanations.
Don't force those you can't catch up with and those who leave you. Sometimes, in the face of feelings, we need to learn to be a decisive person.
The great wisdom of life lies in the fact that you can afford to take it and put it down. The former determines how easy your life will be, and the latter determines how far you can go.
The hardest thing is not to stand up for what you believe in, but to try to change the misconceptions that others have about you. This effort is not to please others, but not to wronged oneself.
It's not that you don't want to go through the ups and downs with someone you love deeply, it's just that sometimes that person isn't worth it. If there is a person worthy of deep love, it is happy to give your life for him.
I will also feel happy when I see your happiness. Be happy not only when you're with me, but also when you're with anyone. This is true happiness. Friends should share happiness with each other.
You can have grievances, you can cry, but please don't show your vulnerability in front of everyone. Keep some strength to yourself.
I have experienced some roads to know the hardships; Only after dealing with some things do you know the experience; Happiness is only known when you live for a lifetime. That's how life comes by.
Luck in life is earned through hard work. There is no such thing as unearned. Success and happiness can only be achieved through one's own efforts and struggles. Others can help you for a while, but they can't help you for a lifetime; It can help you do things, but it can't help you feel. The road of life depends on oneself, and success depends on oneself.
Life is like a game, and each level has different challenges and rewards. Only by bravely facing and overcoming these challenges can we see the scenery of the next pass. Keep enriching yourself and improving yourself so that you will be able to cope with it when it comes in the future.
The most valuable thing for a person is not money, wealth, fame, fortune and power, but a person's character and qualities. These qualities directly determine a person's worth and trustworthiness. Be a real person, sincere and kind, not too calculating, and not too domineering. We must leave room for doing things, and we must accumulate virtue and do good deeds, so that we can go further and more steadily.
If you feel aggrieved, it means that you still have your own bottom line; If you feel lost, it means that you still have pursuits; If you feel pain, you still have strength; If you feel hopeless, there is hope. In a sense, as long as you still have yourself, you will never be defeated.
Life doesn't go the way you want it to, it gives you a period of time that makes you lonely, confused, and silent. If you use this time to learn to be alone with yourself, you won't feel lonely and empty when you're alone.
Don't rely on one person easily, he will become a habit for you. When separation comes, you lose not someone, but your spiritual support. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you are, so that you can walk more calmly.
Everyone has their own way of living, don't pay too much attention to other people's eyes, otherwise it will disturb your mind. Only by learning to appreciate oneself can one be appreciated by others.
Life is like a dance party, but the person who taught you the first steps may not be able to accompany you to the end. So learn to dance on your own, and spin gracefully, even when unaccompanied.
Don't think too highly of yourself, so it's easy to look down on others. Don't think too low of yourself, or you'll lose your value. You have to put yourself in the right position to live more comfortably.
Life is like a play, because we get together because of fate. It is not easy to help each other until you are old, whether you should cherish it more. Why bother to lose your temper over a trivial matter and think about it later. When others are angry, I am not angry, and there is no one to replace them. If I am angry, who is happy, it will hurt my mind and it will be laborious.
Life is like a book, and fools are like looking at flowers, flipping through them casually, and smart people read them attentively. Because he knew that the book could only be read once. Therefore, I hope you will read every chapter of your life with your heart and do not leave any regrets.