A person always goes through a slow transition from loving to not loving.
From the original glue-like paint to the heart like water; From the original nothing to say, it gradually became nothing to say.
reminds me of a lyric by Karen Mok: "The beginning is always wonderful every minute, and everyone thinks that enthusiasm will not be reduced." ”
Love can't be hidden, and neither can love.
When a man doesn't want to love you anymore, he will say these 3 words to you frequently!
I don't have timeHer colleague Li Li broke up, and in the months leading up to the breakup, she and her boyfriend saw very little because the other party always didn't have time.
There was no time to reply to the news of Li Li;
didn't have time to eat with Li Li;
I didn't have time to watch movies with Li Li;
Even Valentine's Day didn't have time for Li Li.
Li Li said: In the past, when he was in a long-distance relationship, he would transfer a plane to accompany me for two hours between business trips and then fly away immediately.
Now we're together, but I'm too busy to spare a few seconds to reply to my messages.
I'm just thinking about it now, ** it's busy, I just don't want to.
People are the same, they will take the initiative to give time to what they like.
Just like you like to play games, no matter how busy you are, you will find time to play two games, just like you like to read, and you should also take a little time to read a book before going to bed, just like you like a person, no matter how busy you are, you have time to spend with her.
It is understandable that a man is busy with his career, but if a man always says to you that he is busy and always has no time to spend with you, then he is not busy, he just prefers to spend his time elsewhere.
You look at yourself
It is said that a lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, a person who really loves you will not only like your advantages, but also tolerate your shortcomings.
Whether a person loves or not, the criterion for judging is very simple, to see if he can accept your shortcomings, to see if he will dislike you, if you are the worst and he doesn't dislike it, then this is love.
If a person always dislikes you, it can only mean that he is not loving enough.
There is an episode in the love defense war, a boy dislikes his girlfriend's fat and takes him out to meet his friends, so he often forces his girlfriend ** under the guise of "good for you".
The two of them went shopping together, and when the girl tried on clothes, the boy said with disgust: "You can't wear this dress, you see how fat you are, how thick your waist is, and your arms are thicker than my arms." ”
In this regard, Mr. Tu Lei said:
"If you don't like someone, there's so much to find out why you dislike her. Your hair is too yellow, you're too dark, your legs are too thick, etc. But if you like someone, all kinds of shortcomings turn into advantages. Chubby how cute. ”No one is perfect, but because of love, those little flaws also become cute features. And when he doesn't love you anymore, you will not be in his eyes everywhere, and he will find fault with everything he says and does, such a man, leave him as soon as possible.
Can you be more matureMyolie Wu said:
"I am grateful to my ex and ex, one of them taught me how to be an obedient girl, the other taught me how to be a mature woman, but I am most grateful to my current one, who taught me how to be a child. ”There are always guys who say to their girlfriends, "Can you stop being so naïve, can you be a little more mature?" ”
In fact, when he first met you, you were like this, I thought you were like a child, very cute, but now I hope you can be sensible.
The man is still the same person, but his heart has still changed.
When you love you, you can do anything, when you don't love you, you are lively and he says you are noisy, you are cute and he says you are naïve, you are coquettish and he says you are ignorant.
But the more sensible a woman is, the more she hides her grievances in her heart, and people who are too selfless are always more likely to be let down.
Growing up is accompanied by pain, those who mature are becoming silent in the wind and rain, and those who are pampered are being themselves unscrupulously.
Good love is to spoil a person as a child, and bad love can force people to become more and more mature.
I saw a passage on the Internet:
At first, I bought a pair of shoes, and every time I rubbed a little dust, I would carefully wipe them off, but after a little time, even if I was stepped on by others, I didn't even bother to lower my head.
It's probably the same for things and things, at first you will feel distressed when she frowns, and then it doesn't matter if she cries about you.
In fact, there are traces to follow whether you love or not. He loves you, so he naturally holds you in the palm of his hand, and doesn't want you to stain a trace of dust.
He doesn't love you, so he will leave you in the corner at will, let you be covered in dust or broken, anyway, he is ready to leave the moment he doesn't love you.