Chinese New Year The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and some netizens suggested canceling visiting relatives and friends during the New Year, but I don't agree with this statement.
This statement does not represent everyone's thoughts, let alone affect everyone.
It is very different now than it was in the past, when most people were tied to the land of their birthplace and the population barely moved.
Now it's at your disposal, and many people may struggle in a different place after graduating from school, and rarely go home all year round.
Nowadays, people's concept of family and friendship has changed a lot, and it is becoming more and more diluted, and everyone is usually busy with work and has no time to get together.
Some people think that visiting relatives and friends is a waste of time, and it is rare to take a small long vacation during the Chinese New Year to rest, and they should sleep and recuperate at home.
And some people think that relatives are complicated, and it feels awkward to get together, and there is no point in making sense.
When friends and classmates get together, it is not about reminiscing about old days, reminiscing about feelings and talking about hearts, but mostly comparisons, posing scores, and strong vanity, which has changed its taste.
Therefore, these gatherings are not interesting during the Chinese New Year, and it is better not to gather at all.
Today's relationship between people is very indifferent, everyone rarely moves, and there is no so-called family and friendship.
I remember when I was a child, my grandfather used to hang out with some of his old friends, and he would probably drink tea and chat until the evening, and at noon and in the evening, my grandmother would prepare a good meal and a drink or two.
Sometimes when I met old friends on the road, I shook hands with each other and greeted each other, and I didn't want to let go for a long time.
The comradely feeling in the past is really very good, very friendly and sincere.
When I was a child, although my family was poor, my elders and relatives were also busy in the fields all year round, but the New Year was a must-gather, and each relative's house had to run all over, not just a matter of eating a meal, everyone used the New Year together to enhance the feelings between relatives, so that they would not be estranged.
And if something happens to any family, someone will go out to help, this is a relative.
Nowadays, people's feelings have been diluted to such a point, and I don't know who is still suggesting what to do on the New Year's Eve to cancel the topic of visiting relatives and friends, this kind of thinking is not normal, is it good for everyone to be isolated? Such a suggestion is to create a distant relationship, indifferent to human feelings, and its heart can be punished.
If everyone doesn't come and go, there will be no human touch in this society, and in addition to hypocrisy and indifference between people, the rest will be a lonely shell, and the society will become more and more terrible.
Now some people don't know what crooked thoughts, their minds are not right, and they do some so-called crooked things, you can not visit relatives and friends, but don't create and exaggerate this kind of thoughts and concepts, don't deviate from the rhythm.
Of course, it is not excluded that some people are indeed too busy at work and want to take a good rest and adjust during the New Year, which is completely understandable.
And some people with ulterior motives deliberately use this topic to create alienation from human relationships, and the rhythm is ill-intentioned.
If this continues, the whole society will not care about the concept of human feelings, and people's indifference and ruthlessness will be the norm, and such a society is very terrible, and it is by no means alarmist.