List of high-quality authors Spend 5000 to hire a male nanny, want to sleep in a room with a nanny and is rejected, uncle: add money, nanny: okay.
With the continuous development of society, the internal structure of many professions is undergoing earth-shaking changes, the most notable of which is the change in the ratio of men and women. With the promotion of the concept of equality between men and women, many professions that were once limited by gender discrimination are undergoing a positive transformation. Although this change may not be significant in the short term, the overall trend is clear. At the same time, a new profession, male nanny, is also gradually emerging.
A 78-year-old man, surnamed Zheng, has two daughters, one married to a distant country, and the other studied abroad, and rarely can go home to visit. Mr. Zheng not only felt lonely in his heart, but as he grew older, life became more and more inconvenient, so he came up with the idea of hiring a nanny. In a small city, Mr. Zheng spent 5,000 yuan to hire a male nanny, hoping to share the bits and pieces of life, but was rejected by the male nanny. Mr. Zheng tried to change the nanny's mind by raising the salary, and finally reached a consensus.
Mr. Zheng recalled: "My hometown is not far from the provincial capital, and although life is not luxurious, it is really not easy to find a suitable male nanny in this not too big city. ”
Mr. Zheng has two daughters, both of whom are very good. The eldest daughter went to university in Beijing and continued her studies until she obtained a doctorate. The daughter's tuition fee is borne by Mr. Zheng and his wife, and the other expenses are borne by the daughter herself. After graduating, the daughter found a good job in Beijing and settled there with her eldest son-in-law. Although Mr. Zheng was reluctant, he also silently accepted his daughter's choice to pursue a better life.
The younger daughter is six years younger than the eldest daughter and is also an excellent student. My wife is an educator who has put a lot of effort into the education of her two daughters. The youngest daughter has been studying at an excellent university, and although she promised to stay in her hometown, she eventually decided to study abroad. Mr. Zheng spent a lot of money for his daughter to study abroad, but his daughter told him that he wanted to settle abroad. Although Mr. Zheng is helpless, he also understands his children's desire for broader opportunities.
However, as time passed, the family situation changed, and his wife passed away, leaving Mr. Zheng alone. Although the daughters have been financially supported, they rarely return home to visit. Mr. Zheng said with emotion: "No amount of money can buy the company of children. ”
In order to take care of daily life, the daughters suggested that Mr. Zheng hire a nanny. He then posted a job posting on his phone, which attracted many job seekers. Although most of them are women, Mr. Zheng prefers to find a male nanny. Considering his physical condition, he is willing to pay a higher salary to ensure the quality of life.
This story reflects on the impact of social change on family structures and career choices, as well as the experiences and moods of individuals as they adapt to change.
Not long after, sure enough, a young guy called me and asked if I needed a male nanny. I readily agreed, and I was in a good mood. At the same time, I was also surprised because I had only seen female nannies before, but I didn't expect that now the social concept is so open, and male nannies have become the choice.
We made an appointment for the interview, and the guy arrived at my house very quickly. After learning that his surname was Chen, I called him Xiao Chen. When I met for the first time, Xiao Chen gave people a sense of integrity and enthusiasm, full of youthful atmosphere, and I couldn't help but sigh at the vitality of young people.
Xiao Chen was born in the countryside and could not find a satisfactory job in the city, so he could only do some odd jobs while trying to prepare for exams. He told me that he usually has a limited income, lives in a crowded youth hostel, and lives a tight life.
After learning about my situation, Xiao Chen curiously asked me why I was so good alone, and I didn't have a serious illness, and I had to spend ** to hire a nanny. I replied helplessly, "Because of loneliness." Loneliness is scary. After Xiao Chen heard this, he stopped asking in-depth with interest.
Seeing that Xiao Chen's living environment was so simple, I felt a sense of kindness and invited him to move to my house. I was the only one living in my house, and the other party gladly accepted my invitation and chose a room far away from me. Perhaps out of vigilance, he chose a relatively separate room.
Xiao Chen has always been cheerful and lively, often chatting with me, greeting me, and occasionally telling jokes to amuse me. This companionship has made my life less boring, and I feel very satisfied to have him by my side.
When I first arrived, I found that Xiao Chen was very diligent, and he did the housework well, and he was not lost to the female nanny at all. He pays great attention to detail and keeps my belongings organized in an orderly and regular manner, even finding them quickly when I can't find something. Xiao Chen told me that when he was a child, he learned to cook and do housework at home, because the children of poor families were in charge of the house, and he had already developed a housekeeping skill.
Xiao Chen's cooking skills are also very good, every dish he cooks is in line with my taste, and the cooking is very delicious, and every dish is soft and delicious. Considering that I have bad teeth, he pays special attention to making dishes that are easy to chew. Xiao Chen told me that he also has an elderly grandmother at home who has no teeth, so he understands the needs of people with bad teeth.
However, this time of harmony was quickly shattered by some problems. After Xiao Chen lived in my house for about two months, my weight increased significantly, and my whole condition was much better. However, every night I can't help but be greedy, and ask Xiao Chen to prepare some fruits and eat some from time to time while watching TV. I didn't feel thirsty during the day, but I started to get thirsty at night, and this weird feeling bothered me. In order to quench my thirst, I often get up at night to look for Xiao Chen, but he can't hear it, and ** no one answers, because the phone is muted at night.
In the dead of night, when the temperature drops, I often feel back pain, leg pain, especially in my knees, which feels like I have been pricked by needles. Frequent waking up at night to go to the toilet, sometimes because of diarrhea, sometimes because of unbearable urine. Because of my inconvenient legs and feet, it pains me every time I get out of bed at night. However, no matter how I called, Xiao Chen always turned a deaf ear and kept his phone on silent at night.
So, I made an offer to Xiao Chen to share a room. As soon as he said this, Xiao Chen was quite surprised, his eyes revealed some fear, and he replied hesitantly: "Uncle, I am very grateful that you can take me in, but I am a serious person, if you really need someone to live with, you may consider hiring a nanny, after all, I am not suitable for this." ”
I observed Xiao Chen's expression, and I don't know if it was because I felt that the salary was insufficient or that there was some misunderstanding. I really like Xiao Chen, the male nanny, and it's not easy to find a replacement. Thinking of this, in order to prevent Xiao Chen from leaving, I hurriedly said: "I can get a raise, staying up late at night is really not good for my health." You moved the cot in your room, I often have back pain and leg pain at night, and I need your help. ”
Hearing this, Xiao Chen suddenly calmed down: "Oh, I see." Uncle, how about I move to the room next to you?So you can come to me at any time. "I politely declined the offer, that room belonged to my youngest daughter, and I couldn't just give it to someone else.
After I finished speaking, Xiao Chen hesitated for a moment and said, "Okay, uncle, I'll move now." So, Xiao Chen moved directly to my bedside, and whenever I woke up at night, as long as I called him, he always patiently got up and helped me to go to the toilet. I think it's really worth the cost. Looking for a female nanny, it is easy to have relationship problems after a long time, but Xiao Chen is different, reliable and powerful, and doing things is reassuring.
The money that my two daughters give me every month adds up to 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, and it is really a good choice to spend a little money to let Xiao Chen take care of my daily chores and chat occasionally. The originally lonely and boring life has also gained a lot of joy. Maybe it's fate.
When you get old, your body is gradually not as good as before, and you don't have to always pick the door, and you have to spend money when the time is right. After all, if life is short, why bother yourself with money. Our children have grown up, and we have fulfilled our responsibilities to them. If your children don't care about themselves, why worry about them all the time, why not put your love on yourself.