"God can't be everywhere, so he created Mom", this is a line in "Please Answer 1988". From our croaking to babbling, even if there are thorns on the road to growth, as long as we have our mother by our side, we can make people feel more down-to-earth and warm.
But such a day, Ban Yincheng only spent 13 years.
When he was 13 years old, his mother Jia Shumei left home and Ban Yincheng used it17 yearsIn search of time, he traveled all over Hebei, Shandong, Henan, and Shanxi4 provincesNearMore than 1000 villages, slept in caves, temples, wheat fields, once relied on begging and odd jobs to earn travel expenses, looking for his mother for 17 years, and finally in 2010,In the process of selling goods, Ban Yincheng accidentally found his long-lost mother
What has happened to each of them in the past 17 years? Why didn't Jia Shumei go home?
The mother left home, and the brother and sister depended on each other
Back in 1993, when the family lived in Nanzhangmeng Village, Guangping County, Hebei Province, Ban Yincheng's father died very early, leaving 4 minor children, and all the burden fell on the shoulders of his mother Jia Shumei for a while.
In those days, it was not easy for a woman to feed four children, and the hard work every day was only enough for the family to barely eat. Although the days are very hard, Ban Yincheng feels that as long as he can be with his mother, he is already very satisfied. However, this kind of thingThe bland happiness came to an abrupt end when Ban Yincheng was 13 years old.
One morning, Jia Shumei told the children that she was going back to their parents' house and that they should stay home.
But until dark, Ban Yincheng and his sister did not wait for their mother to come back, and in the dark night, the brother and sister ran to the nearby neighbors and relatives' houses to inquire one by one, but they said they didn't know.
I couldn't find my mother, my sister cried, and Ban Yincheng also cried, until she was tired of crying, Ban Yincheng said: "Let's go, sister, let's go home, our mother is waiting for us at home", when the brother and sister went home, the house was still empty.
After a while, they searched all the places they could find, but they still didn't see their mother. Later, the eldest sister married in other places, and the eldest brother also went out to work to supplement the family, so only Ban Yincheng and his sister were left at home to continue to wait for their mother to come home.
Some naughty children laughed at Ban Yincheng and said:"Your mother doesn't want you anymore! ”Upon hearing this, Ban Yincheng was extremely angry, he believed that his mother would not leave them.
After the mother left, the life of the brother and sister became more and more difficult day by day, and in the cold winter, the brother and sister did not have thick clothes, so Ban Yincheng and his sister went outside to pick up some dead branches and came back to make a fire to keep warm. There is nothing to eat at home, so I rely on the neighbors to occasionally give a few steamed buns or a little hot porridge, if I don't give them I won't take the initiative to ask for it, I am really hungry, so I ran to the opposite lady's house and patted the window to ask for a stutter.
On the day of the New Year, thousands of lights and firecrackers were blaring everywhere, and other families were eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner lively, but Ban Yincheng was alone with his sister. At that moment,Ban Yincheng secretly decided: I want to go out to find my mother!
Embark on the arduous road of finding your mother
After the Spring Festival, Ban Yincheng learned from a relative that his mother's aunt was in Wu'an, and he decided to go there first.
With a 22 borrowed from east and west2 yuan, Ban Yincheng spent 4 yuan, bought a ticket to Handan, and he was reluctant to spend any of the rest of the money on himself, and when he was hungry on the road, he asked the well-wisher to give him something to eat, so he even begged to come to Wu'an. But when I arrived, I learned that my mother's aunt had passed away and the family had moved awayThe mood that was originally full of anticipation reached the bottom.
Ban Yincheng thought to himself: Mother doesn't know how to read, and she doesn't have much money, so no one should want to harm him, as long as you look for it slowly, you will definitely find it one day. In this way, Ban Yincheng searched village by village and inquired from house to house, but soon the money on his body ran out, and he had to earn some travel expenses.
Ban Yincheng found a job in a brick factory, and because he was too young, he could only do odd jobsOthers pay 10 yuan a day, but he only has 2 yuan. As long as he can find his mother, Ban Yincheng is not afraid of hard and tiring work, and later the workers took special care of him after learning about his experience.
Dozens of days passed, and Ban Yincheng came to Xingtai with the 53 yuan he had saved, where he continued to look for his mother while working, but still did not hear any news.
In the following three years, he went to Hebei, Shandong, Henan, and Shanxi provincesAlthough each time it ended in failure, Ban Yincheng's belief in finding his mother never wavered.
The eldest brother thought that this was not a long-term solution, so he found a job in the coal mine, although it was a bit dangerous, but at least the salary was higher, so that the younger brother Ban Yincheng could find his mother with peace of mind.
With the help of the eldest brother, Ban Yincheng went to some big cities in Hebei again, in addition to the fare, he tried not to spend money where he could not spend money, cold and summer, long-term malnutrition and sleeping in the open, so that Ban Yincheng did not look like a "post-80s" young man at allIn the years without his mother by his side, he has matured and experienced vicissitudes.
Single-mindedly looking for his mother, his wife left him
A few years have passed, and Ban Yincheng has also reached the age of starting a family, but the family is too poor, whose girl is willing to marry? Under the introduction of the matchmaker, the younger sister "swapped relatives" with another family, which allowed Ban Yincheng to meet his daughter-in-law.
After getting married, the wife thought that her husband would live their little life in peace, but this was not the case.
After settling down for half a year, Ban Yincheng and his wife went out to work, in order to find his mother, he often took leave and missed work, and the money he earned all year round was less than half of his wife's.
His wife asked him:"I've been looking for so many years, what if I can't find it in my life? ”
Ban Yincheng understands his wife very well, and also thinks that if he has children in the future, there will be a lot of money to spend, he said: "We don't want children until we find our mother." ”
The wife responded:"If you want to say that, I can't wait for you".
A year later, his wife left Banyincheng. At this time, his sister also divorced her husband and remarried with her children, which made Ban Yincheng feel very indebted to his sister, and he felt that he was sorry for his sister in this life.
Although he has experienced changes in his marriage, Ban Yincheng's heart to find his mother is still as strong as a rock.
The search for mothers focuses on the countryside
Now that he has found a lot of cities, Ban Yincheng thought to himself that his mother didn't know how to read, would it be more likely to be in the countryside? Even if there is only a glimmer of hope, try it.
After that, Ban Yincheng's eyes began to turn to the countryside.
He slept in sunflower fields, drilled ditches, lived in desolate caves and dilapidated temples, the most thrilling time was in a mountainous area in Shijiazhuang, he had no extra money and dry food, walked for three days and three nights without eating, and finally fainted from hunger, almost fell into the valley, fortunately an uncle saved him.
After resting at the uncle's house for three days, Ban Yincheng regained his strength, and when he left, the kind uncle also prepared dry food for him to eat on the road.
Along the way, I met people with good hearts and poor people.
Once Ban Yincheng passed by the station, I heard from people nearby that there was an old man who couldn't find a home, and stayed there for many months, so many years Ban Yincheng would not let go as long as he heard such news, he asked around and finally found someone, and saw the old man curled up in a corner, his hair was messy, and he heard that he had been hungry for several days.
This scene made Ban Yincheng's heart ache, and he thought of his mother, could his mother have been as helpless as this old man? Will she be in ** now?
Ban Yincheng wanted to send the old man home, but the old man couldn't remember the address of his home, so in the end he left the dozens of yuan on his body to the old man.
In order to inquire about his mother's news, Ban Yincheng planned to pretend to be a seller and sell some small things such as needlework and hairpins.
In 2009, in various villages in Pingshan County, Henan Province, a seller was often seen. But when Ban Yincheng sells things, he doesn't sell his goods like other vendors, but looks around and talks with people, which makes people have to be suspicious of him.
Once, he followed an old lady all the way to the door of the house, and everyone thought he was a bad personThere have been many such misunderstandings, some have called the police to arrest him, and some have let dogs bite him.
After 17 years, the mother and son reunite and uncover the truth about leaving home
Over the years, Ban Yincheng has traveled over more than 1,000 villages and missed his mother for thousands of days and nights.
At about three o'clock in the afternoon of July 6, 2010, Ban Yincheng came to Huangjiawan Village, Pingshan County, Shijiazhuang City, and set up a stall as usual. Several women came over to choose the goods, and an aunt asked him if he was a ** person, and Ban Yincheng replied that he was from Handan. The aunt pointed to an old man who was tying firewood and said, "She is also from Handan, maybe you are still a fellow countryman!" ”
Ban Yincheng took a closer look, this person's figure looked a little familiar, and he stepped forward and asked
Auntie, are you from Handan? ”
Quang Binh County. "Where is Quang Binh County? Ban Yincheng asked nervously.
Dongzhangmeng Village, Guangping County. ”
What is your home from? Ban Yincheng's eyes moistened.
Quang Binh Suzhuang's. ”
"Your brother's name is Jia Shutian, and your name is Jia Shumei. ”
The old man was surprised: "How do you know?" ”
Ban Yincheng burst into tears, and he hugged his mother: "Mom, I'm your son, I'm looking for you so hard!" ”
Are you Fa Cheng? ”
No, I'm Yincheng, your youngest son. ”
The two hugged each other and cried, this day came too late, and they waited for 17 years!
Ban Yincheng asked his mother; Why haven't you been home for so many years?
Jia Shumei said that she wanted to make more money at that time, and a fellow villager said that he wanted to introduce her to a job, but she was abducted and sold here, and later married a local, and her current husband was afraid that she would leave, so he adopted a boy.
Jia Shumei also thought about leaving, but she had no money on her, and she couldn't find her way at all because of the mountains at a glance.
After the reunion of mother and son, Jia Shumei took her son to meet her current husband and cooked three bowls of noodles for Ban Yincheng.
The next day, Ban Yincheng took his mother back to his hometown in Nanzhangmeng Village, Guangping County, and after 17 years, 67-year-old Jia Shumei finally returned home.
As for the fellow villager who abducted his mother, Ban Yincheng hated her very much, thinking of what the family had suffered over the years, he really wanted to send that enemy to prison. Once met in the village, Ban Yincheng handed over a cigarette, but the man didn't look up, Ban Yincheng saw tears in her eyes, knew that she felt guilty, considering that she was also old, so he no longer held her fault.
After Ban Yincheng's deeds were reported, a local food factory offered him a job, and the mother and son were given a single-family house to live in for free.
Happily, Ban Yincheng fell in love with a female colleague in the factory, and the two finally tied the knot. In the past few years, the eldest son has also married and had children, and the family has lived happily together.
Jia Shumei returned to her hometown).
In 2015, Jia Shumei's adopted son was about to get married, and Ban Yincheng returned to his hometown with his mother, but this time, Ban Yincheng was happy.
Perhaps, there are still women in this world who have suffered the same as Jia Shumei, who have been far away from their families, rewritten their lives, and brought a lifetime of pain. And now, with the continuous improvement of China's legal mechanism and the improvement of people's security awareness, I believe that such a situation will no longer exist!