In the TV series "South to North", there is a woman named Yao Yuling, who is self-centered and extremely realistic.
In the story, Wang Xin was misunderstood as violent law enforcement because he caught a thief on the train and was publicly criticized by a university teacher in the newspaper.
At this critical juncture, Yao Yuling, who pursues Wang Xin passionately on weekdays, immediately proposed to break up, on the pretext that the two needed to know more about each other.
At the beginning, Yao Yuling took the initiative to confess to Wang Xin, and in order to win the favor of Wang's father, she personally went to Wang's house to play the role of a free nanny.
When Wang Xin encountered difficulties, her attitude took a 180-degree turn, and this selfish behavior was impressive. And the simple Wang Xin easily accepted her excuse and failed to see her true face.
Who would have thought that Wang Xin's heart for Yao Yuling would be so unexpected! originally thought that the two had dated in just one episode, which was dramatic enough, but what was even more unexpected was that this relationship ended in one episode.
I had speculated about the possible reasons for their breakup, but I never guessed the truth.
As for feeling sorry for Wang Xin? I can't talk about it, but this makes me feel a lot of emotion: in the world of feelings, missing is often so inadvertent, as if the time, place, and people are always difficult to complete.
It's like a train on a track, just because of the slightest change in a turnout, each heading for a different distance, and then going their separate ways.
There is also a contrasting character in the play, Ma Yan, and the reason why she lost to Yao Yuling is not just as simple as it seems. As a train broadcaster, Yao Yuling is young, beautiful and good at dressing up, even if her family is short of food, she has to exchange for cloth tickets to satisfy her love of beauty, and even starve the streets.
She violated the regulations by modifying the style of her work clothes without authorization, and it was only with Ma Yan's help that she was able to solve it, but Yao Yuling not only did not appreciate it, but opposed Ma Yan everywhere, and secretly destroyed the relationship between Ma Yan and Wang Xin.
Yao Yuling and Ma Yan are very good to Wang Xin, and Wang Xin has a good relationship with these two girls.
Although Ma Yan likes Wang Xin, she is not as unscrupulous as Yao Yuling. In order to successfully establish a relationship with Wang Xin, Yao Yuling actively curryed favor with the Wang family, frequently helped with housework, and created a false impression that she was already dating Wang Xin, especially to Wang's father Wang Yongge, so as to increase her weight in Wang Xin's heart.
In contrast, Ma Yan is more pure, maintaining a mutual support relationship with Wang Xin, studying and preparing for exams together, without too much emotional entanglement.
In addition, Yao Yuling also tried to convey her love through elaborate small actions such as folding the candy paper into a heart shape and returning it to Wang Xin in the White Rabbit toffee box, although Wang Xin did not notice it.
For a boy like Wang Xin with a straight man's physique, it is most efficient to spread out love directly. Wang Xin likes to paint, Yao Yuling asked him to paint himself, this is a romantic afternoon, which also makes Wang Xin's heart move in an instant.
Therefore, Yao Yuling's confession took advantage of the right time and place, and the two naturally began to deal with each other.
As for why Niu Dali lost to Wang Xin, one of the important reasons is that Yao Yuling saw the white rabbit toffee that Wang Xin carried with her in a hypoglycemia fainting incident, so she judged that Wang Xin's family conditions were superior.
Compared with Niu Dali, who burns boilers, has a difficult living environment and lacks the support of his family background, Wang Xin not only has a decent job, but also has a father who is the head of the passenger section as a backer.
Although Niu Dali was infatuated with Yao Yuling, he showed favor many times.
Remember the farce of Niu Dali stealing the neighbor's egg king chicken? Niu Dali gave Yao Yuling a chicken to satisfy her hunger, and Yao Yuling took Wang Xin to eat it together. When eating, Wang Xin and Yao Yuling both felt that something was wrong with this chicken.
Later, the neighbor's house lost the chicken, and only then did he learn that the chicken they ate was stolen by Niu Dali. Yao Yuling's reaction was that since no one knew about this matter, she would not admit the past, but Wang Xin said no. As a result, it was Wang Xin's money to pay for the chicken, and Yao Yuling also took out the money.
Yao Yuling was so aggrieved, and she felt sorry for her money, so she took out a small amount of money, even if this matter is solved, the story about this chicken eating is a comedian, and it is ridiculous.
It's not a big deal, but in this detail, seeing the different attitudes of the three people towards life, it's not that Wang Xin is noble, Niu Dali and Yao Yuling are despicable, it's just that in terms of the degree of kindness, Wang Xin is better than the two of them.
Yao Yuling's selfishness and reality in the face of the revelation of the matter exposed her true nature: she does not want to bear the consequences, she just wants to sit back and enjoy the results, and once Wang Xin is in trouble, she quickly withdraws to avoid being implicated.
I thought that Wang Xin and Yao Yuling's emotional lines would not intersect, but it wasn't until Yao Yuling bravely confessed and got Wang Xin's response that I suddenly realized that this is the true meaning of life - even Wang Xin, a newcomer who has just entered the society, is inevitably excited and confused in the face of emotional problems.
In the world of love, Wang Xin behaves more passively. If it weren't for Yao Yuling taking the initiative, he might not have developed feelings for Yao Yuling so quickly and chose to hold hands with her. This is just like the sentence "A teenager doesn't know the taste of sorrow, but he knows the taste of sorrow, and he is no longer a teenager."
It was Yao Yuling who made Wang Xin deeply educated in the emotional world. As the saying goes, human nature is unpredictable, but life teaches everyone a vivid lesson in its own unique way. When Wang Xin was innocently wronged and faced the crisis of unemployment, the gossip in the compound was like the last straw that broke the camel's back, and these all reached Yao Yuling's ears.
When Yao's mother learned about this, she reminded her daughter to make a decision.
In those days, the loss of the iron rice bowl meant that life would be turned upside down. Although her mother's words were influential, Yao Yuling's decision was not entirely influenced by her.
Her inner worries finally prompted her to make a decision, she made an appointment with Wang Xin, and despite the heartache, she resolutely proposed to break up.
In this short relationship journey, Yao Yuling has always been in the driver's seat, from confession to breakup, everything is controlled by her.
For Wang Xin, love comes and goes like a bolt from the blue, but he can still bless Yao Yuling when she leaves: "Sister Ling'er, I wish you happiness." The dignity of this breakup shows Wang Xin's noble personality, even if he loses his career and love at the same time at this moment.
In February, Ma Yan urged her father to help Wang Xin at home, just because they were classmates. As Ma Kui's apprentice, Wang Xin naturally got the help of his master, although in the end he only kept his job and let him be transferred to a small grassroots station to patrol the square.
And this ordinary and monotonous work seems to have invisibly diluted the pain caused by falling out of love, and also made Wang Xin gradually understand and accept Yao Yuling's choice.
The open-mindedness of humanity shown in the play makes us deeply touched.
Every character in the play does not have too violent emotional ups and downs, but is slowly ** by the pyrotechnics; Their love and hatred are not so stark, but they are gently soothed by daily trivialities.
There is no need to judge Yao Yuling's choice whether it is right or wrong, after all, right and wrong are relative. As long as she can find her own happiness, there is no fault at all.
However, the timing of her breakup was indeed difficult to let go, but this did not make Wang Xin fall into deep pain. Because he knows how to understand and accept, he understands that every relationship has two possibilities, whether it continues or ends, it needs to be respected. At that moment, Lucy Yao made a trade-off rather than empathy and understanding.
As for Ma Yan, she personally came to visit the remote station where Wang Xin worked, and also brought delicious food. From beginning to end, what she likes is Wang Xin himself, not his external conditions, and this emotion can be traced back to Wang Xin's protection of her in junior high school. This can't help but make people think: Does love really have an original intention? Perhaps, only by not forgetting the original intention can we harvest the most sincere love.
The reason why Yao Yuling chose Wang Xin over Niu Dali is because Wang Xin is better in all aspects, which is in line with her mentality of pursuing the best goal. The selfishness and realism she shows at critical moments are due to the "mother's treasure" character shaped by her mother's influence since childhood.
Whenever faced with an important choice, Yao Yuling always listened to her mother's advice, whether she pursued Wang Xin or left him, she never thought independently, which undoubtedly deepened people's impression of her selfishness and ruthlessness.