On the social account of an emotional blogger, I saw a story of a fan consulting her:
I'm now unmarried and pregnant, four months pregnant. My boyfriend opened a store in Changsha, and his income and other conditions are better than mine.
Originally, the bride price of my family was about 200,000 yuan, but because he opened three stores, he felt a little pressure, so he only wanted to give me 350,000 yuan.
Recently, I also found out that he was in contact with his ex-girlfriend, and he also asked me to sign a prenuptial agreement, and whenever I made money, it would be counted as my own.
After I got married, I couldn't go to work, so he gave me 8,000 a month to let me take care of the family and be like a nanny. ”
The emotional blogger asked the girl: "Do you think this man loves you and cares about you?" ”
As a result, the girl actually replied: "He must love me and care about me, otherwise I wouldn't have been in a relationship with him for a long time, and even wanted to have a child for him." ”
Some girls are really in love, not sober enough, and they won't look at the essence of things.
Whether a man loves you or not, please use these three criteria to test him!
Instead of just listening to a man's mouth saying, "Baby I love you so much," or just looking at whatever price a man pays for you when he wants to sleep with you.
There is a very classic movie line: The man who spends money on you may not love you, but the man who spends money on you must not love you.
In order to have intimate acts with you, men will also ask you out, give you gifts, and give red envelopes on holidays.
This is desire, not love.
But if a man, Valentine's Day will only turn you 66 red envelopes, and he is not poor, that only proves one thing:
You are worthless in his eyes, and he does not love you.
So, some people say that talking about money hurts feelings, but in fact, you can really judge your place in a person's heart from how much money they spend on you.
Some cunning men, who obviously have families, may conceal their marriage history and deceive simple girls.
Or don't seek to be motivated, be lazy and lazy, socialize with a lot of girls, like a parasite, let girls work to make money, to support them.
When a girl mentions that she wants to get married, the man starts to find all kinds of excuses to shirk it.
A woman with self-esteem and self-love will not be easily taken advantage of by men.
They believe that they deserve the best, so they are willing to stop the loss in time and separate from the irresponsible man who is full of lies.
If a man really loves you, he will fight for you, give you a home, give you a name, and give you a sense of security.
Because he is reluctant, others point fingers at you, and he doesn't want others to interfere in your relationship.
Star Sun Yi once publicly complained about her ex-husband in a variety show:
I remember it was Valentine's Day and he asked me what I wanted? Valentine's Day isn't a festival for flowers, but I waited until late, and he didn't send them. A few days later it was my birthday and the same thing happened again! ”
In fact, for many girls, the sense of ritual they want is not necessarily how expensive the gift is.
It's the men around him, and how much time they are willing to spend on themselves.
Men always say that they are busy with work, but in fact, they may be chatting with other women, or they are brushing boring short **.
He is unwilling to put effort into a woman, in fact, after getting it, he doesn't know how to cherish it, and he is not willing to manage an intimate relationship.
A woman's youth is especially precious, and she would rather spend it on improving herself than on a man who doesn't love you.
One is particularly stingy with you, full of all sorts of calculations; unwilling to introduce you to friends and relatives and marry you back home; Men who don't even give your time for you.
Even if he says he loves you, don't believe it!