Some single people will unnaturally have anxiety about marriage when they are close to 30 years old, especially women, who will have greater anxiety because of marriage. Whether it's because of the passage of the childbearing period or because the figure is starting to decline, it will make people desperate to get married.
The end result of anxiety is that most people have to go on a blind date, and when they see the blind date, they will feel infinite emotion in their hearts, do they have to live with such a person for the rest of their lives? Is it only possible to match such a person?
It's normal to have this feeling, and the people you meet on a blind date are mostly on the same condition as yourself, especially the blind dates introduced by relatives and friends. Because they think that your conditions will be more suitable and the two parties are more suitable, they will introduce this blind date.
There will be no blind date between a person with a monthly salary of 3,000 and a person with a monthly salary of 100,000 yuan, and there will be no blind date between a person who has graduated with a doctorate or an elementary school graduate. There will only be a blind date between a person who is 1.8 meters and a person who is 1.5 meters.
So,Blind dates, to some extent, are a recognition of self-worthYou can get your objective situation in the marriage market through the comprehensive situation of the blind date.
Many people will say, how can I need to get feedback from others about my own situation? Very much needed.
Most people's self-perception is not clear, and no matter how unconfident they are, they will subconsciously put on the halo of the protagonist for themselves, weaken and avoid their own shortcomings, and exalt their own strengths.
Therefore, when many people see a blind date that is suitable for them under objective circumstances, they will think in their hearts that such a person has come to me on a blind date, and what is in the mind of the introducer? This also calls good facial features, decent speech and behavior?
In fact, the person sitting across from you probably thinks so in his heart, why can I only meet this kind of person on a blind date? Is this the quality of the introducer?
If you have only met an unsatisfactory blind date, and the quality of other people is not bad, then it is reasonable, if the blind date you meet are all about the same, all of them are at this level, then you have to say, this is the adaptation of your current conditions.
It's not a bad thing to realize your objective situation in the dating market, on the contrary, it's a good thing.
When you know that your level is not too high, you will naturally find ways to improve your comprehensive level, and this process will make you progress. But if you don't want to get along with someone you don't approve of, you'll try to improve yourself and escape from that mate selection range.
Age is indeed a very important factorBoth men and women have a childbearing age, and unfortunately women have a shorter childbearing period, and egg freezing is just a cake for women, and the ** of egg freezing itself is very expensive, and most women can't afford this**.
Even if you have good economic conditions and can afford this, the success rate of fertility through egg freezing is not high, and the success rate of egg freezing after the age of 35 is no more than one-third. Even if you are between the ages of 28 and 30, the success rate is only half.
Many people stay up too late due to overtime, which leads to great problems in fertility, and there is no movement in preparing for pregnancy for one or two years, and IVF is difficult to succeed.
For people who want to get married, it is very important to know their objective situation as soon as possible, and there is no regret in life, and there is no chance to start over.
The limitation of age for marriage lies more in fertility, appearance conditions are important, but this is only a condition for entering marriage, most people who are married have the idea of having children, although children are a burden for the family, but they are also the lubricant of the family, children can make the marriage more stable, the family is happier, of course, it will also make the family burden heavier, so that the husband and wife are more tired.
Blind date is not a good way to choose a mate, but a very bad way, a way to choose when you don't have a choice. But going on a blind date early can make people better aware of their true situation and can make themselves better.
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