When pursuing a woman, a man has to judge whether a woman has accepted your pursuit through some specific things. If not, perhaps we should change our strategy. If it's accepted, then we need to do a good job of maintaining it.
This is important in every sense of the word.
Some men don't think about it. They pursue women, only care about giving, and do not seriously consider the actual situation. So that he is always in a state of confusion. Obviously, such a state of affairs is not right. When chasing a woman, the woman acquiesces to you doing these 3 things, which means that she accepts your pursuit.
Acquiesce to some physical contact, such as holding hands, hugging, etc.
This is the most obvious signal. Pursuing a woman, has been for a while. If there is no simple physical contact, the two people will always be in a state of strangers. That kind of progress is not right.
Because emotional things are like this, if you have been chasing for a while, if the woman has a certain acceptance of you and has a little affection. Then, she will acquiesce to you holding hands and so on.
In fact, there is no need to explain much about this truth. This is the most common manifestation in a relationship. With this acquiescence, it represents the woman's acceptance of you. If not, it can only mean that the woman has not accepted your pursuit for the time being. Perhaps, a woman has already made a decision, that is, she will not accept your pursuit.
And for men, this is crucial. We need to analyze it in light of the specific situation of reality. If you're courting a woman and it's been more than 2 months, you still haven't reached this step. Maybe you're thinking hard about where you go from here.
Generally speaking, this time limit is relatively normal. Of course, the specific time limit is not absolute. The key is to combine your own efforts.
It's just that in this regard, the men themselves have to take it to heart. Through this perspective, you should judge whether a woman has accepted your pursuit. This plays a very important role in our future pursuit.
Acquiesce to your participation in her life, such as meeting her friends, reaching out to your friends, sharing her life, etc.
The simple understanding is that in a woman's life, you will be more and more visible. There will be more and more intersections in your lives. And the woman will take the initiative to share the bits and pieces of life with you, and will also let you participate in her life.
You can feel it obviously, you're slowly blending into her life, and she's slowly blending into yours. Such a state actually shows that a woman has accepted your pursuit.
This is a clear signal. In this state of mutual integration, two people will slowly develop more feelings. And when a woman falls in love with you, it also starts to accumulate from this kind of moment.
For men, when pursuing women, they should judge from this point of view. In fact, as long as we are a little more careful, we can naturally observe the specific response of women from this perspective. It's just that sometimes, some men ignore it themselves. None of them themselves took their quest seriously. Of course, the reaction to these details is not perceptible.
Therefore, this requires us to be especially careful when pursuing women.
Acquiesce in communicating with her as a boyfriend, accept your kindness to her, and at the same time pay for you.
In such a situation, it can basically be judged that the woman has accepted your pursuit. For example, she will call you dear, and if you call her that, she will accept it.
You can clearly feel that she is already your girlfriend by default. In this case, in fact, your feelings for each other have reached this point. It can also be said that your pursuit has achieved phased success.
It's a vague, but very real feeling. It is impossible to describe it in words, but we can clearly feel that the relationship between us has changed.
For men, if a woman has already defaulted to you being her boyfriend. In fact, people have accepted your pursuit. But some men have to ask women to admit it in person, or to say it in person and agree to pursue it. If you have to ask for such a form of so-called formal consent to your pursuit. Actually, there is no need for this.
Because there is a difference between agreeing to it in person and actually agreeing to it. If the facts have been accepted, there is no need to tell you in person.
Do you have to tell you: I promised to be your girlfriend, do you think that a woman agrees to your pursuit?
For men, it is important to focus on de facto acceptance, rather than this verbal promise.
When pursuing a woman, the man must understand this point.
Emotional Lesson:
To pursue a woman, you should observe the actual response of the woman. Combined with the real situation, we can probably judge whether this woman really accepts your pursuit.
Generally speaking, after chasing for a while, there will be a specific response. We can really feel it ourselves. If you don't feel it, it may be that the woman has rejected your pursuit.
Therefore, for men, it is necessary to observe with their hearts. I can feel the concrete response. If you accept it, you must continue to adhere to this pursuit pattern. If you don't agree, you may have to change your pursuit strategy.
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