Yuan Yuan was born in 1953 into a family of intellectuals in Beijing. His father was a reporter for Xinhua News Agency, and his mother worked in the commercial system. They hope that Yuan Yuan will also be able to make a career in the future and become a successful intellectual. 
However, the cancellation of the college entrance examination changed Yuan Yuan's fate. He had to give up his dream of studying at university and enlisted in the army as a signal corpsman. The three-year military career was not satisfactory, and Yuan Yuan dreamed of becoming an actor one day. After retiring from the army, he was assigned to a repair shop and became a sheet metal worker. In 1978, 25-year-old Yuan Yuan finally played his first role in the movie "Wind and Rain Mileage". When he saw his face on the screen, he was so happy that he couldn't close his mouth, as if his childhood dream of being an actor had finally seen the dawn of hope. Although Yuan Yuan is always high-spirited and has a confident smile with a sunny face. But those difficult years left him with a lot of anxiety and insecurity. 
In 1984, in a crew in Gansu, 31-year-old Yuan Yuan met 26-year-old Wu Ying. Wu Ying is an actress of the Haizheng Drama Theater, she lost her father when she was a child, grew up with her mother, and has a more flamboyant and straightforward personality. When Yuan Yuan first met Wu Ying, he was deeply attracted by her generous and enthusiastic personality. His slightly irritable and introverted personality also made Wu Ying, who was active-minded, feel novel and interesting. The two soon ignited a fire of love, and Wu Ying's eager pursuit successfully opened Yuan Yuan's inner defense. In 1985, Yuan Yuan, a boy from the Northeast, married Wu Ying, a girl from Jiangnan. Life after marriage is sweet at first, but two people with very different personalities are gradually exposed to problems. 
Yuan Yuan has a slight habit of cleanliness, and he has to clean carefully every time he arrives in a new environment, which stems from the habits he developed in the army. He is also prone to anxiety and gets emotional when the environment is not satisfactory. And Wu Ying didn't cover her mouth, and said casually that she often annoyed her husband. Two actors with a lot of tempers started a "verbal war" at home, and you come and go, full of gunpowder. Yuan Yuan has a slight cleanliness habit, which brings great pressure to Wu Ying's life. Every time Yuan Yuan came home from other places, the first thing he did was to look around and tidy up his home. 
Even if it's a piece of dust or hair, he has to lock on to the target and sweep it up one by one. Wu Ying was originally happy to welcome her husband home, but he was immediately arranged by him to clean up the whole house. Yuan Yuan's obsessive-compulsive behavior often angered Wu Ying, and the two quarreled over it. Wu Ying emotionally accused her husband of being inconsiderate, while Yuan Yuan thought that his wife could not understand her suffering. In addition, the two often quarrel on the way out. Yuan Yuan drove at a high speed, while Wu Ying was worried about safety and chattered on the side. Yuan Yuan has an impatient personality and is easily impatient with the noise, and finally his wife gets out of the car and leaves by herself. 
One day in 2003, Yuan Yuan came home from out of town and saw the mess in the room, and immediately became furious. Wu Ying said aggrievedly, I will be difficult to take care of if you are not at home. After the two quarreled, Wu Ying grabbed her bag and rushed out of the door. In fact, Yuan Yuan didn't mean to make things difficult for his wife, but he would lose control of his emotions when he saw the mess. His cleanliness habits stem from the influence of his family and the environment in which he was raised. Wu Ying has never given up on this marriage, but she has been unable to adapt to her husband's temper for a long time, and she has suffered great pain in her heart. The relationship between the two is like a small boat on the sea, always stormy. 
The 90s of the 20th century was the peak period of Yuan Yuan's acting career. He has starred in more than 20 films and TV series, many of which have received impressive market response and professional evaluation. "Encounter with Passion" won Yuan Yuan Yuan a nomination for Best Actor at the Golden Rooster Awards. This series of successes has established his status in the entertainment industry. However, just when his career was in full swing, there were cracks in his married life. In the summer of 2003, Yuan Yuan returned and found that his home was messy, he couldn't control his temper and quarreled with Wu Ying, but his wife left angrily with his bag. Yuan Yuan realized the seriousness of the situation, searched everywhere for his wife, and finally found the disheartened Wu Ying in a park. 
I'll definitely change it in the future, so don't be mad at me. Yuan Yuan persuaded him softly and confessed his mistake to his wife. Wu Ying nodded with red eyes, and the husband and wife helped each other out of the park. In the fall of 2006, a car accident exacerbated the emotional crisis between the two. Yuan Yuan was hospitalized for more than a month, and Wu Ying silently stayed in front of his bed. The two hearts slowly melted in the face of life and death, and they regained the feeling that they had attracted each other deeply. In 2010, it was rumored that Yuan Yuan had a young and beautiful new love outside. Yuan Yuan's old friends came to remind Wu Ying to pay attention to her husband's movements, for fear that this marriage would break down. But Wu Ying is calm and calm, she believes that her husband will not do anything unruly. Faced with her friend's doubts, she just shook her head and said, "I believe in Lao Yuan, he is not that kind of person." 
Afterwards, Yuan Yuan asked Wu Ying if she had heard some rumors, and Wu Ying pretended not to know anything. She understands that excessive questioning will only disgust her husband and escalate the conflict. This high EQ coping style helped her get through this marital crisis and won her husband's approval. "My wife is a very wise woman. Yuan Yuan said publicly in a TV interview. He realized that his wife's small details that accommodated and tolerated his temper were all because she was managing the marriage with her heart. It is these positive interactions that help the two re-inject the reservoir of their relationship. They rediscover the joy of getting along, and the vitality of their marriage is restarted. 
In 2013, 60-year-old Yuan Yuan was still an evergreen tree in the film and television industry. The TV series "Qianmen Louzi Jiuzhangjiu" starring him was broadcast on Hunan Satellite TV** time, with an audience rating of 15%, fully demonstrating the excellence of his acting skills and reputation. The reason why he can still have a thriving career at this age is that Yuan Yuan's maintenance has contributed a lot. He leads an extremely regular life, waking up every day with a special vegetable juice consisting of cucumbers, tomatoes, celery juice and eggs, followed by morning exercises. With a strict diet, the 60-year-old can still easily complete 50 push-ups. This made many young actors sigh to themselves. The accumulation of acting skills takes time to precipitate, and the richness of the drama also needs to be carved over time. Being so energetic in his sixties depends on Yuan Yuan's self-discipline and perseverance. 
This also allowed him to usher in the second peak of acting in middle and old age. The years have passed, and the flowing water of time has nourished this marriage spanning 38 years. Once upon a time, the irascible Yuan Yuan and the straightforward Wu Ying quarreled over a trivial matter. There was also a fierce scene of running away from home and snatching the door. However, after the wind and rain, the moment the temper comes up, the two hearts will soften together. Because they know that apart from each other, there is no one in this world who can understand themselves and tolerate themselves.
Even though they quarreled and argued, the husband and wife still got along day and night. From the lively movie crew, to the deserted ward; From the joy of the peak of his career to the comfort of the trough of life; There is both sweetness and bitterness in the dictionary of feelings, they have experienced vicissitudes of life, and they have also harvested memories that only belong to this pair. And when the years left wrinkles on his forehead and white hair on his sideburns, Wu Ying gently leaned on Yuan Yuan's shoulder, and the two silver threads under the sunset shone with warm light. "Wife, are you still satisfied with the new script? "Look, the moonlight is so beautiful. Once again, they fell into a charming actor-style dialogue, and there was a lot of love between their eyebrows. February** Dynamic Incentive Program