Some time ago, the old artist Qin Yi passed away, and many people in the entertainment industry posted messages to mourn her, it can be said that she has been beautiful and bitter for a lifetime.
The first husband Chen Tianguo was drunk and domestic violence, and the second husband Jin Yan made her work hard for half her life, he was bedridden for more than 20 years and was personally taken care of by Qin Yi, and the two gave birth to a child who was still mentally ill, but even so, Qin Yi still said firmly"If I meet Jin Yan again, I will still choose to marry him".
What is the charm of this Jin Yan, who brought Qin Yi half a lifetime of suffering, marrying Wang Renmei.
Let Qin Yi never abandon him?
Since childhood, he has suffered and worked hard
Jin Yan, formerly known as Kim Deok-rim, was born in Seoul, North Korea in 1910, and his father was a Western doctor in North Korea.
Jin Yan, who was just over two years old, followed his father to become a Chinese citizen, until he was 9 years old, after his father died, he went to Shanghai with his mother to join his aunt, and finally went to live in Tianjin.
Under the arrangement of his aunt, he studied in Nankai Middle School, because he loves literature and art, and likes Mr. Lu Xun's articles, he wants to give himself a pen name called "Jin Xun", think about it and feel that it is not loud enough, his father's death has made him sad, he feels that he wants to be like a flame of enthusiasm and light, so he changed his name to Jin Yan, as his character is as diligent, tenacious, not afraid of hardship or difficulty, Jin Yan once secretly swore in his heart "I must get ahead!".
Maybe he didn't expect that his life would eventually be like a flame, and after it burned, it would turn into nothingness, leaving only others to laugh and talk about.
A generation of "actors" ran out of the trick
After graduating from high school, he went to Shanghai alone, but he was not familiar with the place, which led to his temporary poverty, he saw the tobacco company's advertisement that collecting cigarette boxes could be exchanged for movie tickets, and when he had no money to buy tickets, he picked up cigarette boxes to go to the movies, and slept on the street at night, like a homeless man.
When he admired the various lives of the characters in the movie, he thought of the hardships he had suffered since he was a child, and he was unwilling to do so
So he joined Xinmin Film Company to do chores, do scene notes, have the opportunity to contact movies and mix food and clothing, occasionally the crew needs people, and he can also run tricks, this kind of life is comforted by him"It's like a dream, and I'll be standing on the screen when I wake up! ”
After being an extras for a long time, his opportunity finally came, at this time Jin Yan had joined the Nanguo Art Drama Club as a dancer, when the drama "Salome" was about to start, he waited for nearly 15 minutes and did not see the male lead, Jin Yan temporarily put on makeup and substituted, and the applause was thunderous after the end, after which the director found his unique performance style and let him play an important role in dramas such as "Carmen" and "Song of Rejuvenation".
In 1930, Jin Yan and Ruan Lingyu starred in the movie "Wild Grass and Idle Flowers", which was an instant hit, different from the image of other male protagonists, Jin Yan's tall physique and his enthusiastic appearance brought freshness to the audience and led the new aesthetic standards at that time.
This made the director team see the value of him, let him strike while the iron was hot, and co-starred with Ruan Lingyu in films such as "Love and Obligation", "A Cut of Plums", "Peach Blossom Crying Blood" and other films, and starred in the classic anti-Japanese film "The Road".
The two are making great progress all the way, and the tacit cooperation makes many viewers automatically substitute Jin Yan and Ruan Lingyu when they mention the on-screen couple when they watch the movie in the future, the two of them complement each other, even if they are partners and good friends, but unfortunately later Ruan Lingyu fell in love and couldn't self-groom, and a generation of beauties chose to extricate themselves in the way of self-s.
With his cooperation with Ruan Lingyu, Jin Yan gained word of mouth at the same time, his acting skills were also affirmed by professionals and the massesJin Yan actually won the title of "Best Actor" for three consecutive years.
Until the liberation of Shanghai in 1949, Jin Yan relied on his own efforts to serve as the head of the Shanghai Film Troupe, and the films he participated in the filming of "The Earth Re-Light", "The Great Starting Point", "Mother", etc. have received positive responses, and Jin Yan himself has also been received by the leader, and he is in the limelight for a while.
People who are not affectionate are destined to last long
Jin Yan is not only handsome, he can basketball, football, table tennis, badminton, swimming, he is a versatile person, plus his excellent acting skills, attracting many girls and children willing to chase him, but I didn't expect a generation of handsome talents to secretly give their hearts to their partners.
Jin Yan's first wife was named Wang Renmei, and her father was a math teacher at Changsha No. 1 Normal School, and many celebrities were his students.
Wang Renmei. When she was 13 years old, her parents died, and then followed her brother to Shanghai Tang to study in the Chinese Song and Dance Troupe.
The encounter between Jin Yan and Wang Renmei originated from the movie "Wild Rose", Wang Renmei was enthusiastic and lively during the filming, completely different from many sick beauties at that time, she was like a flame shining into Jin Yan's heart, and soon he was fascinated by Wang Renmei.
At that time, Wang Renmei had the title of "Little Wild Cat", so you can imagine her image.
In the crew, she is like a pistachio, always bringing happiness to the people around her, and she also loves basketball, table tennis, swimming and other sports.
At first, her brother was adamantly against the two, but Wang Renmei had lost his mind in the depths, and she insisted on being with Jin Yan, and even they didn't hold a grand wedding.
Because Jin Yan has been accustomed to a hard life since he was a child and does not like extravagance and waste, he discussed with Wang Renmei, "We should not be as generous as others, we should be simple and simple." ”
Wang Renmei readily agreed.
On Chinese New Year's Eve that year, she and Jin Yan wore ordinary clothes at Lianhua's Chinese New Year's Eve banquet, and when the bell rang in the early morning, they each took out a small red card from their pockets and hung it on the button.
This completes the wedding.
The picture shows the witness Sun Yu (middle), and on the left and right are the groom Jin Yan and the bride Wang Renmei.
In the years after marriage, they were also sweet for a long time, and then Wang Renmei became pregnant, she didn't know how to take care of herself and her children as a first-time mother, she still jumped up and down and went swimming and horseback riding, Jin Yan didn't accompany her when she was filming in other places, and even after she gave birth, Jin Yan came in a hurry, and only stayed for one day and returned to the crew, causing Wang Renmei to have an emotional breakdown after giving birth, at that time she wanted Jin Yan to stay, but Jin Yan saw that she and the child were safe and hurried back to the crew, He felt that he had to take full responsibility for raising his wife and children, and he couldn't understand why Wang Renmei relied on him so much.
Unfortunately, the child died a few days after birth, Wang Renmei was completely dead to Jin Yan, and Jin Yan also felt that the child's loss was the reason why Wang Renmei did not take care of herself, and the two blamed each other, resulting in normalcy.
After being with Jin Yan, Wang Renmei almost gave up her acting career, and only starred in five movies in ten years.
Later, because of the Anti-Japanese War, they were displaced, Wang Renmei saw the situation of mourning and flooding, and was unwilling to be a captive domestic cat, she hid from Jin Yan to apply for the English typist exam, and joined the Dapeng Drama Club, and later Jin Yan knew, he thought it hurt his self-esteem, he felt that women should be husbands and children at home, rather than showing up outside, and the two finally chose to divorce because of ideological incompatibility.
After the divorce, Wang Renmei met her second husband Ye Qianyu, who doted on her, and the two walked through the second half of their lives hand in hand.
Wang Renmei Ye Qianyu.
And Jin Yan also met the woman who made him feel guilty for half his life, Qin Yi.
His luck was half of her life's misfortune
In the third year after the divorce, Jin Yan went to the crew to shoot "The Vast Sea" and Qin Yi also received an invitation, the two met in the crew, Qin Yi has always regarded Jin Yan as her idol, at this time she has divorced her ex-husband Chen Tianguo and officially resumed her singleness.
The former idol stood in front of her eyes, Qin Yi was uncontrollable, she was shy and excited, and the rest of the crew saw that the two of them had some signs of proclamation, and always liked to coax them, especially his friend Wu Zuguang always liked to urge the two of them to be together, it was better to choose a day than to hit the day, and decided to hold a wedding for them as he spoke.
The people of that era were simple and simple, and they couldn't stand up to their friends, Jin Yan and Qin Yi happened to be in love, and in this way, the two people who had both experienced a marriage were married.
On the day of the wedding, Jin Yan was drunk and unconscious, and he was drunk for three days.
Qin Yi thought that her first husband Chen Tianguo was violent to her because of alcoholism, and she was extremely flustered, for fear of stepping into the footsteps.
This made her have a sense of avoidance towards Jin Yan.
Fortunately, Jin Yan didn't hit anyone, which made Qin Yi feel a little better.
But what she never expected was that Jin Yan's temper and personality were far more difficult for her to accept than alcoholism.
In the second year after marriage, their son Jin Jie was born, whose nickname was Little Brother.
When Jin Yan and Qin Yi were officially in love at this time, they teamed up to shoot "Lost Love", just like the name of this movie, they later lost the love they were enjoying.
After marriage, Qin Yi's career is still booming, and after she filmed dramas such as "Railway Guerrilla" and "Northern Jiangnan", she became a hot first-line star with her bare hands.
However, Jin Yan began to conceive talents, his career went on a slippery slope, and he had a strong sense of machismo, and it was difficult for him to accept that his wife was raising a family outside and he was at home all day long, and there was no drama to film.
In addition, he used to be one of the most powerful actors, this gap made him more and more irritable, and he was even more unwilling to accept other people's accusations about his career.
With a bad career and an unbalanced marriage, he began to blame Qin Yi for these, and sometimes he blurted out when they quarreled, "You are not as sensible as Wang Renmei!" She knows to listen to me, unlike you! ”
Qin Yi saw that the object of her remarriage was like a madman, she didn't understand why she had repeatedly met people unladylike, in the endless quarrels, Jin Yan didn't think about changing herself, but began to find comfort from other women, it is said that he was confused for a while and cheated on Qin Yi's own sister.
After Qin Yi found out, she was angry and annoyed, insisted on divorce, and finally considered the children, they did not break up, but just became a formal husband and wife, maintaining a complete home in the eyes of the children.
Since then, they have been like roommates, a glamorous couple on the outside, and almost no communication between the two on the inside.
Until one time Jin Yan went to filming, due to long-term drinking, he caused stomach bleeding when he picked up the wine glass again, and had to undergo gastrectomy surgery, and since then he needs to stay in bed for a long time.
When Qin Yi found out, she abandoned her previous suspicions and took care of him personally, she thought to herself"It's already here, it's useless to talk about it, and there is no need to mention those unhappy things anymore."
However, the misfortune is not a one-way street, God seems to be jealous of Qin Yi's beauty, and does not intend to let her worry, this time stretching out his claws to their son Jin Jie.
Because Jin Jie lived in the quarrels of his parents all day long, and his home was not like home, his personality became sensitive, withdrawn, and unwilling to communicate with others, and slowly he began to have a series of mental problems.
By the time I was found to have gone to the hospital for an examination, I was already mentally ill.
At that moment, Qin Yi's sky collapsed, on the one hand, her husband was bedridden and needed to be taken care of, and on the other hand, her son was found to be inseparable from people, and this thin woman had too much to carry on her shoulders.
The ordeal of fate almost crushed her.
Qin Yi didn't worry about other people taking care of her son, so she had to take him with her while filming, sometimes Jin Jie was sick, she cried and begged her son not to slap his mother's face, because her mother wanted to make money from filming, buy you medicine, and feed the family.
During this period, Qin Yi suffered from bowel cancer, lipoma, thyroid tumor, gallbladder removal, seven operating tables, and several critical illness notices to her.
I don't know what kind of strong willpower she relied on to survive again and again, she said"I don't dare to die, what should I do with my husband and son when I die? ”
Qin Yi is such a great and tenacious woman, her tolerant mind and generosity have made her persist for so many years and never abandon her husband and sick children, she is really an admirable model.
On December 27, 1983, Jin Yan was admitted to the hospital with a sudden emphysema, and this time he closed his eyes completely.
When he was dying, Jin Yan used all his strength to hold Qin Yi's hand, and muttered in his mouth, "Little brother." Younger brother. ”
Qin Yi knew that he couldn't rest assured of his son, so he held his hand, "Don't worry, I will never give up my little brother."
Hearing Qin Yi's promise, Jin Yan slowly closed his eyes, and his hand lost strength little by little and hung down.
Later, Qin Yi took care of his son alone until he died.
As for Jin Yan, every time Qin Yi mentions it, he will praise him, "He is a very capable person, as if he can do anything".
Even though Jin Yan brought so much damage to Qin Yi, but in an interview, Qin Yi talked about Jin Yan always being radiant, and at that moment it seemed that Jin Yan illuminated everything in front of her.
Later, someone asked Qin Yi if she would marry him if she would meet Jin Yan in her next life, Qin Yi thought for a while, and said in a calm tone, "Probably." ”
In the face of the man he once loved, all Qin Yi can think of is his goodness, kind people often remember the advantages of others, and Qin Yi has been kind all his life and has kept Jin Yan in his heart for a lifetime.
And Jin Yan is so honored to be able to get Qin Yi's deep love, he has experienced ups and downs in his life, at the peak of his career, he was looked up to, looking at the mountains, and he couldn't accept the gap during the trough of his career, causing himself to fall deeper and deeper, and finally betrayed his marriage and lost his health, he got Wang Renmei's warm love and Qin Yi's selfless dedication, he was unfortunate and lucky in this life.
Even Wang Renmei wrote in her memoirs "My Fame and Misfortune" in her later years:
When I was young, the time I spent with Jin Yan was the happiest time of my life. ”
When everything settled, Wang Renmei still had the simplicity after experiencing the world, she chose to keep the best side of Jin Yan, and she did not complain through the torrent of years.
Now that the three of them are gone, we can only remember these old artists through film and television worksI hope that when they meet in heaven, they will smile and enmity, and if they meet in the next life, they may not have so much suffering as ordinary friends.