If the relationship between two people is really not suitable and cannot resolve each other's conflicts and problems, then breaking up early may be a wise choice. Here are some considerations:
Inconsistent values: If you and your partner have obvious disagreements about key values, such as important issues such as marriage, family, career, beliefs, etc., this can lead to long-term conflict and resentment.
Misalignment of goals: If you don't have the same goals for the future, such as different pursuits for marriage, career, lifestyle, etc., it may also hinder your development and happiness.
Unsolvable issues: If there is a series of unsolvable issues between you, such as endless bickering, lack of communication, serious infidelity, or betrayal, etc., these issues can cause damage and pain in your relationship that cannot be repaired.
Mental and emotional health: If you find that your relationship is negatively impacting your mental and emotional well-being, such as feeling anxious, lost, depressed, or unhappy, it could be a sign that your relationship is already unhealthy.
When you recognize that two people are not in a good relationship, breaking up early allows you to get out of the pain more quickly and find a more suitable partner for yourself and each other. However, the decision to break up is a complex process, and you may need to consider many factors, including expectations for the future, family and friend relationships, financial dependency, and more. If you have questions or confusion, it may be helpful to speak with a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor.