Love is a bridge that connects two hearts that love each other; Marriage is a prison that binds love tightly. Although we are emotionally rich creatures, even monks and Taoist priests cannot completely get rid of the troubles of the seven emotions and six desires.
Fast love is popular in modern society, and it only takes a moment from acquaintance to love and then to marriage. People often regard marriage as the perfect symbol of love, and think that love without marriage cannot last long.
However, the preservative of love is not marriage. Of course, not everyone believes that marriage is the only proof of love. Former Thai Prime Minister Yingluck Shinawatra is a legend, beautiful and rich, but she has never entered marriage in her life, why is this?
Yingluck is an independent woman who received a quality education from an early age, majoring in politics and public administration at university. However, after graduating, she did not choose to enter politics, but decided to pursue a career in business.
In the business world, she met the love of her life, Anuso Anmocha. However, despite the love of the person, she never entered the palace of marriage. In Thailand, a country that retains much of its traditional culture, a woman must take her husband's surname when she marries, and she must wear her husband's label whenever and wherever she wants.
For ordinary women, this custom may not cause much dissent, but for Yingluck, she is a woman who does not let her eyebrows go, beautiful, excellent, noble and elegant, and she is not born like a person who will be attached to a man.
Therefore, she did not choose to change her surname, but chose to stick to herself and become who she wanted to be.
Independence is not a woman's patent, and Anuso knows how to respect and understand. Yingluck chose not to marry because, she believed, it would make her independent in the eyes of others. The most precious thing about love is not in marriage, but in the fact that no matter when and where, your lover will always support your decision.
In Thailand, unmarried love faces great challenges, but Anuso's understanding and respect have allowed their love to overcome these difficulties. Now, they have a lovely son, but the law does not guarantee their marriage.
Because they believe that true love transcends the shackles of the law.
Anusso has made a name for himself in the business world, and his business decisions are so important that he is well organized. However, when his beloved Yingluck Shinawatra became prime minister, he chose to give up everything and resign as a director of the company.
He explained that this was to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and guesswork. For him, it is also a kind of happiness to be a "househusband" who concentrates on his home. Although we can't see their little lives, we can feel their happiness from Anusso's words.
As the old saying goes, men are also happy because they bring the warmth of home to their beloved.
In addition to the desire to exist as an independent individual, Yingluck did not marry for other reasons. As a legend on **, Yingluck is also a public figure.
Public figures always have their own public image to maintain, whether in politics, business or literature, all public figures need to shape their own brand image.
In the eyes of the outside world, Yingluck is a person with a gentle personality, and her image is also very good. Every time she appears in public, Yingluck's appearance is always radiant and eye-catching.
What she brings to people is always a positive image. However, once married, the brand image she has created may fall short as she will be given another surname.
The Yingluck family is full of talents, her brothers have a pivotal position in **, and the Shinawatra family is well-known in Thailand. Yingluck chose not to marry Anuso, both retaining her family name and becoming part of the family honor, in which she shines.
Therefore, her decision not to marry must have something to do with family honor. In general, Yingluck is beautiful and wealthy, and she holds a lot of power, but she chooses not to get married, as a way to highlight the advantages of women and her family, and show her unique value in life.
The value of love transcends the label of marriage, and Yingluck is undoubtedly lucky. She has an enviable family background, has received a superior education, and her independent thinking has finally become an excellent woman.
But what she is most enviable about is that she has a lover who can give up her name. Even if cohabitation is not in the name of marriage, her lover still supports all her decisions without regrets, and will not let her compromise herself, but is willing to give up her achievements to fulfill the person she loves.
Therefore, love is not just maintained by a marriage certificate or a marriage certificate. Many people who are carried away by love have more than once hoped that their lover could tie the knot with them, and even felt that only if the other party was willing to enter the marriage hall with them, could the love between the two be proven.
However, this is simply wishful thinking.
Marriage is not only a legal guarantee, but also a process for two people who love each other to live together, spend firewood, rice, oil and salt, trivial matters of life, and share laughter and tears. Although marriage certificates, marriage certificates, and weddings are a sign to family and friends that your love has been legally recognized, it does not mean that love will last forever.
Love is a romantic feeling, a poetic emotion, a walk in the rain, a moment of walking across the beach with your fingers interlocked. However, marriage is not just these romantic moments, it is more about the trivial affairs of daily life, the handling of human feelings, and the hustle and bustle of the vegetable market.
But it is in these ordinary days that two people can support each other, understand each other, and spend time together, which is true love. Entering marriage does not mean that there is love, real love is to live together in marriage, face the trivial and challenges of life together, and enjoy the sweetness and bitterness of life together.
As long as I have you by my side, one more pair of dishes and chopsticks on the table, one more person in the room, and half more clothes in the wardrobe, it is enough to make me feel happy and satisfied.
Some people think that marriage is the grave of love, but there are also people who can maintain the temperature of love in marriage. For example, Yingluck, although she is legally a single mother, still has a sincere love.
Whether you are an elite or a business leader, no matter how high your status is, when you return to life, you will also face life, old age, sickness and death, and love-hate entanglements. They will also work with their lovers in the afternoon sun and enjoy the ordinary life of ordinary people.
Therefore, the power of love cannot be limited by marriage or status.
In love, compromise is a necessary commitment, and it should not be over-exaggerated and tangled. There are some things, even if we understand what to do, we may choose to compromise for various reasons, such as housewives, who choose to be in the house not because they are unable to work or need to rely on others, but because they are willing to compromise in love, for each other, and for their own happiness.
The story of Yingluck and Anusso is the best proof of this, they chose to compromise with each other, although they did not get married, but chose to live together, and Anusso became a "househusband".
This compromise makes their love deeper and brings long-term happiness. So, compromise does not mean losing oneself, but for better love and happiness.