How ordinary people find talent, share two theories.
After graduating for more than ten years, I have been willful and casual, experienced several horizontal jumps between several professions, and have been thinking about what to do for a living. Recently, I had a harvest, and I suddenly found that I used my talent to make a career, which was too fragrant.
Talent is something that you can do easily, and others can't catch up with it.
**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan Last year, I was doing the company's personnel, and as soon as I said that I wanted to talk about performance and resignation with employees, I was so painful; Follow-up on the business of various departments, I made a ** for a long time, found a bunch of loopholes, and felt stupid.
And when I sit down to write something, I feel relaxed in an instant, I stay alone, I don't need to engage in interpersonal relationships, I am good at summarizing and discovering the highlights of words, using my good introspective intelligence, thorough self-consistency, comfort, and self-satisfaction.
So, don't make up for your shortcomings. The efficiency is low, the internal friction is large, and the results are not achieved.
How to find talents?
The most straightforward way is to look back on your experience from childhood to adulthood, what are you often praised by others? What do you do when you enjoy it and are easy to succeed? What do you spend your time and money on? That's where your talent comes in.
Share two theories.
One is natural temperament. Everyone is born with a different password, but many of them are suppressed when they grow up, but some traces can never be erased, and no matter how they are suppressed, they will always be supported.
For example, some people love to talk, even if there are knives in the world, they have to find someone to chat, she is doing the job of dealing with people; Some people lock themselves in the house at every turn, and they want a separate space, which is suitable for technology and research.
There is also a low sensitivity that is born with big nerves and doesn't care about anything, which is suitable for down-to-earth implementation; The high sensitivity of the insightful but easy to glass heart is especially suitable for planning.
The other is the Eight Intelligences. You must have heard others say that "someone has high artistic talent", that is ** and high spatial intelligence.
The most eye-catching people are those with high language and logical intelligence, and their general academic performance is not bad, and they can kill a bunch of people in seconds as soon as they learn it. (There are eight types of intelligence, and everyone can find one or a few advantages).
Everyone brings their own jobs, it depends on whether you can use it. To tell the truth, ordinary people have found their own natural advantages, and that has surpassed 80% of people.
When you are anxious and confused about your child's future, remember to remind yourself: don't bury your talents, don't stumble on your shortcomings.