There is something that you want to ask for help from, but for many reasons, you can't just say it. In this case, you might as well borrow someone else's mouth and speak your own words. "Skillfully borrow other people's words to pass on my confidants".
Embarrassing things will become less embarrassing through "I have heard people say"; If there is a risk, pass it on through others, and there will be room for advance and retreat; People who don't want or are inconvenient to face directly can also go through a third party to go through the loop, thread the needle, and solve the problem.
Borrow the words of others to convey your own meaning.
If you use a third party to convey your feelings and wishes when asking for someone, this is also a very normal thing in the process of asking for someone. Sometimes people unconsciously use this skill. For example: "I heard my classmate Wang Lin say that you are a very enthusiastic person, and you can't do anything wrong." But be careful, you can't say this kind of thing too outrageously, or you might make a joke. When necessary, it is best to do some research and understanding.
For example, if you get to know each other in advance, you can ask others about each other's situation. It is important to collect as much information as possible from the third party, especially if the initial meeting with the other party is significant. However, for the situation provided by a third party, it is not possible to copy all of them, but also to make trade-offs and flexibly quote them as needed. At the same time, it is also necessary to clarify the relationship between this third party and the person being sought. This is very important, otherwise it may backfire.