Most people live in this world, nothing more than the pursuit of these three things, power, money and sex, but most people can't get in touch with the former, so they can only retreat to the second and pursue "money and sex".
Of course, no matter which one you get, the sense of experience in life is very strong, but many people gradually deviate from the track in the process of pursuit, resulting in a mess in their subsequent lives.
And each person's level in this society is the result of the corresponding culture.
For example, many people want to make money, and then they believe the words of the boss and the dicks around them: get rich with hard work, get rich with hard work, work hard, and be a down-to-earth person.
As a result, you are a down-to-earth person, working hard for decades, and you are still struggling on a level of food and clothing, and you have lived a hard life for ten years, but unfortunately you are no longer young.
Many people want to live x and get married, so they listen to the propaganda of a certain organization: you can match and meet the opposite sex with high quality by joining our members, so you spend tens of thousands of dollars to join the so-called members, and the result is a match, maybe the other party is very demanding, and they are not interested in you at all, or.
It's been a waste of money.
Many people want privileges, so they spend money to do things and curry favor with their superiors, but in the end they don't think that they are just a tool man.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing these, but the mistake is that you are blinded by the chaos of the world and detached from what you originally wanted, so next, I will talk about the essence of "money, power, and sex".
1. Money
Some people may say that I am highly educated, really talented, have a lot of specialties, have participated in many competitions, won many awards, are very good at pleasing the opposite sex, and have a great sense of humor.
And those who only bury their heads in making money, am I not better than them, and my life is rich and interesting?
But sorry, that's the way it is, these are just pluses, don't immerse yourself in your own little world and lie to yourself.
The biggest feature of the real world is that it is very realistic, and it costs money to do everything.
Don't think you're special, you always read those ** chicken soup history books, it's really useful after reading, but it's worthless in the face of reality. Smart people will use limited time to only learn knowledge that can be implemented and can make money.
I said that if you knew at 10 that making money was extremely important, you should be a genius.
If you're 20 and know how important it is to make money, you're probably going to do better than most people. If you don't know how important it is to make money at the age of 30, there is a high probability that there is no hope in this life.
If you don't know how important it is to make money at the age of 40, you're definitely a bad guy. If you don't know how important it is to make money at the age of 50, you can just wait to die.
But what if you didn't know that money was important until you were 60? Then you should really be dying - most likely because your children don't care about you, you lie in the hospital and can't afford to take medicine, you see through the heat and cold of the world, and you know that money is very important, even the most important.
And now many people don't collect money, don't do things to collect money, but learn this skill first, that specialty, this is the step of the operation of the worker, not the freelancer, the boss, etc., it is already a cart before the horse.
There is an essential difference between a person who really wants to make money and a person who generally wants to make money. The former will dedicate his soul to money, and at the same time, most people, things, and things in life can be quantified with money, and he only enjoys the best.
This creates an interesting situation: ordinary people envy those who drive luxury cars, live in luxury houses, and hold young and beautiful women in their arms, and they also fantasize that it would be nice if they could live like that.
However, people who really have these high-quality resources must think about their work and career every day.
When you realize that making money is the only way out in life, you are enlightened and enlightened. Because money can solve 99% of the problems, there is another problem that cannot be solved because the money is not enough to ......
That is to say, if you are still in a stinky quagmire, in a stinky kennel, then you have to concentrate on making money, and you must cultivate making money into your favorite thing in life, the most important thing in life.
Your soul must be given to money, and as long as you don't, then no one can save you.
2.right
The supreme power is too far away from us ordinary people, and most people don't have that life, no ability to fight, so let's talk about some common ones.
The hierarchy within the system is already quite obvious, and many leaders like the submission of others, and their favorite word is emotional intelligence, and they will follow you in advance intentionally or unintentionally.
So the subordinates with a heart will please them with all kinds of so-called high emotional intelligence, and then the leaders will be very satisfied, and some people will please them, satisfy their vanity, and at the same time it will be more convenient to carry out some things that are beneficial to themselves.
Speaking of which, I think of privilege, and I think that all people love privilege, and if someone hates privilege, it is not because they love equality, but because they don't have the opportunity to enjoy it.
Once they have the opportunity to enjoy privileges, they love them more than anyone else.
And everyone knows the saying: with power comes money.
You are a leader in the company, everyone may respect you very much, take the initiative to greet you when you meet, call you a brother, a boss, but have you thought about it, do they respect your title or you as a person?
That's because of the aura of this title, so everyone will respect you, without this, in fact, it's nothing.
So since everyone is respecting this title, then you can delve into power without scruples and unscrupulous means within the scope of the law, and study how to get a higher position and higher rights.
People who seek power are driven by power to spend their lives, and people who seek money are driven by money to spend their lives.
Money, resources, power, strength, these things are trump cards, not hard work, steadfastness and life.
3.color
I always think that both men and women should have more contact with the opposite sex and fall in love.
After talking a lot, you will know what type of opposite sex you really like, and only then will you know which opposite sex is suitable for you.
and will not be dizzy and even bankrupt when he is deceived by the fishing girl later.
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Another is that only after experiencing it, after experiencing more, your heart will slowly settle down, otherwise you will accidentally fall into the trap if you have a ** outside.
Only when you are determined can you do a better job.
What is the current situation?
I've seen too many marriages in Guangzhou, but I'm still frantically collecting roadside wildflowers to make up for my "youth" that I didn't have time to indulge in.
It consumes and wastes energy, especially when it comes to doing business, especially when it is on the rise.
Of course, the rich do not have this kind of entanglement, and at any time, the strong will not bother themselves because of these things, because they do not lack this kind of resources, and they have stood in a higher dimension to look at this matter.
And no matter where you are, a few hundred or thousands of dollars can make an unattainable "goddess" greet you and go to the clouds and rain together.
Because in the eyes of the rich, these are not lacking, they are just condiments in life, but for most poor ghosts, beauty is still much greater than the power of money.
So no matter what, you must step out of the "color" level as soon as possible, which is a compulsory course for men.