As an old actor, Zhang Fengyi is highly respected, but as a father, he seems very incompetent. After the divorce, he didn't care about his son Zhang Boyu for more than 30 years, not only sneering at the child, but even reluctant to participate in his son's marriage.
However, in the past few years, his attitude has suddenly changed dramatically, and he has shown his love for his son very sincerely in front of **!
Zhang Boyu is completely disappointed in his father, will he forgive Zhang Fengyi and accept this father's love that has been delayed for more than 30 years, what happened in this?
Lu Liping, that is, Zhang Boyu's mother, and Zhang Fengyi once had a husband and wife relationship, but in fact, the relationship between the two is not pure.
In the movie "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon", Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping met, but Zhang Fengyi did not have a good impression of Lu Liping at that time, he felt that Lu Liping was not beautiful.
Lu Liping admired Zhang Fengyi more and more, and finally took the initiative to pursue him.
As the saying goes, men chase women across mountains, and women chase men across the veil. Although Zhang Fengyi did not have a deep love for Lu Liping, he still accepted Lu Liping's pursuit, and in the end the two successfully came together.
Lu Liping grew up in a superior family, pampered, and had extremely poor personal life ability, which caused Zhang Fengyi's great displeasure. However, at that time, he was not famous, but Lu Liping was a real big star, so it was beneficial for both parties to join forces.
In the end, Zhang Fengyi chose to marry Lu Liping in this situation.
Lu Liping is a person who attaches great importance to her family, and she learned that Zhang Fengyi's family conditions are not very good. Therefore, when they got married, she did not ask for a garage, a deposit or a wedding photo, and even bought a wedding house with her own money.
After getting married, she took the initiative to give up her career, took on the responsibility of a housewife, and learned how to take care of Zhang Fengyi, and also introduced him to some career resources. It can be said that she is a perfect virtuous helper.
It can be clearly seen how deep Lu Liping's love for Zhang Fengyi is.
Humanity, the easier it is to get something, the less it will be cherished. Zhang Fengyi's attention to Lu Liping seems to be decreasing day by day, and even after they have children, Zhang Fengyi does not focus more on his family, but focuses on his career.
Gradually, they began to quarrel frequently, until one time they lost control of their emotions and filed for divorce in the midst of a heated argument.
Lu Liping felt chilled that Zhang Fengyi did not intend to keep Zhang Boyu's child at all, but directly said that Lu Liping would take custody of the child.
Lu Liping left this sad family with Zhang Boyu, who was only three years old.
In the days that followed, Lu Liping's reputation had gradually faded, and she lived a difficult life with her children; However, Zhang Fengyi's career was smooth sailing, and he obtained the script of "Farewell My Concubine" in the second year of divorce, and began to cooperate with various entertainment industry bigwigs. Gradually, the lives of the two took on a noticeable difference.
After that, Zhang Fengyi focused more on his career and even remarried his young wife. However, at the same time, Zhang Boyu has still not been able to free himself from the shadow of losing his father, and his childhood has long been scarred.
After the divorce, the relationship between Zhang Boyu and Zhang Fengyi's father and son is actually only blood, and there is no emotional bond.
Zhang Boyu rarely has the opportunity to meet Zhang Fengyi every year, and even if he does, Zhang Boyu can't get much attention from Zhang Fengyi. The father and son are like strangers, and the awkward atmosphere makes Zhang Boyu unable to break it no matter how hard he tries.
As a result, the relationship between father and son became more and more estranged.
Later, Zhang Boyu got a stepfather, and he was very kind to Zhang Boyu, which also added a touch of happiness to Zhang Boyu's childhood.
However, Zhang Boyu has always longed to win Zhang Fengyi's love, which has almost become an obsession for him.
When he grows up, Zhang Boyu plans to study acting. His mother and stepfather were very supportive of his decision and were even willing to teach him acting skills himself.
After learning the news, Zhang Fengyi's first reaction was not to support it. At this point, it no longer matters whether he is well-intentioned or indifferent, because his answer is too blunt, bluntly indicating that Zhang Boyu's image is lacking, which seriously damages Zhang Boyu's self-esteem.
Zhang Fengyi sternly rejected Zhang Boyu's request for him to teach him acting skills, and he didn't care.
Even in the following days, Zhang Boyu invited Zhang Fengyi to the school many times to see his works, but Zhang Fengyi politely refused.
Moreover, after Zhang Fengyi knew that the child played the male lead, he did not praise him immediately, but said in a sarcastic tone, and even felt that he could become the male lead, so this drama was simply incapable.
For a kid to struggle so hard, such a blow is huge and also seriously hurts his love of acting.
However, Zhang Boyu is not willing to give up easily. In 2014, he was already well-known in the entertainment industry, and he participated in a variety show about family, hoping that Zhang Fengyi could join. However, unexpectedly, Zhang Fengyi only used the words "not doing business" to make Zhang Boyu speechless.
Zhang Boyu ushered in his wedding in the same year, which was one of the most important moments of his life. He was so eager for his father to attend that he even sent an invitation in advance.
However, to Zhang Boyu's regret, Zhang Fengyi was still unable to attend, it can be said that Zhang Fengyi was absent from all the time when Zhang Boyu grew up and then got married.
Zhang Boyu was completely heartbroken this time, and he finally decided to give up fighting for Zhang Fengyi's father's love, and chose to cherish the family in front of him.
After that, he participated in "Traveling with His Parents" with his stepfather Sun Haiying and Lu Liping's family of three, in the show, he took very good care of his stepfather, and his stepfather was also full of affection for him. The way they get along makes people feel that they are the real parents and children.
However, at this moment, Zhang Fengyi felt unhappy in his heart, and he dialed ** to condemn Zhang Boyu, accusing him of not being able to tell who his real father was.
Zhang Fengyi also explained to the outside world the reason why he did not attend the child's wedding at that time, first of all, because he felt that Zhang Boyu's wedding was too large, with a total of 27 tables, if there was only one table, it would be fine.
However, setting up only one table and not inviting friends and family to the wedding is an excuse to shirk responsibility.
Secondly, he was embarrassed that Lu Liping and Sun Haiying were both present, but it was this embarrassment that brought their father-son relationship to an end.
Zhang Fengyi really panicked after seeing that Sun Haiying had taken his place and was completely disappointed in him.
So he began to try to improve the relationship with his son, often invited the child to dine together, accompanied the child for fitness activities, and even bluntly said that he loved his child very much in front of **.
Is Zhang Boyu's fatherly love, which came a little late, still necessary?
Zhang Boyu has already given the answer in the post: "Lucky people use their childhood to ** their lives, and unfortunate people use their lives to ** childhood."
This love, which has been delayed for more than 30 years, is no longer important, and the damage it has suffered cannot be repaired overnight. What are your thoughts on this?